Aug. 19, 2024

All’s Fair in Love and Karma

All’s Fair in Love and Karma

Perhaps one of the greatest challenges is getting a sense of our true soul, that lives within our body. And just a few people have experienced near death and have also experienced the other side with some detail.
June Edward is one such person, who...

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Perhaps one of the greatest challenges is getting a sense of our true soul, that lives within our body. And just a few people have experienced near death and have also experienced the other side with some detail.
June Edward is one such person, who not only had the near death experience but also has been given the gift of insight into realms beyond this present one.
June will share her insights into the 5 lessons we need to learn to get in touch with our inner soul, as well as life beyond.

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At the end of the day, it's not about what

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you've done with those accomplishments. It's about who you've lifted up,

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who you've made better. It's about what you've given back.

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Thanzel Washington, Welcome to inspire Vision. Our sole purpose is

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to elevate the lives of others and to inspire you to.

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Do the same.

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Jean Edward, Welcome to the show. How are you.

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I'm fantastic. Thank you for having me.

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Oh, it's good to have you. This should be interesting.

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You've written a number of books, and I know that

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we'll want to talk about a couple of those today.

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But what I'd love for you to do is share with.

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The audience who you are and maybe the story behind

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how did you get to this point in your life.

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So I'm a relationship expert, a best selling author, and

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I'm a psychic medium as well. I passed to the

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other side at the age of twenty seven. I came

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back here by choice. Been in business my entire life.

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Never thought I'd be doing what I'm doing. You never

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thought I'd be talking to dead people and seeing dead

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people all over the place. To be honest, come, but

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I try to help people navigate the daily ups and downs,

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the roller coaster ride. Why are we here? Basically? How

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come the same things keep happening in my life or

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in my relationships? How Come I can't keep money in

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my hands? We're all here for specific lessons, and that's

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what I've learned, and that's what I try to teach people.

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Interesting, So, do you mind sharing with the honest a

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little bit about your death experience?

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Sure?

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So I was born with a lot of psychic ability. First,

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my first experience that I remember was about the age

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of three years old, and I remember waking up in

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the morning and hearing somebody call my name. Got out

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of bed, thinking it's one of my parents. I go

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in their room and they're fast asleep. I go back

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to my room and start realizing that there's all these

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faces in my room looking at me, which was very,

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very frightening for a child. Pulled the covers over my

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head and as the sun started coming up, I started

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seeing their shadow face, like literally face to face with me.

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It was very scary. As I got a little bit older,

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I just started knowing everything that was going to happen

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before it happened, and I would tell kids in school

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and quickly got labeled a freak, so I stopped doing that.

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Pretty kids are pretty cruel when I got older. My

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parents split when I was ten. My dad actually kidnapped

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the youngest five of us, and my job every night

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was to do the dishes after dinner. And I would

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do the dishes at night and there would be a

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woman that would keep me company. Didn't have any friends,

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so I appreciated it. She was about the age of

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forty five, so one day I asked my older brother

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who she was, and he told me that she was

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the woman that was killed in the house. Her husband

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murderer threw it down the basement stairs, and it scared

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me so much that she didn't come back anymore. She

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I'm sure she felt it and knew it. So having

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those experiences, I really tried to block any abilities that

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I had because it was frightening for most people, right

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you don't know what to do with it, and it's

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just scary stuff. So when I was twenty two, I

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injured my back at work and I needed back surgery

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and I put it off as long as I could

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because I just knew that if I went in, I

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was going to die. And that was you know, when

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you have that knowing, that's literally your soul, and it

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was giving me a heads up basically. And you know,

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after about five years, they told me if I wanted

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to have any more children, I had to have the

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back surgery. There was no choice. And I told my

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husband and I think probably my mother in law too

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before I went in that I knew I was going

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to die. And they're like, oh, no, you're just afraid

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you'll be fine, blah blah blah, and I'm like, I'm

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telling you sure enough. The night before the surgery, I

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had an MRI test done with a contrast die and

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I told them I thought I was allergic to it.

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I'd had it once before. I had a really bad reaction.

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I couldn't get off the table, and they just shruved

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it off. They're like, Oh, it's no big deal. Everybody

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has that reaction, it's normal. I'm like, what do I know, right,

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I'm twenty seven, I'm not the doctor, right. So as

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soon as they injected me with that die, I died immediately.

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And you know, I never called it a near death experience,

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and I never even heard the term until a few

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years ago because I literally died and I knew that

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it wasn't near death. So I've done a lot of

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research on it in the last year so for a

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Ted talk, And what I realized is that, you know,

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the the scientists coined that term ND because they lump

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everybody into it. So if you're going to get into

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an accident or something, your soul jumps out of your

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body and will witness it, that's considered an ND. So

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when I died, I didn't see a tunnel. I didn't

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see any of those things. I was just boom. I

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was right there on the other side, and it's amazing,

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it's really amazing.

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Over there are there other people there? Other people there?

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So that wasn't there are but that was not my

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experience at the time. At the time, my experience was

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that I could see everything below that was happening. I

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could see my body and them working on me and

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everything they were doing. I could hear the nurses and

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see them out at the podium talking about it. I

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could see the guy in the room and back of me,

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the older guy. They were working on him. And in

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the meantime, I'm like stee in front of this Imax theater.

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I'm getting a life review, basically, And it was again,

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everybody's experience is a little bit differently based on I

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guess what they want you to see. And they were

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just showing me all the times in my life that

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had been really wonderful, the people that had helped me

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and loved me and cared about me. But was interesting,

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my children weren't there. There were no kids up there.

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It was my marriage, all those types of things. And

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then I heard from behind me that it's not really

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my time. I can stay if I want to, or

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I can go back. It's up to me, and I'm

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thinking about it. I'll tell you, it was just so amazing,

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you know. I used to take I used to say

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that the two things you take with you are love

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and knowledge because I was overwhelmed with a sense of love.

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But I've since learned now that I do this work,

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that we take all of our feelings with us. I've

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brought lots of people through that are in regret or

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sadness or anger. But I was having an overwhelming sense

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of love. And then I remembered my children. I had

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two young children here at the time, and I knew

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that one of the biggest reasons that I came back

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in this lifetime was for them, and that they brought

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me the biggest joys in my life. And as soon

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as I made that decision that I wanted to come back,

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I was back in my body in a millisecond.

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Wow.

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Wow, that's amazing.

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So in one of your books, you talk about All's

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Fair and love and karma. Could you explain explain the

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meaning behind that title.

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So, karma is something that we develop in this present lifetime.

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If you do something to someone else, you do not

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make amends and you do not have remorse. Now you've

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created a karmic debt that you owe that person in

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another lifetime, same thing if they do the same thing

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to you. So karma is really not a bad thing

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because the reality is we're all here to help each other,

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and we're here for our highest and best. You're here

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for your soul to advance, for your soul to learn.

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And I've identified through the relationship mastery program that I

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have that there are five lessons that everyone has to learn,

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and they're not the easiest things to do, and if

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you don't learn them, you keep repeating. But the people

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that come into your life are there to help you.

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So you have three different types of relationships. You have

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a karmic relationship, a soulmate relationship, and a twin flame relationship.

