Create the Life You Have Always Wanted to Live

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trying any suggested ideas. Hey, folks,

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thanks for joining us today. You
know what I find really interesting is

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there so many times that there are
people out there who have experienced something in

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their lives that has helped them to
create entirely different and new life for themselves,

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and then in return, they are
helping others. And I have such

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a person on the show today.
Her name is Felicia Searcy, and she

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is a four time award winning transformational
coach, international speaker and author, and

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a minister. And she's worked with
people from all walks of life who are

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seeking to discover that secret component that
can help them to change their lives and

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to create a life that they truly
desire. So I hope you'll join us.

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I think you'll find it fascinating with
the concepts that she shares with us.

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At the end of the day,
it's not about what you have or

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even what you've accomplished. It's about
what you've done with those accomplishments. It's

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about who you've lifted up, who
you've made better, It's about what you've

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given back. Denzel Washington, Welcome
to Inspire Vision. Our sole purpose is

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to elevate the lives of others and
to inspire you to do the same.

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Leisha, Welcome to the show.
How are you doing. I'm great,

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Doctor Dogg. It is fabulous to
be here with you today. Oh I'm

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really I'm really excited about talking about
this because, you know, it's fascinating.

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There's so many different approaches to helping
people to really create a new life

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for themselves. And I think that
being able to discover different choices because I

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don't think that one size fits all, and yet being able to being able

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to find people who have found very
great success in helping people to do that

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as well as themselves. Oftentimes we
find that, you know, that's going

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to bring true for somebody. So
I'm really excited to talk about this a

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bit. So tell the folks a
little bit about your background and how on

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earth did you get to this point
of helping people. Yeah, so,

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you know, like many people that
are listening, I grew up in a

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very dark environment. Both my parents
did the best they could, and they

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struggled with addiction and mental illness.
Now, the reason I bring that up

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is because what that does, at
least what it did for me and many

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people that I've had be on working
with over the years, is that it

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imprints a particular way of relating to
the world. And for me, it

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was a way it imprinted a sense
that the world was not safe, that

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I did not have a right to
ask for what I wanted or even have

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what I wanted, and to stay
very you know, under the radar,

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and not ask for too much,
not to expect too much, and to

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be super tuned in to the needs
of other people to the point where I

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really began to feel invisible any race. And it was in my early twenties

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that I really hit a place where
I was seriously considering whether or not to

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even continue to stay on this side
of things. That it was just such

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an overwhelming feeling of desperation, of
unworthiness, of undeserving. And you know,

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I love cliches because they're a cliche
for a reason, right, because

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they describe what's going on, and
that you know that cliche of it's always

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darkest before the dawn. I was
in that spot where I was, there

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was an opening, there was a
receptivity to something different. And this is

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when I discovered and began a very
deep spiritual path, a deep spiritual process

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understanding that Number one, there is
a power for good at work in my

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life and work in all of our
lives, and there are immutable laws that

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govern our results. And the more
we can come to understand these universal laws

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that are always at work and work
with them in a way, in a

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partnership kind of way, and unlock
that which is coming most alive in us,

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we're actually serving this energy. As
we serve our dream, we bring

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our highest contribution and our lives transformed. And that's what happened for me.

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That there's nothing in my history to
suggest that I would be where I am,

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doing what I am today, living
the kind of life that I am,

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And what I love about it is
that it's a system. It's not

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because I was specially chosen, or
I was plucked out, or it was

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lucky. This stumble upon is the
right word. But I came upon a

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spiritual success system and codified it words
that work for me, applied it in

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my life, and I got to
have a telescope to see where I am

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today. And this is what I
have the amazing honor of now being able

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to share it with others because it's
available for all of us well. And

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you know, I think what's really
interesting is that so many people find themselves

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caught up in a certain experience in
their lives and they don't think they can

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change it. And then when they
hear, when they hear this concept of

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you know, you can create a
new life for yourselves, that becomes very

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foreign to them and difficult to understand
and is like, you know, what

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do you mean? And yet there
are so many people who have gone through

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different programs and different processes that have
literally learned how to create a different life.

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And I think part of that is
this concept of perception, this concept

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of reality and recognizing as you know
that our reality is based on our beliefs,

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and you know, everything that we
observe is there. I belong to

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a networking group that I just joined
in an effort to help them grow a

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little bit. And it's interesting because
as I'm listening to them. I'm saying,

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okay, so why why aren't you
growing as much as you want to?

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And one of them says, well, you know, we live too

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far. So I was talking to
someone else and they said, well,

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yeah, it's kind of too far
away from everybody because we're up in the

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mountains here. And it's like,
that's why you're not growing, because you

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have that perception and as you speak, that perception that creates the reality,

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and it's time to get rid of
that. So explain to the audience a

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little bit, based on your understanding, how does our belief system and those

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things that have been imprinted on us
as children, as you just explained for

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yourself or just in general, even
society, and all of those imprints and

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suggestions and how we need to be
and should or not to and all those

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type of things can create a reality
for ourselves that in fact is not a

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reality. Yeah, such a great
question. It's the foundation, right,

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It's the foundation to everything. And
so when we look at the process of

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creation, right, So first,
you know, we have to start with

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the foundation of understanding how this all
works. You know, step back.

