Aug. 5, 2024

You Are The Creator of Your Life - Live It Ecstatically

You Are The Creator of Your Life - Live It Ecstatically

We can live our lives in a trance, or we can experience joy, happiness and live an ecstatic life if we are just willing to take the reigns and move in the right direction.
Alara Sage, my guest today, has experienced the amazing life-fulfilling sense...

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We can live our lives in a trance, or we can experience joy, happiness and live an ecstatic life if we are just willing to take the reigns and move in the right direction.
Alara Sage, my guest today, has experienced the amazing life-fulfilling sense of complete life pleasure and is willing to share her personal experiences as well as her thoughts on how we can develop that Creator Consciousness to create the life that we truly desire.
https://www.alarasage.com

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Of competent professionals before applying or trying any suggested ideas.

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At the end of the day, it's not about what

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you have or even what you've accomplished. It's about what

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you've done with those accomplishments. It's about who you've lifted up,

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who you've made better. It's about what you've given back.

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Denzel Washington, welcome to Inspire Vision. Our sole purpose is

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to elevate the lives of others and to inspire you

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to do the same.

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Alara Sage, Welcome to the show.

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Hi, so welcome, happy to be here.

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Thank you. Hey, it's great to have you on the show.

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So where are you at? Where are you living right now?

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I'm in Denver, Colorado, outside of Denver, Colorado?

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Okay, cool. So the weather's just gotten really nice there,

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hasn't it.

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Yeah, I just arrived back here, so I skipped.

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All that Oh, I know the failing. I know the failing.

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So what I'd love for you to do is to

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kind of share with the audience. I find it very

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interesting the story in the background behind what motivated someone

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to be at the point of where they're at and

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with what you're doing. What's your story behind that?

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Yes, I have actually a really fun story. So this

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was back in around twenty fourteen and the time of

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my life I was meditating regularly. I very much started

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my spiritual practice, but at the time I was a

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physical therapist to horses, so I did bodywork on horses.

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And so one day I got into my car because

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guess what, you know, like the thing about horses you have,

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you really have to go to them. They're not like

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clients who come to you. They don't do the online thing, right,

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So I got into my car and I was driving

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down a back road and headed towards the horses, and

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my higher self came in and said ohm three times.

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Now I knew what owning was, but it wasn't something

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I practiced myself. So I was like, that's kind of strange,

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but okay. So I took a nice deep breath, oh

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all the way to the end, and I did that

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three times, and at the very end of that third breath,

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an energy shot from the base of my body through

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and out my crown and I went into full body orgasm.

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At the time, I had never experienced a full body orgasm.

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That was not something I experienced sexually, let alone driving

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down the road in a car. So I pulled the

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car over and really gifted myself the glorious experience of

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a full body orgasm. And it lasted for a couple

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of minutes, and I had no idea what was happening

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to me. And after those couple of minutes subsided. I

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was in a state of ecstatic bliss. I was just

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on cloud nine. I felt so lit, so alive, so joyous,

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so blissful. And again I had no idea what had happened.

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But I got back on the road. I was driving

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down the road. I remember having the music cranking, I

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was dancing in the car. I was waving at everybody,

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you know. And the energy remained there for most of

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the day and kind of subsided. And then what happened

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was I into five months of kind of chaotic energy.

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Because what had happened to me is what's called a

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spontaneous Condlini awakening where the Kundlini shakti wakes up, and

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normally it's quite a process, quite a you know, almost

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a lifelong journey for that energy to move through your

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body and move out your crown, and that's where you

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hit divine union, which is ecstatic bliss. But mine had

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been instant and spontaneous. But I didn't know any of that.

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And what happened was as that Kundlini shot through my body,

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she unleashed released all of or not all of, but

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much of the stored of motion, the stored trauma that

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I hadn't processed throughout my life that was in my body.

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And so for five months I was all over the board.

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One minute, I would be just on the floor, cross grieving.

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I didn't even know what I was grieving, but I

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was grieving. I was sobbing, I was wailing. The next

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minute I was like laughing hysterically, and the next minute

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I was like raging, like just screaming, so much anger

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and rage moving through my body. And you know, interestingly enough,

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before this had happened, I had really considered myself like

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an emotionally stable person. But I was actually emotionally suppressed.

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So this immense amount of an intense emotion I was

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not used to. And I even checked in with my

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higher self, Am I going crazy? And higher self said

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breathe and aloud, yeah, I love hy yourselves. And I

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asked that about three times at that five months experience.

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I was never told during that time, it happened to me.

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And then after about five months it started to reach

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back to an equilibrium. And that's when a book landed

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in my lap, came into my universe called Kundlin Awakening,

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and the first chapter was Spontaneous Awakening, and it like

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just nailed to the head of what I experienced. But

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what that really taught me and showed me and why

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I bring it forward as my story besides it just

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being fun, is that I was living really shut down.

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I was numb, like I wasn't enjoying my life. I had,

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you know, this perfect life from the outside, everything seemed great.

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I wasn't lit at all. I was numb and shut down, bored,

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And that experience showed me like what I was capable of,

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like the immense amount of sensation and experience it was

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really possible for me. So after that it was like, yeah,

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how do I make that my norm? And like what

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is the difference and what happened and really trying to

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understand that and then help other people to achieve that

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as well well.

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And you know that that is such I would imagine

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an unusual experience. And yet maybe not for your clients.

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But when you talk about Koudlini, could you explain what

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that is?