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And we have multiple karmaic and multiple soulmate relationships, and

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twin flame relationships are extremely rare. Next to no one

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has one, even though everybody in the Internet thinks everyone's

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got one because of the movies and the books, that's

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not true. So a karmic relationship is specifically that someone

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that you owe karma to or they owe you, and

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they come into this lifetime for either you to learn

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a lesson or for you to teach them a lesson.

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And you know it's a karmaic relationship because it never

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quite feels right. It's like you're looking for the red

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flags you're waiting for the shoe to drop. And you know,

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relationships aren't just romantic. It could be your mother, your brother,

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your friend, your boss, your coworker, your dog. Everything is

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relationship or a relationship with everyone. So who is that

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person that's in your life that just doesn't feel right?

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And as soon as one or the other learn the

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really learn the lesson that you're supposed to learn, that

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relationship ends immediately. It's like you wake up the next

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morning and you're like, why do I have this person

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in my life? And it ends. If you've both learned

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your lesson, it ends amicably. If only one or the

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other has learned their lesson, it ends, but it's not amicable.

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Then you have a soulmate relationship. Now, soulmates still are

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there to teach you a lesson of for you to

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learn a lesson, but they're also there to afford you

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some love and comfort along the way. And you know

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it's a soulmate because it feels really comfortable, it's really

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nice to be with that person, feels like you've known

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them a long time. Sometimes things move a lot faster

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than normal. That's a soulmate relationship and soulmate relationships don't

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have to end once the lesson is learned. It really

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depends on what you wrote into your soul plan before

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you came here.

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Okay, and you can have multiple so my experiences.

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And said, no one said any relationship is meant to

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last forever. A lot of them aren't a lot of them.

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You may are just there to teach you that lesson

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and then it's over, even if it's a soulmate relationship.

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Interesting, yeah, yeah.

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And then twin flame relationships are literally one soul that

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split into two bodies prior to reincarnating. Extremely rare. There's

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only a like one hundred and seventy four thousand of

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them on the earth at any given time. They're here

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for a higher purpose. They're here to help humanity, and

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at some pre term and time in your life you

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will meet and when that happens, your whole world gets

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blown upside down. They are always extremely passionate, extremely sexual,

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extremely psychic, and extremely short. They last for literally a

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few days to a few months, and when it's over,

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it's like you've been ghosted. And if you're both able

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to learn the five lessons you need to learn and

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get on the path that you're supposed to be on

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of helping humanity. You'll have an opportunity to reunite in

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this lifetime. Otherwise you'll have to wait till you get

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to the other side again. And that's the case with

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most twin flent flames. They don't reconnect. Only one of

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the two will understand the connection immediately, and it's complete

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devastation for that one because you know no one else

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will ever compare. They'll never get that feeling back again.

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There'll always be settling with anybody else in their life.

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It's a very challenging relationship.

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Well, and you know it's interesting. I'm sure that you

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get a lot of do you get a lot of pushback?

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Let me ask you as a question, do you find

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that as a medium? I mean, that is still a

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little bit on the outside of what we would call

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normal culture. You're talking about past lives reincarnation. I just

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wrote a blog on that and compared that to the

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possible DNA memory as well as universal conscious that Carl

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Jung talks about how we can have all of these

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memories and so forth. But do you find us a

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bit of a challenge being a little bit outside of

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the box on that?

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I look at it this way. I've been attacked by many,

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many people. Even doing a podcast, I'll be attacked because

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I'm not humble enough having died and come back. Well,

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you know what, everybody wants to live here for drama.

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They want to live for you know, we're in a

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three D experience here. Yes, you're supposed to be living

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this reality. But I find a lot of people are

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trapped in this reality and they can't think beyond because

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our belief system is based on what we've been to

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hot right, what we've been told, or what we experience.

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And when people put blinders on and don't see what's

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going on around them, they're not going to experience the

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reality of what this world is. There are miracles that

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happen every day all around us. Tell me how a

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bumblebee flies? Yeah, it's a miracle. It's because no one

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ever told it. It can't aerodynamically, it can't fly. My

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son's a pilot, and I asked, and what they tell you,

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You know, in the Air Force academy, would they tell

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you about a bumblebee? They're like, they don't really know.

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They think it's some up lift of air.

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They don't know.

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So you have to you know, until something happens to you,

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you're not going to really want to change the way

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you see things. It's just like, you know, say there

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was a bank robbery, right and they want eyewitness accounts.

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Do you know ninety percent of those people can't eyewitness

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anybody because they don't pay attention enough to what's going

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on around them. That's the reality. It's like atheists.

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You know.

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I've known a couple of people in my life that

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were atheists, and I was shocked at one of them

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because I'd been friends with them for years and never

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knew they were an atheist. And I'm like, there is God,

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trust me. I died, there was enough, there's more beyond here.

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They're like Noah, like ants, once we die, we're dead.

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We're dead.

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I'm like no. So it's interesting because the closer we

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get to our maker, the more curious we are, the

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more we want to know. And he's not an atheist anymore.

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And I asked him what happened. He wouldn't tell me.

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But you know, something will happen to everyone at some

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point that will make them question their reality.

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It will well, And I'm curious when you talk about

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this life. All right, this is the hero, and now

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why are we here? What are we here to learn?

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So we come back for different reasons. We reincarnate. What

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I've been able to determine is about every three hundred

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three and fifty to four hundred years of our time

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because time is different. The faster you move, the slower

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time is. And then moving at the other side, like

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one hundred and eighty six thousand miles an hour or more,

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that's the speed of light, right, So time is slower there, yeah, slower.

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Here, Okay, faster there. Yeah.

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So when you're on the other side, it's like you

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don't have a body. You can only live vicariously through

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the people that are here. You're still living the last

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existence on earth that you had here. So they're still

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very connected to the people that were here. They're family members,

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their friends, the things they used to like and enjoy.

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They're still very connected to that last lifetime when they're

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on the other side and they choose to wait until

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generations are gone and nobody remembers them before they decide

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to come back. But they come back for different We

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come back for different reasons. We come back because we

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don't have that body, so you can't smell you can't taste.

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You actually can't go out and do fishing, you can't

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have sex, you can't do any of those things. So

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it's nice to be able to experience those things in

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the three D world. So it's a little bit of

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a mini vacation. We also come to collect our karmic debts,

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to pay back the karmic debts that we owe, and

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those are all done towards teaching us the five lessons

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that we need to learn. That are all about advancing

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our soul. Because on the other side, there's different levels

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in heaven and you go to that different level based

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on how advanced your soul is. So it's all about

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advancing your soul. So we come back to help each

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other learn those lessons as well. Those are the main

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reasons that we come here. And we're not here for

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that long when you think about it.

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No, no, when you look at an eternity, it's a

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long time. Yeah.

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Think of an eye that we're here.

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Well, and what do we need to learn here? I

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mean you talk about five lessons, so and the question

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is what level do you need to reach based on

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your belief in reincarnation? What do you need to reach

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to a point where you are able to move forward.

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Then you know, I've spent I've spent months in Thailand

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and I've really studied Buddhism. I've found that a fascinating concept.

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And you know, he talks about reaching a certain level

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and then either intercarnaine or if you reach a certain level,

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you're able to move on to heaven. And you talk

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about heaven with different different levels.

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So having been there, you're already in heaven as soon

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as you die and choose to go into that light.

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If you don't choose to go into that light, then

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you're stuck here as a lower vibrational entity. People call

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them ghosts.

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Okay, so you can choose to go into the light

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when you die, is that correct?