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Many people talk about mindset that it's
all about mindset, and I willly encourage

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people to go deeper because every single
one of us has been given this indescribable

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gift of our imagination, that we
have been given the ability to consciously run

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movies across you know what Joseph Murphy
calls the movie screen of our mind,

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and not even consciously. It's happening
all the time anyway, and we are

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the only species on the planet that
we are aware of, that has the

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ability to consciously choose those images.
Now. The reason why this is important

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is because whatever we're running in our
imagination across the movie screen of our mind

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then determines how we feel. And
this then combines creates our belief and if

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you go even deeper, it creates
our identity. And the reason why this

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is important is because we will never
outperform our identity. We will never outperform

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the way we see ourselves now from
an energetic perspective, what I'm thinking and

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how I'm feeling habitually, not the
surface, but habitually as it defines who

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I am and how I move in
the world. That literally emits transmits an

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energetic signal that now is being transmitted
and impressed into an invisible field. You

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know, quantum physicist is proving with
spiritual masters have talked about the ages that

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we're literally impressing a wave, an
energetic impression into this field and where ways

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of energy. You're hanging out in
superposition, and it becomes the organizing pattern

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for our results. Now, when
we think about what we believe, and

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then here's the thing that most people
just fundamentally, regardless of what you believe

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about yourself, most people in our
world, at least I know this was

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the case for me, have been
trained to believe more in the information that

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the five senses are giving us than
we do in the power of our imagination.

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That we will have an idea like
this idea of this networking group,

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right, and then you start gathering
evidence with your five senses to determine whether

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or not it's going to work.
The point that people miss is that the

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image itself is the power. And
when you allow yourself to be informed and

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guided and trust the image as the
organizing principle for yourself, for your identity,

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and for this energy, you know
that this has far more power than

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what is happening out here. In
fact, I would even go as far

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as to say that this is the
most potent energy in the world. Now,

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it's one thing to have that piece
of information. Right, I'm going

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to interrupt you for a minute because
we're not only on video, but we're

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also on audio. And when you
say this, I see what you're pointing

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to, but nobody else does.
Okay, I had it with the eyes.

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What are you planning to when you
say this, I'm pointing to my

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head, I'm pointing to my mind. I'm pointing to my imagination, right,

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good, yes, yeah, yeah, thank you for that. And

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so it's so when people, you
know, they give they start giving reasons

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why something won't work for me.
It's an indicator that people don't understand.

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They don't understand the system for creating
results. They don't understand the power that

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we wield our fingertips. And then
here's the difference between what I'm sharing in

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mindset. People don't understand that the
imagination and the ability to generate a energetic

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field through our feelings is a gift. It is a divine gift. And

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the dream for something more expansive is
actually not your dream. We're receiving that

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from this universal intelligence, from this
infinite intelligence, because it is the way

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that life is seeking to wake us
up to more who we are created to

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be. And so the purpose of
the dream is not necessarily to achieve,

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although that's great. The real purpose
is to knock at the door of our

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heart and say, oh my gosh, you're capable of so much more.

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Who you are today is brilliant.
And guess what, there's even more brilliant

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that's within you. And the dream
is the informer and the catalyst to bring

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that into to bring you more into
our world, and then your life changes.

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Well. And you know it's interesting. I come from a deeply religious

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background, now, okay, and
as I've gone through my life and observed

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what's going on, I recognize so
many times that people are saying, Okay,

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God, I need you to do
this for me. I need you

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to help me to change this.
I need this, I need this.

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And if they want change, they're
praying for it. They're praying for it,

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they're praying for it. And what's
interesting is that in my experience,

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in my mind, they're losing the
understanding that they have the personal ability and

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responsibility to change and that's it.
And then yeah, then those blessings come

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and not to take away the fact
that those are blessings for those that have

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that religious background. But the reality
is is that to depend on someone else

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to do everything for you is really
deeply a challenge when you realize suddenly that

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you know what, this is something
that I can change myself and can I

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get some help, Sure, you
know, help me to make these changes,

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but take the personal responsibility to realize
that you are the one that can

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make those changes. And if you're
not willing to do that, I don't

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care how much prayer you're going to
do, it's not necessarily going to happen.

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Yeah, And doctor Doug, the
thing that I've discovered over the years

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that have been doing this because my
back on you know, I am a

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minister that taught universal law and now
and I apologize for my dog. I

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I just I can't let's be the
Amazon guy that you know. So what

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I've seen over the years with people
is if people want something and then they're

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really afraid to truly want it.
And so yes, there's a level of

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personal responsibility, and I think it's
more of a level of personal dominion.

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It's a recognition that we really have
been given this power and that we really

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do have the capability to create something
different for ourselves. And then here's the

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sticking point that I find for so
many people, and this is the thing

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that I really had to go after, was that recognizing that this divine essence,

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this divine intelligence, actually wants this
for me. And so what I

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find, and what I found in
my years of ministries that people prayed with

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one foot on the brake and one
foot on the gas is that they prayed,

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but deep down they didn't really believe
that it could happen for them.

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That deep down they didn't really believe
that maybe they were worthy or deserving of

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it. And so it's almost like
they prayed by holding, you know,

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kind of holding their breath a little
bit. But when you understand the system

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that I'm sharing with you, and
understand that we have been given the gift

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of dominion over our imaginations, and
our imagination is the starting point for everything,

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and that when there is a desire
placed into our heart that then bubbles

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up into our imagination that is divinely
inspired, then we can begin to cultivate

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the ability to organize our lives with
an assumption that it's done. That's the

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difference between a prayer of hope and
a prayer of completion. It's done.

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It's done because I recognize the source
of my desire. I recognize the law

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that says as I am holding this
in mind and allowing it to inform who

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I am being asked to become more
of my magnificence, and I step into

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that higher version of myself with the
assumption that things are now organizing accordingly.