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Yes, So Kundalini is ultimately the primordial fam but she

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lives within all of us and regardless of our sexual identity.

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And you know, when we see the Western medicine the

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cross and the two snakes, that is the Kundalini. It

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is a serpent energy. So it's kind of ironic that

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Western medicine stole that really from Eastern philosophy. And what

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she is is for once she's the primordial fem that

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is within all of us. It is very much the

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creative life energy, the pure potentiality that exists within us.

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And when she awakens, she's known as Kundlini. When she awakens,

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she becomes Shakti, the goddess Shakti. And like I said,

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she generally moves through your body and it takes you know,

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a journey and she moves, you know, through your chakras

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and up up through the crown where she meets Shiva

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and that's divine union of self.

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Well, and you talked about she, So is this only

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applicable to women or is this something that men can

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experience also, but it's just kind of part of the

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feminine part of them or are you just referring to

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her as is she more of a female situation?

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No, as I said, she's in everybody, regardless of sexual identity.

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She's the feminine that exists within all of us.

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Yes, all right, Well interesting, how would you explain that?

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Now you talked a little bit about chakras. Is there

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that relationship between chakras and particularly I guess would this

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be the root chakra or the sacral? Where would that

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residence really initiate from.

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Yeah, there's a couple of different theories. Some say she's

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at the base of the spine. That's not where I

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experience her. I experienced her right above the root chakra,

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right there inside of the body. Yeah, and really I

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feel that she's governed by the sacral.

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Well, and let's talk about this energy and this consciousness. Now,

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I know that you talk a little bit about creator consciousness.

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Is that also part of this shot key or is

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that a separate thing that comes to pass because of

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that awakening?

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Hmm, such a delicious question. Yeah, it's definitely interwoven. To me,

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create a consciousness is our ability to consciously create our reality,

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and we do that best when that shakti is activated

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and alive and you know, really moving through our body

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at least to our heart. Because create a consciousness is

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something that I teach. It really focuses on three primary chakras,

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the sacral, the heart, and the pineal So when she's

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moved at least all the way up to the heart,

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there's really this profound devotion to serving the whole, serving

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ourselves through the whole, serving oneness and love.

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And when you talk about the pennial are you talking

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about the third eye chakra? Because most people that are

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looking just strictly at chakras are not really considering that

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the pennial gland. Although I totally get what you're talking about,

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can you kind of explain that and where that comes from?

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Yes, third eye chakra, that's correct.

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Okay, And why do you bring up penial?

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That's a really great question to me. It has a

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lot to do with the pennial because that chakra is

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all about light. It's about the projection of light and

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the reception of light, light being information, and so the

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panil both receives light like it's a third eye, and

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it also projects light our imagination into our reality. That's

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one of the ways creater a consciousness works is through

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the projection of our imagination into our physical reality.

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Okay, so you were mentioning that you were living your

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life and everything seemed, you know, externally, everything seemed really fantastic,

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and yet you realized that you were totally blocked by

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earlier experiences that may or may not have been conscious.

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I don't know for you, but can you kind of

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explain from your own point of view how that happens

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to all of us and what happens, and you know,

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how do we find ourselves in that situation? And then

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how do we find ourselves without driving in a car

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going to horses, how we find ourselves being able to

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number one be aware of that, and then number two

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start on the process of eliminating that blockage that literally

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is causing us to have an entirely different perception of

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life than what reality truly is.

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Yeah, that's great. Question. So answering the first one, how

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does this happen to all of us? You know, we

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just aren't taught, are we We're not taught how to

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be emotionally intelligent, We're not taught how to process trauma.

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And you know a lot of times that word inflicks

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this idea that it has to be really intense. But

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trauma can be like Chinese water torture. It can be

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a repetitive thing, a small, repetitive thing, over and over again,

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and it can be instances that perhaps from the external

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don't seem so traumatic, but to us in that moment,

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we're traumatic. And if we don't know how to process

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that energy through our body, it stays in our body

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and it continues to vibrate, you know, at that trauma.

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And you know, over time we just keep like basically

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piling on these experiences of things that we've gone through

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that we haven't fully witnessed the nugget of wisdom that

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was really available in that moment. And that's what happens.

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When we really allow ourselves to fully process and experience,

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there's always wisdom that transues through that. But if we're

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not available to that, it's just remaining pain or trauma.

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You know, it can also be ancestral and karmic as well.

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So we're moving through life and continuing to add to

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these and you know, again, because we don't talk about

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these things most of it, we just don't even realize,

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for one, how deeply painful a lot of this is.

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And then we don't realize that the pain is our

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gateway to pleasure, The pain is our gateway to our

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own metamorphos and our own transcendence. We in our society

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dictate that pain is bad, and hey, just pop a

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pill and get rid of it, and deny it and

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reject it, move away from it, do whatever you can

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to not experience it. Meanwhile, the pain is trying to

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teach us something. So the way that our society views emotions,

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the way that our society views pain and discomfort, has

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created these ways in ourselves that were just like, oh,

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I need to push that away, not feel it, not

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base it, because it says something that I can't handle,

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and so we deny it. And I always say that

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denial is such a powerful, powerful force because what you

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deny you literally place outside of your awareness and you

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cannot see it and you cannot feel it. It's like

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a numbness, just like when your body is numb and

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you can rub your finger over it and you're like, wow,

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I don't even realize that my finger is there because

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it's numb. That's what denial does, and it shuts us

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off from ourselves. Yes, and so that is how it transpires.