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You can. There's a lot of people that don't for

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lots of reasons. Some people are afraid of being judged. Okay,

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they've lived this last lifetime saying people telling them, oh,

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you're gay, you're never going to go to heaven. You're

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going to be stuck. So now when they die, they're

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stuck because they think if they go to heaven they're

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going to get judged. Is not true. You are not

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judged when you go to heaven not at all. Other

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people don't realize they're dead. So a lot of children

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I find that are wandering around because they've passed away.

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They don't know they're dead, and they're looking for their parents.

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So you know, a lot of times I have to

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call their parents are relative from the light to bring

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them into the light so that they'll go into the light.

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And other people they don't really realize they're dead for

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quite some time. They might follow their body from the

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hospital to the funeral pallor or when they're just wandering around,

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they'll see the light, but they don't really understanding that

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they're supposed to go into it. So there's lots of

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different reasons that people don't go into the light. I

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think the majority of souls do, however, go into the light,

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and it really doesn't have anything to do with how

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advanced your soul is. There's a lot of people here

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that are not advanced souls. They still go to heaven,

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they just go to a different level. There's many levels,

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how many levels, I don't know. They I'm not allowed

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to go any low, any higher than the fifth dimension,

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which is the lowest level of heaven. And that's where

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I went when I died the first time. I can

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go back and forth from there at will Now. When

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my mom died, there was an angel in the room

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at the time, and I asked her if she saw

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the angel, and she didn't see the angel right away.

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When I came back the next day and they told

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me she had stage four cancer, she had a couple

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hours left, I asked her if she saw the angel

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at that point. She said she saw him. So during

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the night I asked him his name, and he said

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it was Mackayel, not Michael Mackayel, and I looked it

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up because he said it was Mackayel and Mackuyel, it said,

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was the angel that brings advanced souls to the higher realms.

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I looked it up, you know, like a year later,

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and found out that Mackayel is Michael. But if Hetty

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said it changel Michael, I wouldn't have looked it up,

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and I wouldn't have known that there were advanced realms

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or higher realms. So from there, when my mom's soul

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left your body, I got to see that, and I

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saw him as well as her relatives take her to

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the higher realms, and my dad was already there, and

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two sisters were already there that met her. Now they've

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allowed me to also see it from the outside to

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see what it looks like, and it just looks like

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the Crystal Tower. But they've explained it to me that

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it's like a layer cake and that you go to

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the level based on your belief system and how advanced

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your soul is, because you kind of stay with groups.

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You have a big soul group that we all stay

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with and reincarnate with. But there's hundreds of millions of people,

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if not billions, in each of those soul groups. But

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then that soul group also breaks down into the different

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layers based on how advanced your soul is and your

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belief system, So it's kind of complicated.

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Are you able to actually move up once you're in

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a group? Are you able to if you really have

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a desire to do that, are you able to move

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up into different levels?

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So I believe it has to do with advancing your soul.

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Hence the reason that we have those five lessons that

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we have to learn in order to advance our soul

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and go up to those levels.

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Yeah, okay, so question, how does one accept the validity

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of what you're talking about because you're experiencing something that

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most of us never experience. Now, please let me say

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I have no doubts. Okay, I have no doubts what

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you're talking about. It's very familiar as as a matter

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of fact. But how do you help people to be

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able to understand that, you know what this is valid,

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so that as they accept that, then they're able to

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allow you to help them in the various ways that

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they need.

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So the reality is this, while you're here in this body,

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we all have a brain in our head.

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Right.

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Your brain is nothing more than a massive computer. It

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helps you process all the information that you have. Some

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people's computers are smarter and better than others. Right, But

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your brain has a specific job. Your brain's job is

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to protect you. How does it do that? It does

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it by creating fear. So most people are making all

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their decisions in life based on fear. When you do that,

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it's a fifty to fifty crapshoot. Sometimes it's right, sometimes

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it's wrong, but you're always questioning it.

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Right.

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I teach people how to get in touch with their soul.

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Your soul is that knowing everyone's had something in their

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life that they just knew they was supposed to do.

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They didn't think it through, they just did it and

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it worked out fine one hundred percent of the time.

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So you can think things through all you want in

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your brain, but you're only going to come to different

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conclusions when you get in touch with your soul. You'll

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understand what's true, what's not true, Okay, what you're supposed

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to be doing, those types of things. So anyone that's

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listening to this podcast is listening to this for a reason.

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There's nothing random in life. They may take something I

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said and agree with it, understand it. Others may say, huh,

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that sounds like a bunch of prep. I'm not here

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to try to convince anyone, to be quite honest with you,

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I'm just here to try to help whoever. I can

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give them the information that I know and take with

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it what they will. If it helps them improve their

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life and better their circumstances here, then that's my goal.

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It's just like people can't see energy, right, just like

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micro waits can't see that. You can't see the ear

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you're breathing. You can't see energy, but it's there. Animals

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can see energy the shapes of their eyes are different.

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Colors don't actually exist. We see color because the shape

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of our eye and the way the light reflects off

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of things. Okay, so I have the ability to see energy.

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I have since I was a kid. I think that's

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why I see the ghosts. But since I came back,

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you would think that as soon as I died and

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came back at twenty seven, that would have been in right.

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00:23:53.200 --> 00:23:56.400
That was not the case. I still had fear, and

464
00:23:56.440 --> 00:24:01.079
you cannot do anything with fear because your brain blocks it. So,

465
00:24:01.200 --> 00:24:03.680
for instance, my dad, when he was ninety three, was

466
00:24:03.720 --> 00:24:07.039
on his deathbed. I went up to see him one

467
00:24:07.119 --> 00:24:08.880
day and he's like, I want to talk to you

468
00:24:08.880 --> 00:24:11.119
about what you do. I'm like, oh, that's interesting. You

469
00:24:11.160 --> 00:24:14.200
always said it was crap, right, I'm nuts, Right, what

470
00:24:14.240 --> 00:24:16.519
do you want to know? He goes, well, I want

471
00:24:16.559 --> 00:24:18.319
to know why I wake up every morning and I

472
00:24:18.359 --> 00:24:21.039
see my mom standing next to my bed. I said, well,

473
00:24:21.079 --> 00:24:23.079
it's about time, dad, she's been staying there for like

474
00:24:23.160 --> 00:24:27.119
a year. He said, she's there, so when it's your time,

475
00:24:27.240 --> 00:24:29.759
she's going to help transition you to the other side.

476
00:24:30.079 --> 00:24:31.799
He goes, well, that's not really what I want to know.

477
00:24:31.920 --> 00:24:33.720
I said, well, what do you want to know? I

478
00:24:33.720 --> 00:24:36.079
want to know why When I wake up, I see her,

479
00:24:36.119 --> 00:24:39.160
but then she disappears after a couple seconds. I said,

480
00:24:39.200 --> 00:24:41.960
she didn't disappear, Dad, she's still standing here. I said,

481
00:24:42.000 --> 00:24:46.000
your brain kicked in and is blocking it. That's the reason,

482
00:24:46.519 --> 00:24:49.599
and this is the reason that people question everything so

483
00:24:49.759 --> 00:24:53.559
much instead of listening to that soul, that gut feeling

484
00:24:53.880 --> 00:24:57.480
and knowing if something is true or not true. You know,

485
00:24:57.480 --> 00:24:59.759
it's just like walking into a room and feeling the

486
00:24:59.799 --> 00:25:03.440
end right reading the room. It's the same thing. And

487
00:25:03.480 --> 00:25:05.839
when you learn how to get in touch with your soul,

488
00:25:05.880 --> 00:25:07.960
you can do that all the time. And when you

489
00:25:08.000 --> 00:25:10.359
get out of your head, you can start seeing these

490
00:25:10.400 --> 00:25:13.720
things for yourself. You don't have to believe me, you

491
00:25:13.759 --> 00:25:14.839
can just see them yourself.