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That's when prayer gets in well.
And I think it's interesting. I just

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got back from Thailand, and so
it was just fascinating to go to all

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of the different Buddhist temples and to
learn a little bit about Buddhism. And

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it was fascinating to see how he
really talked about becoming. It wasn't a

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matter of doing. And yes he
talked about here's some things that you need

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to do, but it's more becoming
and meditating and becoming and so on and

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so forth. And if you get
into the Christian area, you have the

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same concept. When Christ says I
am that I am. He didn't say

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I do that I do. He
says I am that I am. And

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and so when you look at that, I think that they're both setting up

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that capability of becoming who you really
are. And I think that becomes a

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challenge when we come to this earth
and here we are in this life,

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and we're so challenged by all the
things that can occur with a physical body

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and all that type of thing.
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that, you know what, I
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I can change that perception of life. I can change my life. It's

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fascinating how I had a discussion with
one of my brothers who was deeply,

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deeply religious, and I was making
my personalities kind of I'll make some smarter

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like comments once in a while,
right, So I made a smart comment

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that if I made to one of
my other brothers wed just laugh and go

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on, and oh my goodness,
I offended him so deeply, and I

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thought to myself, what on earth
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for him, his perception was such
that that was so offensive. And yet

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in my mind it was just a
joke, you know. And so it's

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interesting how people based on their perception
when something when an event occurs, they

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interpret that based on their belief system
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recognizing that if they can work with
their brain and with that and change and

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understand that they can actually change that
perception to the point that the next time

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this event happens, which really really
was difficult for them, they look at

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it and they laugh and they move
on. Well, and yes, and

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and so this is why the power
of having a dream for yourself, the

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power of having a vision, is
that it then begins to inform who life.

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You know, who is this dream
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And then you start seeing it through
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person who's living this life, how
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interaction? And one of the skills, you know, it's across across religions,

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right across spiritual paths. One of
the skills that I continue to work

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with and I help my clients with
is to notice what we're noticing, right

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and the moment we can hone our
ability to notice what we notice. Ask

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is this an alignment with who I'm
becoming and what I'm creating? Is this

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expansive? Am I expansive in the
presence of this? And is this empowering

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me to live the life that is
seeking to express through me? And if

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the answer is yes, then continue
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know, as you're talking about with
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you have a desired image, whether
it's to have a richer relationship, a

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deeper connection, you know, entrepreneurs
building not a business, more dynamic health.

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When you have the image to inform
how you want to show up and

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you notice yourself, ooh, I
got I'm contracting, I got irritated,

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I got you know whatever in that
interaction to then step back and ask,

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so the person living this life,
how does that person interact here? How

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does that person show up? And
the more you're able to put that on,

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the more you are then that identity
and the more you continue to show

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up that way, and it becomes
habitual, and that becomes your belief and

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it becomes your identity. Now your
world can organize accordingly. And here's the

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other thing. You can recognize this
life because you see you living in it,

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and you're able to embrace it,
You're able to accept it, you're

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able to allow it well. And
I think that concept can be a little

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bit difficult for some people. I
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and science is now shown without any
question that there exists that quantum field,

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and as you say, is you
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mind that life as though you're already
living in it. That can be a

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little bit difficult to really understand.
How do you explain to your clients how

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they can literally experience that situation where
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is this is who I am,
and this is who I really am,

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and yet all of a sudden they
recognize, well, no, here's who

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I really am. And how do
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and you talk about belief system,
it really does come into that belief system

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of I literally am different because I've
tapped into that quantum field and I have

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been able to bring back to myself
a new life. And then once you're

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there, then how do you actually
experience that to become a reality. Yeah,

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and that's the process, right,
Okay, so let's get into the

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process. That's a great question.
So first of all, it's you know,

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acknowledging the discontent, right. You
know, for so many people,

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we've been trained. I know I
was trained to gloss over and dismiss and

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you know, deny that there's an
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right, and you know, this
is when you make it about what's

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out here and there's really not anything
I can do about it. I should

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just learn to be grateful and settle
and you know, just go on about

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my life. A key piece of
this is really starting to begin to honor

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when you feel the edge of discontent
and understand that it's a divine discontent,

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it's something bigger, whatever you want
to call it, is asking you to

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know something bigger for you. Now, some people come in with a much

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greater understanding of that there really is
this quantum field, and some people are

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just coming in from, you know, just a very logical basis. And

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so we just when you think about
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we've been given an imagination. This
is a gift that we have the

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ability to create images and to start
noticing the places in your life where you

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had a dream, you had a
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I didn't have necessarily fail we support
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the funding to do that, but
in my mind there was nothing that was

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going to stop me from going to
college. I had that in my imagination

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and I was going to do it, and we've all had experiences like that,

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and I did. I graduated from
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and I went further on. Every
single one of us has examples of

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doing that. That's a process of
seeing something in your imagination, making a

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decision for it, and then organizing
your life about it. You don't have

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to know about the quantum field to
realize that you can do that. Then

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to recognize that as you're doing it, notice how you're growing and how you're

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feeling about yourself and what you're discovering
about yourself. Again, you don't have

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to know about the quantum field.
Just from that logical perspective, everybody can

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relate to that. Everybody has examples
of that. So when people begin to

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see, wow, I've already been
doing it, but now I want to

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pour rocket fuel, wanted to do
it even more, and I want to

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do at ease more easily. The
thing that I have people do is number

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one, really immerse themselves and understanding
law. Then begin to give themselves permission

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to work with the most powerful question
that we can work with, which is

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what would I love? What would
I love? What would I love to

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do? Have give be understanding that
they're tapping into a force of creative,

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generative, expansive, loving energy.
And a key piece of the work that

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I do with people is really understanding
where that desire is coming from and deepening

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their relationship with this life force energy. And so it's a process then when

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they give themselves permission to really hear
what is it that brings them most to

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life and to begin to build a
sense of worthiness, a sense of deserving,

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a sense of connection with this life
force energy and begin to start playing

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in the realm of their imagination.
Wow, maybe I really can do this.

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And again, it's repetition, it's
practice, it's support, it's study.