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That is how it happens to all of us. And

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you know, how do we become aware of it? I

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would say our reality is always reflecting to us, right,

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I always say we're walking around in a house of mirrors.

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One of the ways that I point my clients is

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through their innate desires. You know, we have these desires

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that we've had most of our life, and some people

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have numb themselves so much that they don't even know

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what those desires are. And if anybody is listening to

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this and they're like, huh, desires, yeah, I don't even

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know what that is. Like, I can guarantee you have

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very strong desires. You've just denied them. But those desires

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are there to guide us towards our self to more

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realization of our genius and how this unique fractal as

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a human really reflects the life of God. And so

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if we are able to say, hey, my desires are

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to create this, and I'm not creating that. Like, instead

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of creating my desire, I'm creating all of this. That's

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that's the reflection. That's what's showing you really what exists

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in your body. You know, our reality is always showing

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us what's vibrationally going on in our body.

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Well, and you know, you mentioned a couple of things

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that brought some other things to my mind. One is,

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as children, we experience as you say, you know, we

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don't necessarily go through some of these horrific stories of

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physical views, emotional abuse, and so forth. But as children,

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we have our own little perception that goes on. So

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a parent may say something in a very meaningful, positive way,

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and our perception will be that we're getting criticized, or

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we're not good enough, or those types of things, and

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so that becomes a real challenge. How and obviously, as

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you say, learning to figure these things out and work

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with them. We're never taught that as a child. I

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don't know anyone that sits down with a child and says,

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all right, let's look at this and here's how you

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go through this process. So what do parents do to

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help their children to not get so imprinted with all

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of this stuff that ultimately affects their life. What can

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parents do, if anything, to try to minimize that based

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on your.

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Experience, Yes, so great question. I am a parent. I

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have two boys and eleven and a nine year old,

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and this is always something that I am being curious

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in my own space. And one of the things I've

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found is communication. And my boys know for me that

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you know, just talk like I will talk. I share

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with my boys very vulnerable about things that are happening

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in my life, how I'm feeling, and that sets up

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the stage for them to feel very vulnerable to share

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with me. And just as you said, sometimes I'll say

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something and we're hashing it out right, the boys are

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fighting and I'm like, all right, let's let's all talk

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through through this. And I'll say something and my son

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will be like, well, Mom, you said that and that

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makes me feel this way, and I'm like, oh, that's

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so interesting, Like that wasn't my intention? Right, So exactly

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to your point, So that communication, like being able to

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talk through it right and so that we can recognize, Okay,

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you're feeling this way, and then it's about teaching them

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that emotional intelligence, Like, that's what I'm teaching my boys,

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emotional intelligence. You are responsible for your emotions, you know.

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For one, nobody can make you feel anything. Let's like

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rewrite that. In our society, people can say things that

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can trigger you, absolutely, but that trigger is your responsibility.

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you know, be able to really be present with those feelings,

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express those feelings, you know, because I wasn't taught to

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express So when my parents did something that made like

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I was almost said it there, it made me shield.

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Where my parents did something where I felt like, oh,

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I'm not worthy enough, there was no space for me

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to say, hey, I feel like now I'm not worthy,

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or that wasn't enough, or I'm never pleasing you right,

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there was no space for that. So I think really

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giving kids voice and truly listening to what they have

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to say.

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Well, and you brought up something else, then you just

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barely mentioned it. But I find I recently, I've really

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been researching this because being here in Thailand right now,

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you know, with the Buddhist culture, there's this whole concept

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of past lives and personally for my personal belief that

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that is something that I find difficult to understand. I

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have very good friends who have experienced that, and I

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do not doubt their experience, but at the same time,

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for me, scientifically and everything else, I'm going, how does

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that work? And then I was introduced to this concept

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of ancestral memory and how DNA holds on too much

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of that ancestral memory in our DNA and depending on

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what's going on, we can potentially have that become our

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emotions without us even understanding that. Can you can you

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explain that a little bit? Yes?

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Absolutely, I mean that's scientifically proven that we are actually

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receiving information genetically. And you know, I work with this

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a lot with my clients, both ancestral and you know,

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past what I prefer to call parallel life regression, and

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with the ancestral you know, when we start to connect

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to that genetic information, it's amazing the doors that open up.

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Perfect example, their day, I was working with a woman

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helping her to conceive and we went into a session

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and she's done quite a lot of work on herself

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prior to meeting me, and we went into we went

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back to the womb and we were working with when

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she was in the womb. And turns out, you know,

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she already knew this, but her mother's mother died while

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her mother was pregnant with her. And then as we

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opened up the door of information, you know, there was

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all this ancestral energy around lots of people having really

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close people to them die when they were pregnant, and

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so that gets imprinted. And so now she's been resisting

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conceiving because there's this fear of well, she has it

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as her mother would die, so subconsciously through that genetic

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information of hey, when you get pregnant, somebody dies, right,

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that's the genetic information. She already had had another fear

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around her mother dying for another reason that we unfolded

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as well, and so it was like her belief with

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those two together was like, her mother's going to die

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if she conceives. So the power of seeing that and

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realizing that, just like the Aha moment that she had,

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so that we can release that energy from her so

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that she can conceive.

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Wow, And you know that you hear those stories and

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it's so amazing and it's wonderful for people to start

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to open up and have their curiosity and realization become

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more the fact that you know what I am, Why

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am I doing this? Why am I acting this way?