492
00:25:15.839 --> 00:25:18.079
Yeah, that's true. So you talk a lot about the

493
00:25:18.119 --> 00:25:19.960
five lessons that we have to learn. I love for

494
00:25:20.039 --> 00:25:23.000
you if you don't mind to share each of those

495
00:25:23.079 --> 00:25:25.519
lessons for the audience. And what are they that we

496
00:25:25.599 --> 00:25:27.519
need to learn to be able to reach a level

497
00:25:27.759 --> 00:25:29.799
that we can move forward in a positive way.

498
00:25:30.480 --> 00:25:32.960
So the first lesson, and I, you know, I'd like

499
00:25:33.000 --> 00:25:35.000
to say it's the most important. I don't know it's

500
00:25:35.039 --> 00:25:37.240
the most important, but I think it's where everything starts.

501
00:25:37.480 --> 00:25:41.160
Is self worth and self worth is not value. Value

502
00:25:41.200 --> 00:25:44.160
is what other people place on you. Self worth is

503
00:25:44.200 --> 00:25:47.000
the understanding that you are so important that you are

504
00:25:47.000 --> 00:25:49.920
the only one of you in this entire universe. Even

505
00:25:49.960 --> 00:25:53.279
if you're a twin, you have different likes, different dislikes,

506
00:25:53.319 --> 00:25:58.640
you even have different fingerprints. You're separate, Okay. And it's

507
00:25:58.720 --> 00:26:03.240
not selfish and not narcissistic as society would like you

508
00:26:03.279 --> 00:26:06.119
to believe. To put yourself first, it's where everything else

509
00:26:06.160 --> 00:26:09.240
comes from. If you can't take care of yourself first,

510
00:26:09.319 --> 00:26:11.079
you're just not going to be here for anybody else,

511
00:26:11.119 --> 00:26:12.559
are you that that's right?

512
00:26:12.799 --> 00:26:15.200
That's right, and people won't need to help. Yeah, And

513
00:26:15.240 --> 00:26:19.359
I think people misunderstand narcissism. It's one thing to focus

514
00:26:19.400 --> 00:26:21.680
on yourself as another thing to be at a level

515
00:26:21.720 --> 00:26:22.200
that is.

516
00:26:22.799 --> 00:26:24.160
Universe circles around you.

517
00:26:24.240 --> 00:26:27.039
That's yeah. Okay, So that's number one self worth.

518
00:26:28.240 --> 00:26:31.319
It's also understanding that no one has power over you.

519
00:26:31.599 --> 00:26:33.359
I can't look at you and say, hey, I want

520
00:26:33.400 --> 00:26:35.680
you to fall in love with me. It doesn't work

521
00:26:35.720 --> 00:26:38.920
that way. You are the only person that's responsible for

522
00:26:38.960 --> 00:26:41.839
how you feel. I can't make you mad, I can't

523
00:26:41.880 --> 00:26:44.200
make you love me or make you angry. Those are

524
00:26:44.240 --> 00:26:48.119
all on you. How you feel is all on you. You

525
00:26:48.079 --> 00:26:50.720
have to be responsible for that because you are responsible

526
00:26:50.759 --> 00:26:53.880
for your actions and your reactions. Okay, those are huge.

527
00:26:54.559 --> 00:26:57.519
We live in a society. Now, Well, you've hurt his feelings. No,

528
00:26:57.880 --> 00:27:00.039
I didn't. I said what I needed to say. And

529
00:27:00.079 --> 00:27:01.799
if his feelings are hurt, then that's him.

530
00:27:02.039 --> 00:27:02.440
That's it.

531
00:27:03.920 --> 00:27:07.680
The second one is trust and communication. And you have

532
00:27:07.759 --> 00:27:10.519
to trust first of all, that there is a higher power.

533
00:27:10.839 --> 00:27:13.319
It doesn't matter what you call it. You can call

534
00:27:13.359 --> 00:27:17.480
it Buddha, you can call it I don't know. Pick

535
00:27:17.519 --> 00:27:20.079
any religion. There's hundreds of thousands of them, right, but

536
00:27:20.119 --> 00:27:23.200
there's only one. And I call it either God or

537
00:27:23.240 --> 00:27:27.599
source energy. There's only one and that's it. And you

538
00:27:27.720 --> 00:27:30.359
have to know that there is a higher power. And

539
00:27:30.400 --> 00:27:33.240
you also have to know that there is a plan,

540
00:27:33.559 --> 00:27:36.279
and you made this plan before you came here. So

541
00:27:36.319 --> 00:27:38.319
if you don't like what's happening in your life, guess what,

542
00:27:38.359 --> 00:27:40.839
You've got nobody to blame but you. When you get

543
00:27:40.839 --> 00:27:43.359
stubborn and you're not on your path, the universe will

544
00:27:43.400 --> 00:27:46.400
step in. Suppose you were supposed to move from here

545
00:27:46.440 --> 00:27:49.240
to California and you're being very stubborn and you I'm

546
00:27:49.240 --> 00:27:50.880
not going to move. I'm not going to move. Well,

547
00:27:50.880 --> 00:27:52.799
the universe will step in. Maybe they'll make you lose

548
00:27:52.799 --> 00:27:54.480
your job or burn your house down, so you've got

549
00:27:54.480 --> 00:27:56.599
no choice to go right, because that's where you're supposed

550
00:27:56.640 --> 00:28:01.599
to be. You also have to be able to communicate

551
00:28:01.640 --> 00:28:04.039
you wants and your needs to the people in your life,

552
00:28:04.079 --> 00:28:06.519
because people don't know what you want or you need.

553
00:28:06.599 --> 00:28:09.400
Just by osmosis, you have to learn how to communicate,

554
00:28:10.000 --> 00:28:12.200
and then sex is nothing more than just another form

555
00:28:12.240 --> 00:28:16.599
of communication. If you can't communicate and trust outside the bedroom,

556
00:28:16.640 --> 00:28:18.079
you're not going to be able to do it inside

557
00:28:18.119 --> 00:28:22.400
the bedroom. It's that simple. Then you have unconditional love.

558
00:28:23.079 --> 00:28:25.640
Unconditional love is not saying, oh, I've got to stay

559
00:28:25.640 --> 00:28:27.759
in this relationship with him even though he only beats

560
00:28:27.759 --> 00:28:31.160
me on Sundays because I'm supposed to be practicing unconditional love.

561
00:28:31.640 --> 00:28:34.119
This is where self worth will step back in because

562
00:28:34.119 --> 00:28:37.319
each of the lessons will keep reinforcing the next lesson.

563
00:28:38.720 --> 00:28:42.519
Unconditional love is saying, listen, we had a great run.