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To start then recognizing who is my
dream asking me to become? What

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are the qualities that I need to
discover about myself, that I need to

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grow, that I need to enhance, and what is it that I need

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to let go of. You know, one of the things that I had

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to let gold was nobility and poverty. And this is what I hear from

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so many people that I work with, is that they come with an understanding

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that there's a nobility of struggle,
that struggle is holy, struggle is a

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good thing that their God wants them
to struggle to prove themselves, and so

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the work then to stare that down
and start entertaining. Yeah, but what

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if it could be different and then
doing a process of what I call stacking

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the evidence you have built. So
that's your case for why this is it,

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which is why you have a belief
around it. What if you began

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to shift your focus, shift your
attention, just do an experiment to start

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building a case for the reality that
life can be easy, that there is

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a power at work on your behalf, that you are meant to be fulfilled

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and abundant, enjoys, whatever that
looks like for you. I have a

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client whose dream was to build an
adu. It's a it's like a separate

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it's a tiny house on her property
and she wants to live in that adu

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and provide housing for people who are
struggling. That's her dream. She comes

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alive in the presence of that,
and the thing's almost done. I mean,

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she did it, And so it
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It's asking yourself, who is my
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owning that we are meant to live
more abundantly, more fulfilled, more joyously

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and and yes, there's a there's
a component of money that if you want

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a greater degree of wealth that you
can have that in your life. And

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so it's it's an ongoing putting it
on. It's an immersion. It's a

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catching yourself when you find yourself slipping
back into an old way of being.

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I call it zip yourself into the
skin of the person who achieved this.

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And it's moment by moment, stacking
evidence by evidence, identify identification by identification,

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knowing that there's going to be that
that gravitational pull back to the familiar,

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which is why I create the support
that I do to help people stay

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centered stream to the dream that's coming
through them until it's really it can feel

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magical, but it's not. It's
a system that all of a sudden you

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turn around and you realize you're different. You're different, and your life is

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different. Let me ask you a
question. So we're going through that process,

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and you know, I have my
vision board on my computer, so

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it's there. I look at it
every day. Now, Okay, it

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doesn't necessarily mean that anything's going to
change now. But here's the challenge that

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I see so many times, even
with myself and others that, Okay,

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here's my vision, here's what I
want to be, Here's how I want

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my life to be. And yet
you have those belief systems that have been

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so deeply, deeply imprinted on us, whether it's been by society, family,

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friends, religion, whatever that happens
to be. How do you help

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people to literally start to eliminate those
limiting beliefs that can be so debilitating to

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our lives. And the reason I
asked that is, I'll be curious how

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you do it. I mean,
I know that there's no pation that people

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can do. There's NLP, there's
all of these types of things that people

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talk about. What is your experience
on helping people to those limiting to beliefs

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to where they've gone away and you
truly are experiencing a different life because they're

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no longer creating that perception of life. It's a great question. I don't

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I don't seek to eliminate. I
seek to replace. You know, think

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about the old cassettes, right that
we didn't have to erase everything off the

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cassette before we could just record over
it. And so the thing that I

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help people do, first of all
is really let themselves first of all,

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hear the dream that's you know,
with my work, that's foundational to everything

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because it informs everything, right and
so and within that container you're immersing yourself

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in the study of law, that
you're immersing yourself in an understanding that you

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really do have this power, and
that there is a power at work for

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you. And so it's ongoing repetition. There's a rigor to this, doctor

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Doug, that very few people are
really willing to entertain. So you you

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well, and and my clients are
doing and they're making amazing progress. So

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let me give you an example.
So I still do had a client,

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still have a client who had a
brick and mortar. Every Sunday she'd get

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up with a not in her stomach
because that was the day that she was

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going to do her books, and
she was playing the shell game with money

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while she was working sixty seventy,
sometimes eighty hours a week. She was

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really beginning to think seriously about giving
this up. But this thing was her

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dream. She had a belief deep
down that it just wasn't going to happen

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for her. It didn't get to
happen for her, and that life was

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meant to be hard. So the
first thing we started with was that if

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you can make it up any way
you want to, which you're making it

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up all the time anyway, just
start playing with a different possibility, even

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if you don't believe it. And
here's the thing, You're not going to

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believe it right away. We're not
going to have an immediate belief. You

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look at that vision board. There
are things on that vision board that there's

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a part of me that says,
yeah, I can do that, and

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there's another part that says, there's
no way I'm going to be able to

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do that. That's the spiritual journey
is to build a believing in those seemingly

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impossible things. So the first thing
you do is that you begin to write

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out and I'm helping people write out
the vision to check in do you really

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love that? Or are you thinking
that's the best you can do? Are

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you settling? Are you trying to
talk yourself out of it? It takes

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courage and vulnerability just to hear what
is it that you really want? And

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so we work with really refining and
calibrating a vision that when you work with

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it and when you read it,
and there's a whole process that I walk

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people through to work with that where
it's not just a vision board on your

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computer, but you're actually working with
it. Your system comes alive in the

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presence of it. Then we work
with the person who is living this life.

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What does that person know? And
those are the change beliefs, right,

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that person knows that I'm worthy.
And so you're doing the work.

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You're doing the you know, you're
doing the mirror work, you're doing the

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affirmations. You're noticing what worthiness feels
like in your body. That person knows

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I'm courageous, it's like, okay, what does courageous look like? What

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does it sound like? What does
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people through it. There's a daily
practice where every day you're making a decision

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to show up as the person who's
living that dream. And it's a moment

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by moment decision of noticing, oh, okay, I've slipped into undeserving.