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And realizing that, you know, I mean, I've had that,

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I go back, So did this happen? Did this happen

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to my childhood? I don't think so, And all of

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a sudden it's like, you know what, this happened previously

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to one of my ancestors, and now it's affecting me,

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which which I find fascinating. And also, when you talk

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about epigenetics, what's going to happen now with the client

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that you just talked about, which potentially could have been

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passed on to her children and so on and so

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forth once she realized that is that going to make

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a difference for her descendants?

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I believe? So, you know, I can't one hundred percent

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say that. And actually, ironically enough, I've never like felt

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into that energy where I would have a little bit

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more certainty in answering that question because I am very

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very captain and I really believe the wisdom that comes

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through me. And simultaneously, you know, it really is a

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chain of information. And so when we are the ones

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that are deciding to create something differently consciously right, which

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is different than just you know how sometimes genetics can

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skip right generations. That's not a conscious decision, You're not,

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because it's always about like facing the fear right, acknowledge

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that the fear exists, and then taking action with that

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fear in a place of an open heart and love.

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When we do that consciously, that's what actually transmutes that

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belief that's been passed through.

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Yes, in my studies have shown the research that I've

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studied has shown that actually when we talk about epigenetics,

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that you can literally, as you change that consciously, you

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literally change those epigenetic and genetic situations to where your

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children and your children's children are not necessarily going to

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experience that again, which I find fascinating, Which means that

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you literally can affect generations to come by consciously working

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on yourself and eliminating or at least moving away and

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letting go of some of those issues. So you talked

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a little bit about chakras creative centers. You talk about

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three main creator centers. What are those in and what

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does that mean?

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Yeah, So from my perspective, to create our reality consciously,

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we're primarily, of course, we need all of our chakratas, right,

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like we use all of our chaktas in every single moment,

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but there's three primary chakatas for creating our reality consciously,

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and that's our sacral chakra, our heart and like our

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third eye or panel, and so the sacral you know,

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that is the governing chaka of our creative life force

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energy as well as our sexual energy, where our sexual

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energy is creative life force energy too. You know, all

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of our sexual energy is creative life force energy, but

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not all of our creative life force energy is sexual.

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So that that is all about learning how to utilize

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that energy and really bring it to the heart, which

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our heart is the connection to our soul, and this

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is where those desires truly reside, and those hearts desires

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desires that like I said, are really trying to connect

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us to our genius, which is also rooted in our heart,

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our unique genius. And so as we connect deeper and

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deeper in the heart create self love, forgiveness, compassion, we

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open up more of our unique genius and that that's

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creative life force energy gets to come through that fractal

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you know, that shard of glass of colored glasses, how

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I like to call it, to create our reality. And

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then as I mentioned with the paneel and the third eye,

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it's a lot about using our imagination because our mind

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is so incredibly powerful, you know, our thoughts are constantly

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creating our reality, and even more so when we play

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in the realm of imagination, where we're activating the mind

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in imagery as well as activating the body to feel

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and to sense that imagine andary space, we are really

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literally vibrating at that version of our self and that

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creative life. For center, that shockedy really bringing that birthing

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that through into our reality.

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So how does somebody do that? Isn't meditation? Is it?

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Is? Is it?

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I know? Well for me that's what I focus on,

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But for others, how does one start to really focus

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on those energy centers or those chakras and particularly as

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you say, the sacra of a hart and then the

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nail or the third eye. And science is actually showing

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that is the penal glen is activated, more healing throughout

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the whole body occurs the because of the hormones and

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everything else that's released. But how does an individual start

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to learn how to literally become aware of that and

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focus on that and heal that as necessary.

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Yeah, such a great question. First and foremost, it is

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always about awareness. So I love that you say that

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right off about it. It's always about awareness. And you know,

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definitely you can meditate, and also what you can simply

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do is breathe with your awareness at a chakra. Sometimes

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it's really helpful to like put your hand there so

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that there's a touch sensation, so you're maintaining your mind there.

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You can even like rub it. Another thing you can

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do is tap it, right because tapping automatically tells the

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body to relax, to come to release, and so like

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right now I'm tapping my sacle, but I can also

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be tapping my heart, so you know, you can tap

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that chakra and then just breathe with your awareness focused

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on that chakra. So that's going to you know, as

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we know where your awareness goes, your energy flows. So

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as you're tapping and you're breathing and you're holding your

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awareness there, you're bringing a lot more energy into that space.

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And you know, the process of really truly stepping into

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00:29:03.839 --> 00:29:08.960
creator consciousness is becoming very familiar with your body and

461
00:29:09.000 --> 00:29:13.160
with your energy centers because you know everything is conscious.

462
00:29:13.200 --> 00:29:15.720
So to say that you can create your reality consciously,

463
00:29:16.240 --> 00:29:19.079
but not really know where your chokkas are and are

464
00:29:19.119 --> 00:29:21.440
they open and how does it feel? And what is

465
00:29:21.440 --> 00:29:25.079
the energy there right now? Isn't really true, right because

466
00:29:25.079 --> 00:29:28.519
we need to be really feeling what's going on and

467
00:29:28.559 --> 00:29:31.640
okay this, you know, my sacral CHAKRAA is really lit,

468
00:29:31.759 --> 00:29:35.119
my shak d is open, or oh it's not today,

469
00:29:35.240 --> 00:29:37.559
you know, because I'm feeling a little bit of inadequacy

470
00:29:37.720 --> 00:29:40.039
or I was triggered, or I'm a little bit feeling

471
00:29:40.039 --> 00:29:43.559
of unsafety. Right, So it's always about awareness, and we

472
00:29:43.640 --> 00:29:47.240
can do that through that breathing and that tapping. That's

473
00:29:47.279 --> 00:29:50.039
really how I started when I started this whole thing,

474
00:29:50.359 --> 00:29:53.920
I just started focusing my awareness on the chakra and

475
00:29:54.000 --> 00:29:58.279
breathing there. And it's amazing how if you really stick

476
00:29:58.319 --> 00:30:00.680
to that the amount of information I will open up

477
00:30:00.720 --> 00:30:03.200
for you. And also just the self healing that just

478
00:30:03.400 --> 00:30:04.599
naturally takes place.