564
00:28:42.599 --> 00:28:44.680
It was good while it lasted, but neither one of

565
00:28:44.759 --> 00:28:46.920
us are getting joy from this. At this point, It's

566
00:28:46.960 --> 00:28:49.279
time for us to move on. I want the best

567
00:28:49.319 --> 00:28:51.799
for you, I want the best for me, and it's

568
00:28:51.839 --> 00:28:54.240
meaning it. It's not you know, waiting till the weekend

569
00:28:54.279 --> 00:28:57.559
when you're in you know, company of mutual friends and

570
00:28:57.559 --> 00:29:00.240
then bad mouthing them. That's not what that is, really

571
00:29:00.279 --> 00:29:03.119
truly wanting the best for everyone in your life, whether

572
00:29:03.160 --> 00:29:05.839
you're able to keep them in your life or not. Okay,

573
00:29:05.920 --> 00:29:07.839
you can still send them love and want the best

574
00:29:07.839 --> 00:29:10.640
for them. That's unconditional love. Suppose you had a child

575
00:29:10.720 --> 00:29:13.160
that you loved dearly and they did something horrific, like

576
00:29:13.160 --> 00:29:15.359
they murdered a neighbor in a fit of rage, and

577
00:29:15.400 --> 00:29:17.200
they go to prison for the rest of their life.

578
00:29:17.599 --> 00:29:19.880
You don't like what your child did, but hopefully you're

579
00:29:19.880 --> 00:29:23.200
still going to love your child. That's unconditional love. And

580
00:29:23.279 --> 00:29:25.640
then I've had people tell me, well this conditions there

581
00:29:25.640 --> 00:29:28.920
it was your child or you know, it was a relationship. Well,

582
00:29:28.920 --> 00:29:31.680
if you can't learn it that way, the unispars will

583
00:29:31.759 --> 00:29:34.599
keep stepping it up for you. Maybe a drunk driver

584
00:29:34.680 --> 00:29:36.880
will take your child. Now, are you going to spend

585
00:29:36.880 --> 00:29:40.279
your life hating the drunk driver because they took your

586
00:29:40.319 --> 00:29:42.359
child's life, or you're going to be able to understand

587
00:29:42.400 --> 00:29:45.519
that there's lessons there for everyone, the driver, probably, the

588
00:29:45.559 --> 00:29:49.680
medical community, yourself, may and that your child had this

589
00:29:49.799 --> 00:29:51.920
written into his plan, that he wasn't going to stay

590
00:29:51.960 --> 00:29:54.039
here for that long, he was going to go back early.

591
00:29:54.720 --> 00:29:57.720
You have to be able to learn that lesson. It's

592
00:29:57.720 --> 00:30:01.279
a difficult lesson for a lot of people. It's very challenging.

593
00:30:02.920 --> 00:30:06.960
Then you have money and balance, so everything in the

594
00:30:07.079 --> 00:30:09.519
universe has to stay in balance. This is why you

595
00:30:09.599 --> 00:30:11.599
have good and evil. It's why you have the night

596
00:30:11.640 --> 00:30:16.119
in the day. Everything has to stay in balance. And

597
00:30:16.240 --> 00:30:20.000
money is energy. That's why it's called currency, and it's

598
00:30:20.039 --> 00:30:22.640
what we use in this three D world to show

599
00:30:22.680 --> 00:30:25.960
whether or not your life is in balance. If you're

600
00:30:26.079 --> 00:30:29.839
working eighty hours a week to earn some money, then

601
00:30:29.920 --> 00:30:31.839
you don't have any balance in the rest of your life.

602
00:30:31.920 --> 00:30:34.759
There's no time for your friends, your family, your hobbies, right,

603
00:30:35.319 --> 00:30:37.680
and then you're putting all this money aside and you're

604
00:30:37.720 --> 00:30:41.599
saving it, you're not spending it. Everything else is going

605
00:30:41.640 --> 00:30:44.319
to be out of balance. You can't hoard it. Money

606
00:30:44.400 --> 00:30:46.400
is energy, so it has to go. It has to

607
00:30:46.400 --> 00:30:49.079
flow like a river. What you put out will come back.

608
00:30:49.519 --> 00:30:52.039
The universe wants you to live in abundance. No one

609
00:30:52.079 --> 00:30:54.720
is supposed to live in lack. Even you know the

610
00:30:54.720 --> 00:30:57.160
beggar that's on the street, if he wants a hot

611
00:30:57.200 --> 00:31:00.640
meal and a bed to sleep in, communicate ask. The

612
00:31:00.759 --> 00:31:03.400
universe will will send somebody to tell them where to go.

613
00:31:03.839 --> 00:31:05.920
You have to do the work to get the reward.

614
00:31:06.000 --> 00:31:09.559
That's how the universe works. But if you're asking and

615
00:31:09.640 --> 00:31:12.920
paying attention, it will be shown to you. And then

616
00:31:12.960 --> 00:31:15.799
the last lesson is patience, because it's not always going

617
00:31:15.839 --> 00:31:18.680
to come immediately. Things are going to come to you

618
00:31:18.839 --> 00:31:21.240
at the perfect time, the time they're supposed to come.

619
00:31:22.000 --> 00:31:26.640
Suppose you've been you're getting older in years, you haven't

620
00:31:26.640 --> 00:31:30.319
gotten married or had a family yet, doesn't mean it's

621
00:31:30.359 --> 00:31:32.599
never going to happen. If it hasn't happened yet, it's

622
00:31:32.680 --> 00:31:34.640
because that's the way you wrote your plan. Maybe this

623
00:31:34.759 --> 00:31:37.160
time around you wanted to do it without raising children.

624
00:31:37.240 --> 00:31:39.640
Maybe you wanted to travel. I don't know, but it

625
00:31:39.720 --> 00:31:41.759
doesn't mean it's never going to happen. Maybe when you're

626
00:31:41.839 --> 00:31:43.839
sixty you're going to marry a forty five year old

627
00:31:43.839 --> 00:31:46.759
widow and raise his younger children for him. You don't know.

628
00:31:47.519 --> 00:31:50.160
You just have to trust and have that patience that

629
00:31:50.680 --> 00:31:53.839
once you've asked the universe for something, it is eventually

630
00:31:53.880 --> 00:31:57.559
going to come to you. It always does. So that's

631
00:31:57.599 --> 00:31:59.799
one of the biggest things too, is patience.

632
00:32:00.240 --> 00:32:03.880
Patients, and you find it with those five elements, you

633
00:32:03.960 --> 00:32:07.759
have achieved a certain level of you know, and I

634
00:32:08.279 --> 00:32:12.240
talk a lot about how important it is the beingness

635
00:32:12.839 --> 00:32:15.240
rather than the doing thisess. In other words, you know,

636
00:32:15.720 --> 00:32:18.480
I'm to be rather than to do. You're talking about

637
00:32:18.880 --> 00:32:24.960
in many cases here being it's something that you create

638
00:32:25.039 --> 00:32:26.759
within your soul, within your body.

639
00:32:26.799 --> 00:32:29.119
Is that true?

640
00:32:29.319 --> 00:32:31.799
It is? But you're also here to live this three

641
00:32:31.880 --> 00:32:35.079
D life. So this is where it's all intertwined for you.

642
00:32:35.720 --> 00:32:39.000
And the reason that I learned these lessons was because

643
00:32:39.640 --> 00:32:43.559
about five years ago I created the Relationship Mastery program

644
00:32:44.400 --> 00:32:47.880
and I geared it towards people that having difficulty in

645
00:32:47.920 --> 00:32:52.960
their relationships their marriages, and I only work with one person.