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That's what it feels like, that's
what it sounds like. That's how I

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show up when I don't believe I
deserve it. And then it's like,

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okay, let me shift back.
And it's that over and over and over,

410
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and you know, they give me
the greatest gift of having access to

411
00:32:54.519 --> 00:32:59.759
their thinking, so I can help
them see when they've slipped back into that

412
00:32:59.839 --> 00:33:02.359
old pattern. It's like, Okay, what do you know instead? And

413
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if you can't know it in this
moment, cook into my belief, believe

414
00:33:07.599 --> 00:33:10.279
in my belief in you that this
is the reality for you. And it's

415
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really quite breathtaking that when and then
let me back up. So they're continuously

416
00:33:17.000 --> 00:33:22.119
rigorously putting it on who am I
being? Like right now? Who have

417
00:33:22.240 --> 00:33:25.640
you been? During this conversation?
I have caused myself to come back and

418
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be the woman who has created the
kind of life and the kind of result

419
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that I want to create. My
next iteration, that woman shows up differently.

420
00:33:35.480 --> 00:33:39.519
There's a different way of moving and
interacting, and it's so subtle,

421
00:33:39.920 --> 00:33:45.359
but it's the subtle shifts that make
the difference. So from that state of

422
00:33:45.400 --> 00:33:52.440
awareness, now you start praying for
divine inspiration around what's the action I'm to

423
00:33:52.519 --> 00:33:55.720
take. That's an alignment with who
I'm becoming and what I'm creating. And

424
00:33:55.759 --> 00:34:00.640
not only are you taking the action, but you're taking it from the identity,

425
00:34:00.680 --> 00:34:05.799
from the assumption that this is happening. Then the results start happening,

426
00:34:05.880 --> 00:34:07.920
and you're stacking the evidence, you're
noticing, oh my gosh, things are

427
00:34:08.000 --> 00:34:12.519
changing. There's a part that people
want to collapse and push it away,

428
00:34:12.559 --> 00:34:14.320
and it's like, I don't know, I don't know if I can do

429
00:34:14.360 --> 00:34:16.159
this, I don't know if I
deserve it. And so there's a whole

430
00:34:16.239 --> 00:34:22.760
process of really learning how to open
up and embrace that much good where you're

431
00:34:22.920 --> 00:34:28.480
literally learning how to accommodate in your
system a greater degree of freedom, a

432
00:34:28.519 --> 00:34:32.320
greater degree of flow. And I
wish I had a magic pill. I

433
00:34:32.360 --> 00:34:36.960
wish I had a magic wand to
say boom, it's done. But it's

434
00:34:37.000 --> 00:34:43.599
a rigorous, ongoing, daily discipline
of over and over and over, which

435
00:34:43.599 --> 00:34:45.719
is why you have to have something
that you are on fire with, because

436
00:34:45.719 --> 00:34:49.639
we're not going to do this for
something that when luke warm about. But

437
00:34:49.719 --> 00:34:53.559
when you are in love with something, you become willing to immerse yourself in

438
00:34:53.599 --> 00:34:57.840
the process. Whether it's me or
somebody else, it doesn't matter. You

439
00:34:57.840 --> 00:35:01.679
know, earlier you said that it's
a one size doesn't fit all. It

440
00:35:01.760 --> 00:35:07.719
doesn't, but yet the laws do. There's a set of laws, just

441
00:35:07.760 --> 00:35:10.840
like there's a set of laws with
electricity. That it won't work our way.

442
00:35:12.159 --> 00:35:15.719
It works the way it works.
And so when there's a daily immersion

443
00:35:15.800 --> 00:35:23.960
and study, a daily immersion and
applying this putting on owning even more what

444
00:35:24.039 --> 00:35:29.639
you want to know about something,
it's really quite breathtaking how things just begin

445
00:35:29.760 --> 00:35:34.440
to change. You're changing, you're
changing the way you're doing things, and

446
00:35:34.480 --> 00:35:38.320
your world reflex according life. Well, and let's talk about serendipity, I

447
00:35:38.360 --> 00:35:43.519
mean in new opportunities and so forth, because really what we're doing is we

448
00:35:43.559 --> 00:35:46.960
are creating new opportunities for ourselves.
And I appreciate the fact that then we

449
00:35:47.480 --> 00:35:52.440
do tap into that higher energy whoever
you want to call that, to help

450
00:35:52.519 --> 00:35:57.679
us to do that. And I
think that that's important. But how many

451
00:35:57.719 --> 00:36:00.159
times have you found that your clients
are worth looking on this whole project,

452
00:36:00.199 --> 00:36:02.360
and all of a sudden they'll call
on you and they go, wow,

453
00:36:05.119 --> 00:36:08.079
this this just came into my life
and I had no idea. It came

454
00:36:08.119 --> 00:36:14.159
from someplace that they never expected it. So talk a little bit about serendipitous

455
00:36:14.559 --> 00:36:19.519
events that we would never expect,
but as we're doing this whole effort,

456
00:36:19.880 --> 00:36:22.920
that it actually happens. Yeah,
that's so great, right, it's you

457
00:36:22.960 --> 00:36:24.639
know, people say, oh my
god, it came to me out of

458
00:36:24.679 --> 00:36:29.360
the blue. Well where's the blue? Right? We live and move and

459
00:36:29.400 --> 00:36:32.880
have been in this energy of quote
the blue. And you know when something

460
00:36:32.960 --> 00:36:38.079
quote looks serendipitous, it's because we
have made ourselves available to us, that

461
00:36:38.199 --> 00:36:46.800
we this energy, this power now
has access to us, and everything coexists

462
00:36:46.800 --> 00:36:52.800
simultaneously, that nothing need be added. That There's a guy by the name

463
00:36:52.840 --> 00:36:59.000
of Neville Godder who wrote back in
the nineteen fifties metaphysician, who said creation

464
00:36:59.199 --> 00:37:01.639
is finished. Think of it this
way. So this is answering your question.