479
00:30:05.279 --> 00:30:07.839
Well. And I may be asking a question that you

480
00:30:07.880 --> 00:30:12.480
may not be totally you know, comfortable with, but you know,

481
00:30:12.599 --> 00:30:16.000
as you talk about the different experiences we're having, and

482
00:30:16.319 --> 00:30:18.519
I think this is where awareness comes in. So all

483
00:30:18.519 --> 00:30:20.680
of a sudden, we're sitting there and going, wow, you know,

484
00:30:20.759 --> 00:30:23.759
I'm feeling inadequate, or I'm feeling angry, or I'm feeling

485
00:30:23.799 --> 00:30:28.319
this or that. Are you able to identify based on

486
00:30:28.799 --> 00:30:31.279
the emotions and the type of emotions that are being

487
00:30:31.400 --> 00:30:35.240
experienced which chakra may be closed?

488
00:30:37.240 --> 00:30:40.519
Absolutely, but I can feel it in people's bodies. So

489
00:30:40.599 --> 00:30:43.880
I'm extremely empathic as soon as I'm talking to somebody,

490
00:30:44.359 --> 00:30:46.119
you know, in the right circumstances. I don't just go

491
00:30:46.160 --> 00:30:50.240
around feeling everybody. I have boundaries. I respect space. But

492
00:30:50.279 --> 00:30:52.400
when a client is talking to me, even as they're talking,

493
00:30:52.799 --> 00:30:54.039
their bodies are lining up.

494
00:30:54.680 --> 00:30:57.799
Okay, I'm talking about I'm not talking to you. I

495
00:30:57.839 --> 00:30:59.839
am right now. But let's say that I'm not a

496
00:31:00.000 --> 00:31:02.119
plan of yours. But I've listened to this and I'm

497
00:31:02.160 --> 00:31:06.400
really fascinated by this, and I'm failing this emotion. Can

498
00:31:06.480 --> 00:31:11.359
you explain the different chakras and which emotions are related

499
00:31:11.880 --> 00:31:14.200
to the different chakras or does that go a little

500
00:31:14.200 --> 00:31:14.759
bit too far?

501
00:31:16.240 --> 00:31:21.640
We can, and I will say that sometimes I feel

502
00:31:21.839 --> 00:31:26.319
that they will correlate into two chakras, but absolutely, Like,

503
00:31:26.359 --> 00:31:28.319
do you want to go through list of them? Is

504
00:31:28.319 --> 00:31:28.960
that what you are saying?

505
00:31:29.200 --> 00:31:31.400
Very quick? So let's start at the rich chakra. What

506
00:31:31.440 --> 00:31:33.680
are the emotions that are related to the rit chakra,

507
00:31:33.880 --> 00:31:35.680
and we can go fairly quickly. We don't have to

508
00:31:35.680 --> 00:31:37.200
spend a lot of time on that, but I think

509
00:31:37.200 --> 00:31:41.039
it would be interesting for the audience to understand how that.

510
00:31:41.039 --> 00:31:45.359
Is absolutely so rich chakra is all about safety, safety

511
00:31:45.400 --> 00:31:48.519
of your physical body as well as safety in the tribe,

512
00:31:48.640 --> 00:31:52.200
the community, So a sense of you're not safe, you're

513
00:31:52.240 --> 00:31:55.759
not secure, which could also be financial security.

514
00:31:57.359 --> 00:31:59.839
Okay, so that's the root, and we get to the sacral.

515
00:32:00.519 --> 00:32:04.319
Yeah, so sacral is a lot about connection with other people.

516
00:32:04.400 --> 00:32:08.559
So when you don't feel safe in connecting, inadequacy is

517
00:32:09.119 --> 00:32:12.599
in the sacral chakra, So inadequacy of your life, of

518
00:32:12.599 --> 00:32:15.720
what you're creating. For women, it lives literally in the womb,

519
00:32:17.160 --> 00:32:21.400
and sacral chakra is a lot of it's the emotional

520
00:32:21.440 --> 00:32:23.920
body as well, so there can actually be a lot

521
00:32:23.960 --> 00:32:27.039
of energy there emotionally, so a lot of our trapped

522
00:32:27.559 --> 00:32:32.160
emotions go there as well, but a direct one is shame.

523
00:32:33.039 --> 00:32:38.279
Shame is such a part of the sacral largely because

524
00:32:38.319 --> 00:32:44.079
we shame sexuality and power and money and that's all

525
00:32:44.160 --> 00:32:45.480
rooted in our pelvis.

526
00:32:46.680 --> 00:32:48.440
Okay. As we move up to the next.

527
00:32:48.319 --> 00:32:53.079
Chakra, it's all about our will and so the energy

528
00:32:53.119 --> 00:32:58.880
of not enough, as well as control, disempowerment or being

529
00:32:59.440 --> 00:33:01.359
over powered by other people.