646
00:32:53.160 --> 00:32:55.720
I don't believe in working with couples because then you

647
00:32:55.880 --> 00:32:58.480
just you know, you just the referee at that point,

648
00:32:59.039 --> 00:33:02.160
because it only takes it's one person to make or

649
00:33:02.279 --> 00:33:05.880
change anything in life. For every action as an equal

650
00:33:05.880 --> 00:33:09.720
of greater reaction. So when you change, everything around you changes.

651
00:33:10.400 --> 00:33:14.200
And because where energetic beings were like magnets, we're always

652
00:33:14.240 --> 00:33:16.680
either attracting or repelling at any given time. It's just

653
00:33:16.720 --> 00:33:19.359
like a radio station. You can't get the station in

654
00:33:19.440 --> 00:33:23.400
unless you're on the right frequency. Right The energy vibration

655
00:33:23.880 --> 00:33:27.160
all different names for the same thing. So when you

656
00:33:27.240 --> 00:33:30.880
raise your vibration, if you're supposed to be with those people,

657
00:33:31.000 --> 00:33:33.440
they're going to raise their vibration as well because they're

658
00:33:33.440 --> 00:33:36.599
on that energetic frequency, and anyone else is going to

659
00:33:36.680 --> 00:33:40.680
drop off. So it only takes one person to make

660
00:33:40.759 --> 00:33:44.599
or break any situation. And everyone that went through my program,

661
00:33:44.680 --> 00:33:47.480
I put hundreds of people through that program. Every single

662
00:33:47.480 --> 00:33:50.960
solitary one of them was learning these five lessons well.

663
00:33:51.000 --> 00:33:54.799
And so any stories, I mean, I spoke with someone

664
00:33:55.000 --> 00:33:57.119
you know a couple of months ago and talked about

665
00:33:57.160 --> 00:34:00.640
how you know, as you say, you reach a certain

666
00:34:00.720 --> 00:34:04.039
level of who you are and that affects everyone around you.

667
00:34:04.160 --> 00:34:07.400
So in relationships where you're talking about, you know, a marriage,

668
00:34:07.480 --> 00:34:11.119
for instance, and they're struggling, any stories about how you've

669
00:34:11.159 --> 00:34:14.800
helped just the one person, and how by them becoming

670
00:34:15.599 --> 00:34:16.159
who they.

671
00:34:16.039 --> 00:34:17.320
Need to be one of them?

672
00:34:17.599 --> 00:34:20.639
Well, just one right now, that would be great that

673
00:34:20.960 --> 00:34:23.679
they actually solve their partner three.

674
00:34:23.599 --> 00:34:26.239
Two different ones. So, okay, thing I would always tell

675
00:34:26.280 --> 00:34:29.519
my students, and I will tell everyone, I will never

676
00:34:29.639 --> 00:34:31.639
tell you whether or not you belong with that person.

677
00:34:31.920 --> 00:34:34.280
That's something you have to decide once you get in

678
00:34:34.320 --> 00:34:35.119
touch with your soul.

679
00:34:35.519 --> 00:34:36.000
Okay.

680
00:34:36.679 --> 00:34:38.119
So I teach them how to get in touch with

681
00:34:38.159 --> 00:34:40.880
the soul, how to raise the vibration and then the

682
00:34:40.960 --> 00:34:43.280
law of attraction also kicks in as well, and how

683
00:34:43.280 --> 00:34:46.360
to balance their energy that way you maintain it. So

684
00:34:47.039 --> 00:34:49.320
I had one woman in particular that I can think

685
00:34:49.360 --> 00:34:53.679
of that was an extremely abusive relationship and she started

686
00:34:53.719 --> 00:34:57.000
going through the program. And again, I'm not going to

687
00:34:57.039 --> 00:34:58.760
tell you what you're supposed to be doing. You need

688
00:34:58.800 --> 00:35:01.000
to determine that once you gotten in touch with your

689
00:35:01.039 --> 00:35:03.719
soul and your variration has started to rise. And it's

690
00:35:03.719 --> 00:35:06.039
only a seven week program, so it only takes three

691
00:35:06.119 --> 00:35:08.159
or four weeks to start getting in touch with your

692
00:35:08.159 --> 00:35:12.119
soul and understanding what you're doing. And every I can

693
00:35:12.159 --> 00:35:14.000
tell you that ninety nine out of one hundred people

694
00:35:14.000 --> 00:35:15.639
would have told her a dump this guy and run

695
00:35:15.679 --> 00:35:19.280
for the hills. Okay. After getting in touch with her soul,

696
00:35:19.440 --> 00:35:21.599
she realized that she was supposed to be with him,

697
00:35:21.639 --> 00:35:24.719
she wasn't supposed to leave, and she didn't. She stayed

698
00:35:24.719 --> 00:35:27.360
with him, and she turned him around one hundred and

699
00:35:27.400 --> 00:35:29.800
eighty degrees. And they still are together and have a

700
00:35:29.840 --> 00:35:32.760
wonderful life. And he's very loving and caring.

701
00:35:32.480 --> 00:35:35.360
And comforting to her now and no longer an abuser.

702
00:35:35.840 --> 00:35:38.360
Nope, nope, no, wow.

703
00:35:38.199 --> 00:35:38.840
Nope, wow.

704
00:35:39.039 --> 00:35:40.840
That's one. And the second one that I can think of.

705
00:35:42.400 --> 00:35:45.280
A gentleman contacted me. He had just gotten out of

706
00:35:45.320 --> 00:35:50.360
prison and he was committing He was contemplating taking his life,

707
00:35:50.360 --> 00:35:52.559
and I popped up on his computer, so he scheduled

708
00:35:52.559 --> 00:35:55.800
an appointment. He watched my video, he watched my webinar,

709
00:35:56.599 --> 00:36:02.119
and great guy, older gentleman. He was a Midwestern farmer

710
00:36:02.880 --> 00:36:07.960
and he had taken in a lot of cattle from

711
00:36:08.400 --> 00:36:11.320
the town. And it's a very small town, and he

712
00:36:11.440 --> 00:36:14.920
was having financial difficulties and he started selling their cattle

713
00:36:15.599 --> 00:36:19.079
and keeping the money. And obviously he got caught fairly

714
00:36:19.159 --> 00:36:22.519
quickly as well, again at a small town, and he

715
00:36:22.559 --> 00:36:26.119
went to jail for six months, and when he was

716
00:36:26.119 --> 00:36:29.119
in jail, his wife divorced him, his kids wouldn't talk

717
00:36:29.159 --> 00:36:31.960
to him, and obviously lost all of his friends, so

718
00:36:32.000 --> 00:36:34.719
he had nothing. When he came out of prison after

719
00:36:34.800 --> 00:36:38.480
going through the program, he decided this wasn't really what

720
00:36:38.519 --> 00:36:41.199
he wanted to be doing anyways. Okay, it was something

721
00:36:41.199 --> 00:36:42.920
that was in his family. Always wanted to be in

722
00:36:42.920 --> 00:36:46.159
the restaurant business. So the first thing he did was

723
00:36:46.159 --> 00:36:47.840
went and talked to all of the people in the

724
00:36:47.880 --> 00:36:51.119
town that had been his friends that he sold their cattle,

725
00:36:51.119 --> 00:36:54.320
and said, listen, I apologize, this is what was happening

726
00:36:54.320 --> 00:36:56.679
in my life, and I will pay you back every cent.