465
00:37:01.800 --> 00:37:05.320
Just you know, I promise I'm
answering this question. But think of

466
00:37:05.360 --> 00:37:07.559
it this way. Five hundred years
ago, I'm in Tucson. If I

467
00:37:07.559 --> 00:37:12.000
wanted to get from Tucson to La
you know, we moved from southern California,

468
00:37:12.320 --> 00:37:15.280
I would have had to walk right
or maybe have a horse. Think

469
00:37:15.320 --> 00:37:20.239
of it this way. Every single
step along the way. We had the

470
00:37:20.280 --> 00:37:23.880
capacity to get on an airplane.
We didn't invent flight. We discovered the

471
00:37:23.960 --> 00:37:30.880
laws of aerodynamics that have been here
since the genesis of creation the reason,

472
00:37:30.960 --> 00:37:35.239
and we learned how to use those
laws to make it easier. In fact,

473
00:37:35.280 --> 00:37:42.679
I'm flying to San Diego from Tucson
on Thursday to make it easier to

474
00:37:42.800 --> 00:37:46.199
travel. We've collapsed time because we've
discovered how to use the laws that have

475
00:37:46.239 --> 00:37:54.280
been there all along. Everything required
to fulfill your desire is already here.

476
00:37:54.880 --> 00:38:00.400
Nothing need be added. We have
to come into alignment with it. And

477
00:38:00.440 --> 00:38:04.360
when things start coming into us out
of the blue, it's because we have

478
00:38:04.559 --> 00:38:12.119
reached the point of alignment with that
desire that now we're available for it,

479
00:38:12.360 --> 00:38:15.840
that we're literally a match for it, and things can drop in. We

480
00:38:15.920 --> 00:38:20.320
can recognize when things drop in because
things are dropping in all the time,

481
00:38:20.360 --> 00:38:23.320
we're just not in a place to
recognize that. We can recognize when that

482
00:38:23.440 --> 00:38:30.239
drops in and we can receive it. And my invitation for my folks when

483
00:38:30.239 --> 00:38:34.599
I work with them is that when
that happens, never be surprised, but

484
00:38:34.920 --> 00:38:43.519
always be uh in awe you being
grateful, and in awe that there truly

485
00:38:43.639 --> 00:38:47.159
is a power that you're connecting with
in a whole new way. Well,

486
00:38:47.239 --> 00:38:51.119
and you know, I know that
you have a step by step approach,

487
00:38:51.400 --> 00:38:54.320
and we wouldn't have time to go
into all of that that you mentioned.

488
00:38:54.360 --> 00:38:59.239
The first thing is just being aware, Yes, you know, looking looking

489
00:38:59.280 --> 00:39:02.159
at your life, going am I
happy? Am I happy? Do I

490
00:39:02.239 --> 00:39:07.880
love my life the way it is? And for many people that's a difficult

491
00:39:07.960 --> 00:39:10.440
thing to just all of a sudden
realize, you know what, I'm not

492
00:39:10.639 --> 00:39:15.760
happy, And oftentimes they all go, well, yes, because of this

493
00:39:15.920 --> 00:39:19.960
is because of this, they're all
looking at the external factors of what's causing

494
00:39:20.000 --> 00:39:27.639
the unhappiness rather than recognizing that it's
internal. They can choose to change that

495
00:39:27.880 --> 00:39:31.639
unhappiness to happiness. That's it.
It's patterns, right, It's patterns of

496
00:39:31.679 --> 00:39:35.480
how we have related with the world. One of the most courageous things that

497
00:39:35.519 --> 00:39:38.639
we can do is pull back the
veneer strip the band aid off and really

498
00:39:38.679 --> 00:39:45.960
see our life for what it is. And you know, my experience is

499
00:39:45.960 --> 00:39:50.199
is that so many people are afraid
to do that because they don't they're not

500
00:39:50.280 --> 00:39:53.559
convinced that there's something better, and
so it's easier just to keep stuffing it

501
00:39:53.639 --> 00:40:01.000
down when you understand that there truly
is a methodology for you to lean in

502
00:40:01.159 --> 00:40:07.320
and stare it down and transform than
to have the courage to say, you

503
00:40:07.360 --> 00:40:10.880
know, my life is good.
And here's the thing. My sense is

504
00:40:10.880 --> 00:40:15.519
that many people, you know,
those of you watching and listening. Your

505
00:40:15.559 --> 00:40:21.559
life is good, it's probably really
good, and if you're paying attention,

506
00:40:21.719 --> 00:40:27.800
there's an edge of discontent where life
is asking you to embrace and step into

507
00:40:27.840 --> 00:40:34.519
something even more magnificent. And so
to not stop it good enough, being

508
00:40:34.559 --> 00:40:39.079
good enough, but to understand that
we're living, evolving, ever growing beings

509
00:40:39.480 --> 00:40:44.840
and that the way this life force
energy invites us to grow into more of

510
00:40:44.880 --> 00:40:49.159
who we are is by putting the
desire on our heart. And so it's

511
00:40:49.199 --> 00:40:52.760
amazing. I think that people don't
really understand. I've looked at some of

512
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the signs of this, which fascinates
me. How the brain can literally change

513
00:40:59.360 --> 00:41:07.400
and we can experience different things because
we've changed the brain and even the neurological

514
00:41:07.880 --> 00:41:12.079
aspects of that brain to where all
of those limiting beliefs have kind of,

515
00:41:12.119 --> 00:41:17.119
as you say, have been erased
because we've written over them a new pathway

516
00:41:17.599 --> 00:41:22.039
within our neurological system of our brain. So let me ask you this.