530
00:33:02.440 --> 00:33:04.880
Okay, and which what is that called again, that's the

531
00:33:04.920 --> 00:33:08.880
one chakra I can never r the solar plexus. Okay, great,

532
00:33:09.160 --> 00:33:10.599
And then we get to the heart chakra.

533
00:33:11.440 --> 00:33:15.119
Yes, obviously a self hate, self judgment, self criticism, as

534
00:33:15.119 --> 00:33:20.359
well as resentment and bitterness and just anywhere that you

535
00:33:20.480 --> 00:33:23.759
haven't forgiven that you're just holding on still to that. Oh,

536
00:33:23.839 --> 00:33:24.880
also grief.

537
00:33:26.240 --> 00:33:28.880
Okay, okay. And then we get to the throat chakra.

538
00:33:30.039 --> 00:33:33.000
Yes, this is all about expression, so the feeling that

539
00:33:33.079 --> 00:33:37.039
you can't express, that your voice isn't heard or received.

540
00:33:37.079 --> 00:33:40.279
It's also the ears, so that you're not heard, you're

541
00:33:40.319 --> 00:33:44.599
not completely heard, you're not understood, or that you can't

542
00:33:44.680 --> 00:33:46.440
speak you can't be heard.

543
00:33:47.519 --> 00:33:49.359
Okay. And then you get up to the third eye

544
00:33:49.599 --> 00:33:51.880
or the peneal gland chakra.

545
00:33:53.079 --> 00:33:56.039
Yeah, there's a lot of religion there, and I'm nothing,

546
00:33:56.079 --> 00:33:57.880
I have nothing against religion, but there's a lot of

547
00:33:57.880 --> 00:34:02.039
religious dogma there and also with the crown, just about

548
00:34:02.279 --> 00:34:04.880
things we've been taught that how we can or cannot

549
00:34:04.960 --> 00:34:10.400
connect directly to source energy as well as the third

550
00:34:10.440 --> 00:34:13.280
eye is all about our vision and our psychic powers.

551
00:34:13.360 --> 00:34:16.280
So there's a lot of trauma in there that you know,

552
00:34:16.400 --> 00:34:20.639
that's bad. We're not allowed to have psychic abilities and powers,

553
00:34:21.360 --> 00:34:24.639
so there's a lot of shutting down there within our

554
00:34:24.679 --> 00:34:29.639
ability to see. The other thing is the imagination, because

555
00:34:29.679 --> 00:34:32.480
when we're children, we have very strong imaginations and then

556
00:34:32.519 --> 00:34:36.960
we're often again that's not like fostered. So that imagination,

557
00:34:37.159 --> 00:34:40.559
the inability to see, the inability to foresee, the inability

558
00:34:40.599 --> 00:34:42.840
to have imagination and vision.

559
00:34:43.800 --> 00:34:45.280
All right, and then you get to the crown.

560
00:34:46.320 --> 00:34:49.360
Yeah, so the crown is the father, and it's very

561
00:34:49.440 --> 00:34:55.079
much about connection to God, to source and any level

562
00:34:55.159 --> 00:35:00.760
of not feeling able, to not feeling worthy opening up

563
00:35:00.760 --> 00:35:06.159
to that. There can also be even some anger. It

564
00:35:06.199 --> 00:35:09.000
would be simultaneously the heart as well, but like people

565
00:35:09.039 --> 00:35:12.039
do have strong anger resentment towards God.

566
00:35:12.760 --> 00:35:15.239
Well, and I know some people talk about an eighth

567
00:35:15.480 --> 00:35:18.719
chakra and an eighth energy center that's sitting a little

568
00:35:18.719 --> 00:35:20.719
bit above the head. Are you familiar with that one

569
00:35:20.800 --> 00:35:21.199
at all?

570
00:35:22.199 --> 00:35:23.719
Yeah, I mean we have a chakras that go above

571
00:35:23.719 --> 00:35:25.400
our head, we have chakras that go below our feet.

572
00:35:25.679 --> 00:35:28.880
So there's a lot of chaktas ah.

573
00:35:29.400 --> 00:35:33.760
Okay, all right, So how does an individual, you know,

574
00:35:33.960 --> 00:35:38.440
we talk about the creative consciousness, how does an individual

575
00:35:39.239 --> 00:35:43.599
utilize that to literally look at their life and say,

576
00:35:43.639 --> 00:35:45.920
you know what, this is not where I want to be,

577
00:35:46.199 --> 00:35:49.519
this is not who I want to be. Here's who

578
00:35:49.559 --> 00:35:52.000
I want to be, and here's the experience that I

579
00:35:52.039 --> 00:35:54.599
want to have in life. How do they take that

580
00:35:54.679 --> 00:36:01.599
creative consciousness and literally start to create a different experience

581
00:36:01.599 --> 00:36:05.960
for themselves, a different life for themselves, whatever that happens

582
00:36:06.000 --> 00:36:06.920
to look like to them.