727
00:36:57.519 --> 00:37:00.679
So the town started to rally around him. Then he

728
00:37:00.719 --> 00:37:04.159
went and got a franchise for a food truck and

729
00:37:04.199 --> 00:37:07.639
started doing a food truck. Then his daughters came back

730
00:37:07.639 --> 00:37:11.639
and rallied around him. Then he started writing a book

731
00:37:12.039 --> 00:37:18.000
about his experiences and what happened. And then within a

732
00:37:18.079 --> 00:37:20.679
year he had the food truck, his daughter's back, the

733
00:37:20.679 --> 00:37:25.519
whole town back, and published the book. So fast forward,

734
00:37:25.599 --> 00:37:28.559
it's been about four years for him. He now has

735
00:37:28.559 --> 00:37:31.119
a full blown restaurant and the food truck, and he's

736
00:37:31.119 --> 00:37:37.519
finally dating his wife again took her book. Yeah, you

737
00:37:37.599 --> 00:37:41.239
have patients there, you know. But she finally started coming

738
00:37:41.280 --> 00:37:42.480
around and he's dating her again.

739
00:37:42.639 --> 00:37:43.679
Yeah, it's yeah.

740
00:37:43.679 --> 00:37:45.480
And I love the fact that you talk about that

741
00:37:45.559 --> 00:37:49.440
personal responsibility, that it's you know, it's all about you.

742
00:37:49.440 --> 00:37:51.559
You're the one that has to change. If you want

743
00:37:51.599 --> 00:37:53.880
to see a change in your environment, anything.

744
00:37:53.679 --> 00:37:56.480
Else around you will change. I promise it's how it works.

745
00:37:57.239 --> 00:37:58.239
Oh that's amazing.

746
00:37:58.280 --> 00:38:01.360
So I noticed on your website, I in somewhere as

747
00:38:01.440 --> 00:38:03.840
I was browsing it, you talked about the nature of love,

748
00:38:03.920 --> 00:38:07.119
or at least you had that listed. I'm curious what

749
00:38:07.159 --> 00:38:10.079
your thoughts are about the nature of love because you know,

750
00:38:10.119 --> 00:38:13.480
as I look at love, you know, Greek have what

751
00:38:13.599 --> 00:38:16.639
five different types of love and so forth, and so

752
00:38:16.800 --> 00:38:17.480
you know, when we.

753
00:38:17.440 --> 00:38:19.559
Talk about love, love yourself.

754
00:38:19.239 --> 00:38:22.199
Love your neighbor, love, your family, love God, all of

755
00:38:22.280 --> 00:38:27.280
those types of things, what's your concept of nature of love?

756
00:38:28.480 --> 00:38:31.760
So there are different types of love. You're not going

757
00:38:31.800 --> 00:38:34.239
to love your brother the same way that you're going

758
00:38:34.280 --> 00:38:38.519
to love you know, your husband or your wife, right, right,

759
00:38:39.079 --> 00:38:43.480
And there's also love and as being in love right,

760
00:38:44.079 --> 00:38:48.400
being in love is more of an infatuation, okay, And

761
00:38:48.519 --> 00:38:51.480
isn't it wonderful when you can be in love and

762
00:38:51.599 --> 00:38:56.079
love that same person. I attribute a lot of very

763
00:38:56.119 --> 00:38:59.280
long relationships for the fact that you can continually fall

764
00:38:59.360 --> 00:39:02.239
in love with that same person over and over. But

765
00:39:02.280 --> 00:39:08.199
that takes effort, okay, because that's the infatuation type, right, Yeah,

766
00:39:08.239 --> 00:39:10.719
So there are that those different types, and then there

767
00:39:10.840 --> 00:39:15.079
is the the the ultimate is it throw or I'm

768
00:39:15.119 --> 00:39:17.960
trying to think of the name of it. Agape A

769
00:39:18.039 --> 00:39:23.960
gopy is the ultimate, and that is the sacrificial love.

770
00:39:24.440 --> 00:39:28.400
And you know, anyone that has children that's older will

771
00:39:28.480 --> 00:39:31.559
understand that because God knows if it was a choice

772
00:39:31.599 --> 00:39:34.079
that something was going to happen to your child, they

773
00:39:34.119 --> 00:39:36.559
were going to be sacrificed. You would step into a heartbeat,

774
00:39:36.599 --> 00:39:39.760
wouldn't you. That's right, that's that a GOPI love that

775
00:39:39.840 --> 00:39:42.920
you would you would sacrifice for something or take their

776
00:39:42.960 --> 00:39:44.159
place for something like that.

777
00:39:44.800 --> 00:39:47.159
So how does that how does that fit into our

778
00:39:47.199 --> 00:39:49.880
lives and how do we how do we adapt and

779
00:39:49.960 --> 00:39:54.639
learn that higher level of love for ourselves for those

780
00:39:54.679 --> 00:39:57.360
around us? I would assume that that's really the ideal.

781
00:39:57.840 --> 00:40:01.239
Well, it starts with self worth and self love. It

782
00:40:01.360 --> 00:40:04.280
all starts there, you know, you can't love another if

783
00:40:04.320 --> 00:40:05.679
you can't love yourself.

784
00:40:06.360 --> 00:40:08.360
Can you How do I love myself?

785
00:40:09.119 --> 00:40:11.320
You look in that mirror every day and you be

786
00:40:11.400 --> 00:40:14.039
so grateful for the fact that you're here, and no

787
00:40:14.159 --> 00:40:17.159
matter you are, you, you know, think about it. You

788
00:40:17.199 --> 00:40:21.119
are the soul inside. You're not the suit that sits here. Okay,

789
00:40:21.159 --> 00:40:24.320
you know what I love the most. And it's sad

790
00:40:24.360 --> 00:40:26.519
to say it, but you know, there's a there's a

791
00:40:26.760 --> 00:40:30.639
marine veteran and he's gonna get me all choked up here.

792
00:40:30.639 --> 00:40:35.199
But he was severely burned in a war and his

793
00:40:35.280 --> 00:40:37.440
wife when he came back, people were looking at her

794
00:40:37.480 --> 00:40:39.280
and they're like, how can you stay with him? It

795
00:40:39.320 --> 00:40:41.920
looks like a monster. He was completely disfigured. And she's like,

796
00:40:41.960 --> 00:40:45.000
I didn't marry the suit. I married the man. She

797
00:40:45.119 --> 00:40:47.079
married the soul inside.

798
00:40:47.320 --> 00:40:51.920
Yeah. Yeah, And you know, to discover that soul is

799
00:40:52.000 --> 00:40:56.639
an ongoing journey, isn't it really? To really recognize? You know,

800
00:40:56.719 --> 00:40:59.840
I talked to so many people that and have coached,

801
00:41:00.000 --> 00:41:02.519
you know, a few people that have all of these

802
00:41:02.960 --> 00:41:05.920
imprints in their lives about not being good enough or

803
00:41:06.079 --> 00:41:09.199
all these types of things, and yet how to help

804
00:41:09.239 --> 00:41:15.360
them to understand that the soul is something of you

805
00:41:15.760 --> 00:41:20.400
cannot value it because it's so great, Well, go ahead.