517
00:41:22.119 --> 00:41:25.039
You talk about methodology, and we
don't have a lot of time left,

518
00:41:25.159 --> 00:41:29.880
and I don't know if you're comfortable
with this, but as you talk about

519
00:41:29.880 --> 00:41:32.360
what you do, you've talked about
the first step. Is there a methodology

520
00:41:32.400 --> 00:41:36.079
of what you do that you could
share with the audience that says, all

521
00:41:36.159 --> 00:41:37.239
right, we do this, then
we move here, then we move here,

522
00:41:37.280 --> 00:41:40.119
then we move here. Not that's
going to help them, but I'd

523
00:41:40.159 --> 00:41:44.960
love for you to share what your
methodology is so that does people hear this,

524
00:41:45.360 --> 00:41:46.800
they can go, Okay, this
really rings true for me. I

525
00:41:46.840 --> 00:41:52.119
need to really talk to Felicia about
this. Yeah, so I've described it

526
00:41:52.280 --> 00:41:54.400
some so let me let me give
you like the anachronym. So the first

527
00:41:54.400 --> 00:42:01.679
step is designed right to harness the
power of our imagination and our creative capacity

528
00:42:01.719 --> 00:42:06.239
by literally designing a dream. What
would you love? That's your vision?

529
00:42:07.000 --> 00:42:10.639
Then you begin to ther you know
it's a dream. The R stands for

530
00:42:10.760 --> 00:42:15.800
relates. You begin to build a
relationship with the dream. You have a

531
00:42:15.800 --> 00:42:19.920
perfect relationship with your current life.
Now you want to build a relationship with

532
00:42:20.000 --> 00:42:22.679
the dream life to begin to normalize
it, and to build a relationship with

533
00:42:22.719 --> 00:42:28.719
the person who's living that dream.
You let that person inform who you're becoming,

534
00:42:28.800 --> 00:42:34.440
and you build a relatedness that's your
identity. Step three is express increase.

535
00:42:34.480 --> 00:42:39.360
That's the e understanding that everything we're
doing is to bring a greater contribution

536
00:42:39.679 --> 00:42:44.199
to the world around us, regardless
of what the dream is, and again

537
00:42:44.320 --> 00:42:50.440
understanding that who we become in the
process is truly the gift. It's the

538
00:42:50.480 --> 00:42:54.719
difference making. Number four is we
activate our brilliance. As we're doing this,

539
00:42:54.840 --> 00:43:00.920
we're doing what's called generating the state
of being, where literally we're lighting

540
00:43:00.000 --> 00:43:05.119
up different areas of our brain.
We think differently, we become more creative,

541
00:43:05.519 --> 00:43:09.159
and we hook to a stream of
intelligence that's always guiding us. And

542
00:43:09.199 --> 00:43:15.320
so now you're able to see opportunities
and hear ideas just like with flight that

543
00:43:15.360 --> 00:43:17.679
have always been there but they didn't
have access to you. And as you're

544
00:43:17.760 --> 00:43:22.360
seeing yourself living this, now you
have access to those ideas. You can

545
00:43:22.400 --> 00:43:28.519
act on those ideas in a way
that assumes success. And then number five

546
00:43:28.679 --> 00:43:31.519
is to mastermind with a partner in
believing, a community, a mentor you

547
00:43:31.559 --> 00:43:36.239
know whatever, because we're not meant
to do this alone. We're not meant

548
00:43:36.280 --> 00:43:38.400
to do this in the silo.
And it's a rent and repeat, rent

549
00:43:38.480 --> 00:43:42.599
and repeat. Like I said,
it spells out dream and you put all

550
00:43:42.599 --> 00:43:46.880
that together in boom, amazing things
are happening there you go. And I

551
00:43:47.559 --> 00:43:53.000
think it's really important for people to
understand that within that quantum area that we're

552
00:43:53.039 --> 00:43:59.639
really talking about, because it's outside
this normal experience that we have, that

553
00:43:59.679 --> 00:44:06.000
there's a power of creativity there that
we can tap into that just makes such

554
00:44:06.039 --> 00:44:09.039
a difference in our lives if we're
willing to tap into it. And it's

555
00:44:09.119 --> 00:44:13.239
not easy. I mean, you
know, I'm sure that your client's experiences

556
00:44:13.360 --> 00:44:15.440
this is not easy. But I
love the fact that you talked about the

557
00:44:15.440 --> 00:44:19.719
fact that you really do need a
community. You need that partner, You

558
00:44:19.800 --> 00:44:23.199
need somebody to help guide you,
or at least to be there to help

559
00:44:23.239 --> 00:44:28.719
each other, guide each other and
support each other in that type of thing.

560
00:44:29.039 --> 00:44:31.599
So, so let me ask you
this question. A lot of information.

561
00:44:32.079 --> 00:44:36.280
Obviously, you've got a great website, and I love your website.

562
00:44:36.880 --> 00:44:39.159
Life is meant to be good and
we're all meant to live rich, abundant

563
00:44:39.480 --> 00:44:45.400
life, you know, and I
love that. Have you got a book?

564
00:44:45.599 --> 00:44:50.639
Is there are there videos? Or
is it mainly ausite? How do

565
00:44:50.719 --> 00:44:53.519
they really learn more about this so
that it feels good enough to be able

566
00:44:53.559 --> 00:44:58.360
to reach out to you? Oh? Thank you? So I put together

567
00:44:58.480 --> 00:45:01.559
since vision. So let me real
quick the client I was talking about,

568
00:45:01.599 --> 00:45:07.039
she began to do this. She
went from struggling mid six figures to multiple

569
00:45:07.079 --> 00:45:10.920
seven figures. She owned three businesses, working twenty hours a week. And

570
00:45:10.960 --> 00:45:15.119
the most important thing is just the
depth and the breath of who she's become

571
00:45:15.159 --> 00:45:20.039
in the process so that it works
the example after example. So what I

572
00:45:20.840 --> 00:45:24.400
have is that since a vision is
foundational to everything, I put together a

573
00:45:24.440 --> 00:45:31.639
spiritual success toolkit that includes very specific
instructions on how to write your vision.