583
00:36:08.360 --> 00:36:10.760
Yes, such a great question. I mean, the first thing

584
00:36:10.840 --> 00:36:15.679
is to get really clear on what you desire, and

585
00:36:15.840 --> 00:36:17.880
I would even take it a bit deeper and ask

586
00:36:17.960 --> 00:36:23.280
yourself why, because that why is really important. Again, we

587
00:36:23.400 --> 00:36:26.320
want to feel it in the heart because we don't

588
00:36:26.599 --> 00:36:30.159
want our desires to be egoically driven, which they can

589
00:36:30.280 --> 00:36:34.159
often be disguised. You know, our ego isn't bad, it's

590
00:36:34.199 --> 00:36:37.960
not wrong, but we want to really be creating from

591
00:36:37.960 --> 00:36:40.559
the heart space because the heart truly serves the whole,

592
00:36:40.840 --> 00:36:44.199
serves the one, whereas the ego, even though it can

593
00:36:44.239 --> 00:36:48.159
portray itself as serving others, it has underlying connotations of

594
00:36:48.280 --> 00:36:52.559
serving the self, So asking yourself why and being really

595
00:36:53.000 --> 00:36:56.760
brutally honest with yourself, like you're talking to yourself. So

596
00:36:56.840 --> 00:36:59.760
don't try to sugarcoat it, right, don't try to make

597
00:36:59.800 --> 00:37:03.199
it sound good. Get really clear with yourself, because if

598
00:37:03.199 --> 00:37:07.440
your why is like self sourcing, you are like, you know,

599
00:37:07.519 --> 00:37:10.280
superficial in the self. I mean, you know you want

600
00:37:10.320 --> 00:37:13.639
to like reevaluate that. But once you have that clarity, like,

601
00:37:13.679 --> 00:37:19.000
get really clear, write it down, start envisioning it, Like

602
00:37:19.199 --> 00:37:22.440
what does your life look like as you're in that

603
00:37:22.559 --> 00:37:25.679
version of yourself? But it's not just about our peneal right,

604
00:37:25.719 --> 00:37:29.760
it's about our sacral which is emotional. So how does

605
00:37:29.800 --> 00:37:35.639
it feel emotionally to be in that version of yourself?

606
00:37:35.960 --> 00:37:39.039
How does it feel in the sensations of your body

607
00:37:39.599 --> 00:37:42.960
to be in that version of yourself? If you spend

608
00:37:43.039 --> 00:37:48.440
time in that imaginatory space, what will happen as you

609
00:37:48.480 --> 00:37:52.960
will begin to trigger the information of dissonance? What is

610
00:37:53.039 --> 00:37:56.239
standing between the version of you now and the version

611
00:37:56.280 --> 00:38:00.199
that exists in that the dissonance? And you know that's

612
00:38:00.239 --> 00:38:04.760
the hardest part. Yeah, the imagination is super fun and

613
00:38:04.880 --> 00:38:07.880
it generally feels really good in the body, and then

614
00:38:07.920 --> 00:38:12.519
you have to face the discomfort. And you know, I

615
00:38:12.559 --> 00:38:14.719
said it originally and I'll say it again, it's through

616
00:38:14.719 --> 00:38:21.320
our pain that we transcend, a send, expand grow as individuals. So,

617
00:38:21.800 --> 00:38:24.559
you know, if you really want to create something beautiful

618
00:38:24.559 --> 00:38:26.719
for yourself, guess what, Like, you're going to have to

619
00:38:26.760 --> 00:38:30.360
move through discomfort. You're going to have to move through fears.

620
00:38:30.679 --> 00:38:32.559
You might have to move through some of the most

621
00:38:32.639 --> 00:38:36.360
tremendous fears that you could ever imagine. But if you're

622
00:38:36.440 --> 00:38:40.039
courageous and you really trust in yourself to just take

623
00:38:40.280 --> 00:38:42.960
little bitty action steps. You don't have to jump off

624
00:38:43.000 --> 00:38:46.800
some crazy cliff, just little bitty action steps. As much

625
00:38:46.840 --> 00:38:50.599
as you can keep holding that vision, keep bringing that

626
00:38:50.679 --> 00:38:54.440
vision into your body, it will happen for you.

627
00:38:56.559 --> 00:38:59.880
All right. And that was number two? And then is

628
00:39:00.039 --> 00:39:02.199
there a number three? Or is that just pretty much

629
00:39:02.239 --> 00:39:04.960
it was?

630
00:39:05.119 --> 00:39:08.960
What was the Were there three things? I?

631
00:39:08.639 --> 00:39:10.440
Yeah, I sense that there was, but maybe not.

632
00:39:10.719 --> 00:39:14.199
Okay, Well yeah, I would say the last yes, there is.

633
00:39:14.280 --> 00:39:14.480
You know.

634
00:39:14.840 --> 00:39:18.960
The other thing is like it's always about really enjoying

635
00:39:18.960 --> 00:39:22.880
the moment. And so whenever we're trying to create something,

636
00:39:22.920 --> 00:39:25.599
we can get lost in like I'm trying to get there,

637
00:39:25.639 --> 00:39:28.519
but I'm here. But I want to get there. And

638
00:39:28.800 --> 00:39:33.239
part of the process of creator consciousness is pleasure and

639
00:39:33.320 --> 00:39:37.079
so allowing yourself to realize, yes, I'm creating this, but

640
00:39:37.280 --> 00:39:41.199
right now, this very moment can also be enjoyable. I

641
00:39:41.239 --> 00:39:44.199
can be grateful, I can be fully available to it,

642
00:39:44.559 --> 00:39:48.760
and you actually can experience every single moment. This is

643
00:39:48.760 --> 00:39:51.320
hard for people to swallow in a state of pleasure.