806
00:41:21.119 --> 00:41:23.480
It happens for reasons. So you know, I had a

807
00:41:23.719 --> 00:41:27.840
very very difficult upbringing, very challenging, very you know, I'm

808
00:41:27.880 --> 00:41:30.039
one of eight children and only one of two or

809
00:41:30.079 --> 00:41:34.440
three that managed to survive literally, And I used to

810
00:41:34.800 --> 00:41:36.840
when I was going through things growing up. I used

811
00:41:36.840 --> 00:41:39.079
to say to myself, for everything I'm going through, I

812
00:41:39.079 --> 00:41:42.519
should be one of the lottery, the math millions, the megabox, right,

813
00:41:43.159 --> 00:41:46.920
And I have just the fact that, you know, I

814
00:41:47.039 --> 00:41:50.880
understand why I'm here and I can appreciate the beauty

815
00:41:50.920 --> 00:41:55.039
in every single solitary day. People don't stop and do that.

816
00:41:56.119 --> 00:41:59.000
You know, I live near the ocean now. I didn't before,

817
00:41:59.039 --> 00:42:02.480
but I do now because this is what my heart

818
00:42:02.559 --> 00:42:04.840
wanted me, My soul wanted me to go, and this

819
00:42:05.000 --> 00:42:07.360
is where I asked to go, and that's where it

820
00:42:07.360 --> 00:42:10.400
took me. And I can feel the beauty and see

821
00:42:10.400 --> 00:42:12.679
the beauty and everything around me every day and be

822
00:42:12.719 --> 00:42:17.880
appreciative of that. So they lessens. And you know, I

823
00:42:17.880 --> 00:42:20.039
was saying, when I died at twenty seven and came back,

824
00:42:20.079 --> 00:42:21.519
you would think that would be the time all my

825
00:42:21.559 --> 00:42:23.679
abilities would open up, right, but that was not the

826
00:42:23.719 --> 00:42:27.519
case because I still had fear. My abilities actually opened

827
00:42:27.559 --> 00:42:29.800
up for me about ten years ago when I was

828
00:42:29.840 --> 00:42:32.119
having a lot of trouble in my business and my

829
00:42:32.199 --> 00:42:36.039
life and going through another divorce, and I started to meditate,

830
00:42:37.000 --> 00:42:40.639
and like everybody else, I can't meditate. I can't shut

831
00:42:40.679 --> 00:42:43.079
my brain off that much, right. And the first time

832
00:42:43.119 --> 00:42:45.039
that I meditated, it was like they kicked the door

833
00:42:45.079 --> 00:42:47.719
into the other side. They're like, she's ready, and I

834
00:42:47.719 --> 00:42:51.559
couldn't shut it off, and I'm seeing full three D

835
00:42:52.320 --> 00:42:56.119
ghosts again. I know everything about everyone that I come

836
00:42:56.159 --> 00:43:01.159
in contact with, and it was overwhelming. I had to

837
00:43:01.239 --> 00:43:04.079
find someone to help me learn how to turn it

838
00:43:04.159 --> 00:43:08.960
off or I would have gone crazy. But everything that

839
00:43:09.000 --> 00:43:12.880
I had gone through up to that point I needed

840
00:43:12.920 --> 00:43:15.679
to go through or I wouldn't be able to counsel

841
00:43:15.719 --> 00:43:18.320
the people that I do. It's the old adage that

842
00:43:18.360 --> 00:43:20.639
you have to walk a mile in someone else's shoes

843
00:43:20.639 --> 00:43:23.480
to understand where they're coming from and what they've been through.

844
00:43:23.559 --> 00:43:24.800
And there's a lot of truth to that.

845
00:43:25.599 --> 00:43:29.000
Oh amen to that, And you know, this has just

846
00:43:29.039 --> 00:43:32.400
been wonderful. We could go on for hours. I think

847
00:43:32.400 --> 00:43:35.960
I have so many questions for you, But as we close,

848
00:43:36.320 --> 00:43:38.039
what I'd love for you to do is just share

849
00:43:38.039 --> 00:43:40.960
with the audience. What would be just that simple message

850
00:43:41.280 --> 00:43:43.360
that you'd like to share with the audience that could

851
00:43:43.400 --> 00:43:46.639
help them to move forward in their lives.

852
00:43:47.119 --> 00:43:49.159
You know, I would like to see people start focusing

853
00:43:49.199 --> 00:43:52.400
on themselves instead of the drama that's all around them.

854
00:43:52.840 --> 00:43:54.880
And I know when you grow up and you come

855
00:43:54.920 --> 00:43:58.519
from a situation that's dysfunctional, it becomes the norm for you,

856
00:43:58.639 --> 00:44:01.840
becomes your comfort zone. Climb out of that comfort zone.

857
00:44:02.320 --> 00:44:06.079
Stop living in that drama, Start focusing on you, stop

858
00:44:06.119 --> 00:44:08.679
focusing on the beauty around you. If it means that

859
00:44:08.719 --> 00:44:10.719
you lose your friends over it, don't worry about it.

860
00:44:10.719 --> 00:44:14.199
You'll get new ones, better ones, I promise if it

861
00:44:14.280 --> 00:44:16.159
all starts with you, it really does.

862
00:44:16.920 --> 00:44:19.719
Oh I love that. I love that well, Jane, thank

863
00:44:19.760 --> 00:44:20.360
you so much.

864
00:44:20.519 --> 00:44:23.320
This is This has been fascinating and I was really

865
00:44:23.360 --> 00:44:25.400
looking forward to having you on the show just because

866
00:44:25.440 --> 00:44:28.360
I knew it was going to be a fascinating conversation.

867
00:44:28.599 --> 00:44:30.960
So appreciate it. How do people find how do people

868
00:44:30.960 --> 00:44:31.679
find your book?

869
00:44:32.000 --> 00:44:34.159
Books? Plural and how do people find you?

870
00:44:34.679 --> 00:44:37.039
So the easiest way is just to go to my website.

871
00:44:37.239 --> 00:44:40.639
Is my name June Edward dot com? Very easy. There

872
00:44:40.679 --> 00:44:42.920
are links to all of my books on there. There's

873
00:44:42.920 --> 00:44:45.119
a free webinar that people can sign up for and

874
00:44:45.199 --> 00:44:47.679
learn a little bit more about energy and the Relationship

875
00:44:47.760 --> 00:44:52.440
Mastery program. There's also appointments. You can schedule an appointment

876
00:44:52.440 --> 00:44:54.360
with me from the website, and there's links to all

877
00:44:54.440 --> 00:44:55.920
my social media there as well.

878
00:44:56.920 --> 00:45:00.480
Great now, June Edward, is it Edward or Edwards.

879
00:45:00.079 --> 00:45:03.559
Dot s Edward June Edward E d W A r.

880
00:45:03.559 --> 00:45:05.039
D dot com.

881
00:45:05.400 --> 00:45:08.760
All right, Very good, June, thanks so much, Thanks so much,

882
00:45:08.840 --> 00:45:11.400
you have a great day you're doing folks. Thanks for

883
00:45:11.480 --> 00:45:13.679
joining us. I hope you really enjoyed it. And this

884
00:45:13.840 --> 00:45:15.760
is doctor Doug saying now, Mista