574
00:45:31.679 --> 00:45:37.199
There's a meditation in there, and
then I laid out this is what I

575
00:45:37.239 --> 00:45:43.000
offer my clients. I laid out
the daily practice so you know what to

576
00:45:43.079 --> 00:45:46.119
do with that vision in alignment with
the formula that I laid out. And

577
00:45:46.159 --> 00:45:49.920
then if you know, if you
want to have a further conversation, there's

578
00:45:49.960 --> 00:45:53.679
a way to grab a spot with
me as you go through that system.

579
00:45:53.719 --> 00:46:00.280
But they can get that at Felicia
SIRC dot com forward slash spiritual success.

580
00:46:00.760 --> 00:46:07.559
Spell that spell that flatia sure f
E l I c I A s E

581
00:46:07.960 --> 00:46:14.559
A r c y my first and
last name. Dot com forward slash spiritual

582
00:46:14.960 --> 00:46:21.440
s P I R I t U
A L system s Y s t E

583
00:46:21.599 --> 00:46:25.199
M spiritual system. Okay, and
you know you talked about meditation. How

584
00:46:25.199 --> 00:46:31.400
often do you have your people doing
the meditation? It's I when they when

585
00:46:31.400 --> 00:46:37.480
people enrollment in my program, I've
got a set of meditations that goes with

586
00:46:37.519 --> 00:46:42.960
the daily practice that brings them into
alignment with their dream. And so it's

587
00:46:43.039 --> 00:46:45.199
every day. You know, I
spend an hour every day in meditation.

588
00:46:45.800 --> 00:46:52.920
And you know what's fascinating about that
is there are there's now documentation, scientific

589
00:46:52.000 --> 00:47:01.159
documentation that I just observed a few
weeks ago that meditation literally can change so

590
00:47:01.280 --> 00:47:06.760
many things, including health and all
of those type of things. And it's

591
00:47:06.800 --> 00:47:09.920
now been documented scientifically by folks now
in at the University of San Diego,

592
00:47:10.599 --> 00:47:16.519
University of California, San Diego,
where they're literally seeing a change in the

593
00:47:16.559 --> 00:47:21.280
body in the body systems and the
bloods, all of that type of thing,

594
00:47:21.320 --> 00:47:25.320
as well as in the mind to
where we're experiencing that different life.

595
00:47:25.360 --> 00:47:28.920
And people look at that and go, well, no, no, no,

596
00:47:28.920 --> 00:47:32.079
no, But now that they have
the scientific evidence that that's actually happening,

597
00:47:32.159 --> 00:47:36.159
I think that really helps for those
that tend to be a little bit

598
00:47:36.199 --> 00:47:39.679
more analytical to go maybe this will
work for me. Yeah, yeah,

599
00:47:39.719 --> 00:47:43.519
I love that the science is catching
up. There's a great joke where it

600
00:47:43.599 --> 00:47:47.400
says that the scientists finally reached the
mound of enlightenment and all the spiritual masters

601
00:47:47.480 --> 00:47:51.599
looked at them and said, what
took you guys so long? Well,

602
00:47:51.639 --> 00:47:55.159
and it's interesting. I won't mention
names, but as I've been studying with

603
00:47:55.239 --> 00:48:00.400
one in particular individual and seeing some
of this talks about the fact that initially

604
00:48:00.400 --> 00:48:06.239
when these folks down at the university
were approached, it's like, yeah,

605
00:48:06.360 --> 00:48:07.920
right, you know, right,
All of a sudden, a couple of

606
00:48:08.000 --> 00:48:13.800
years later, as they're seeing the
results, now about four or five of

607
00:48:13.840 --> 00:48:19.320
them have created this small space a
closet, and they all meditate. Well

608
00:48:19.639 --> 00:48:22.840
think about that, here's a scientist
that didn't believe that, and now they're

609
00:48:22.880 --> 00:48:28.960
all meditating because they're seeing the scientific
proof that this actually can occur through not

610
00:48:29.000 --> 00:48:32.960
only meditation. But I love what
you're talking about as far as how having

611
00:48:34.039 --> 00:48:38.199
you as an individual to help coach
them and be there really helps, because,

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as you say, it takes courage, it takes determination, and sometimes

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we lose that. But to be
able to have someone to help us really

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I think becomes very effective. Yeah, yes, thank you. And I

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always have coaches in my life.
And people who have access to my thinking,

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and it's an honor to be able
to do that with others helping them,

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you know, help you create the
life that you are meant to live,

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a life that you love well.
And I think that's the key is

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if you're living, if you're living
the process yourself, you're so much more

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capable of helping other people do that. So I'm glad you mentioned that.

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Guess what, this went by really
fast. It's been forty seven minutes and

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it's like, holy cow, we
could go on for another couple of hours.

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So anyway, at this point in
time, we're going to have to

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close. But Felicia, I really
appreciate what you've been talking about. And

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obviously, you know, I changed
my show a few years ago from business

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tips and trends where I was involved
in that to inspire vision making the difference

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in people's lives. And obviously you
are one of those people at a very

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high level that is doing that.
So let me honor you for that.

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Yeah, I appreciate that. I
really do. Thank you, and you

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know, mutual love fast. It's
an amazing thing that you're doing in terms

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to bringing amazing speakers and information and
you do it with such greace, Doctor

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Dougs. There's no hidden agenda,
at least not that I'm picking up.

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So thank you. I really appreciate
that. Yeah, there's no an agenda,

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there's no point to it, but
thank you so much, and folks,

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thanks for listening. I know you
enjoyed this. And if you want

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more information on this, please contact
Felicia, go to her website and get

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some more information and see if this
is something that can work for you.

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I know that it can. It's
just a matter of whether you can identify

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with that and have the willingness and, as you say Felicia, the courage

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to make changes in your life.
Thanks for joining us, and we hope

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that you'll enjoin us next time.
Have a great week.