644
00:39:51.440 --> 00:39:55.079
It's solely your perspective. I have challenged myself through this

645
00:39:55.239 --> 00:39:57.119
time and time again, all the things that I don't

646
00:39:57.119 --> 00:39:59.840
want to experience, the weather, the cold, whatever it is.

647
00:40:00.199 --> 00:40:02.159
I just breathe into my body and say, I get

648
00:40:02.199 --> 00:40:05.719
to experience this as pleasurable, and I can light myself

649
00:40:05.800 --> 00:40:09.760
up orgathmically. You can experience anything as pleasurable, and when

650
00:40:09.800 --> 00:40:12.599
you do that, you're opening the flow of creative life

651
00:40:12.599 --> 00:40:15.480
force energy. So be in the present moment, feel it

652
00:40:15.519 --> 00:40:20.039
as much as you can pleasurably feel grateful, feel grateful

653
00:40:20.039 --> 00:40:22.559
for what you're experiencing. That will open your energy so

654
00:40:22.599 --> 00:40:23.639
that you are creating it.

655
00:40:24.360 --> 00:40:27.519
How wonderful. So, as we come to a close, what

656
00:40:28.079 --> 00:40:30.920
would be a message that you'd like to share with

657
00:40:31.000 --> 00:40:34.760
the audience as they finish listening to the podcast, that

658
00:40:35.000 --> 00:40:38.280
will be something potentially that will remain in their mind

659
00:40:38.360 --> 00:40:41.679
and perhaps be a motivator for them in their lives.

660
00:40:43.599 --> 00:40:48.000
Like I mentioned, we have these innate desires and they

661
00:40:48.079 --> 00:40:52.199
are unique to each individual. I've made the mistake of

662
00:40:52.320 --> 00:40:56.719
questioning my own innate desires. But those desires are pointing you,

663
00:40:57.119 --> 00:41:05.679
guiding you towards your most expressive, most powerful, most realized self.

664
00:41:06.480 --> 00:41:11.960
And so have the courage to own those desires in yourself.

665
00:41:12.480 --> 00:41:15.440
Have the courage even if you don't know how you're

666
00:41:15.480 --> 00:41:18.840
going to create it. You don't have to know how.

667
00:41:19.400 --> 00:41:22.719
You just simply have to start setting the intention and

668
00:41:22.880 --> 00:41:24.519
taking the action.

669
00:41:26.199 --> 00:41:29.079
And that's wonderful. And as you talk about innate desires,

670
00:41:29.159 --> 00:41:34.320
how do you differentiate between innate desires that are truly

671
00:41:34.840 --> 00:41:39.760
innate and desires that potentially have been imprinted upon you?

672
00:41:39.400 --> 00:41:41.960
How do you differentiate between the two.

673
00:41:42.840 --> 00:41:48.920
It's the why, yes, asking why do I want this?

674
00:41:50.039 --> 00:41:52.679
Because if you really go down that rabbit hole, it'll

675
00:41:52.719 --> 00:41:53.719
reveal itself to you.

676
00:41:54.480 --> 00:41:57.719
And then if you find that it is somewhat ego driven,

677
00:41:58.360 --> 00:42:01.800
then you realize that that's not the right Why. You know,

678
00:42:01.920 --> 00:42:05.760
I want a bigger house, Why is it to provide

679
00:42:05.760 --> 00:42:07.360
for my family, or is it because I want to

680
00:42:07.400 --> 00:42:09.559
look better in the neighborhood and among my friends. So

681
00:42:10.119 --> 00:42:15.480
I and you mentioned ego, and I find that that's fascinating. Alara,

682
00:42:15.559 --> 00:42:19.519
this has been a fascinating discussion. And obviously, you know,

683
00:42:19.599 --> 00:42:21.760
as people listen to this, some of it is a

684
00:42:21.760 --> 00:42:24.559
little unusual. You talk about the shot key, you know

685
00:42:25.000 --> 00:42:29.480
and you know, and that seems strange. But using different words,

686
00:42:29.519 --> 00:42:32.719
different explanations, everyone has a different perception. And what I

687
00:42:32.760 --> 00:42:37.400
think the audience hopefully understands is, you know, we all

688
00:42:37.760 --> 00:42:42.760
use words to explain our experiences, and for some people

689
00:42:42.880 --> 00:42:45.760
that will use a particular word that explains exactly the

690
00:42:45.800 --> 00:42:49.719
same experience someone else is having, but they're using different words,

691
00:42:50.480 --> 00:42:53.079
and so I think it's important for the audience to

692
00:42:53.159 --> 00:42:57.519
understand that what you're talking about is reality. It is real.

693
00:42:57.639 --> 00:43:01.719
You've personally experienced that, many others experienced it. But it's

694
00:43:01.800 --> 00:43:05.760
that energy that they literally can experience in their lives

695
00:43:05.840 --> 00:43:09.480
if they so choose to focus. Is that fairly accurate?

696
00:43:10.440 --> 00:43:11.239
Absolutely?

697
00:43:13.039 --> 00:43:15.239
Okay, Well, thanks so much for being on the show.

698
00:43:15.719 --> 00:43:20.239
I really appreciate it, and folks, thanks for listening. I

699
00:43:20.239 --> 00:43:24.159
hope you really enjoyed this, and please how did they

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reach you? How did they find you?

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Absolutely, our larasage dot com is my website and Instagram, Facebook, LinkedIn, YouTube,

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Alara Sage and doctor Doug, thank you so much for

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having me here. You asked a really delicious question that

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I really enjoyed the conversation.

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Thanks so much

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