July 3, 2024

A Roadmap to Healing

A Roadmap to Healing

A Roadmap to Healing Trauma, Unlocking Your Hidden Power, and Remembering What Is Sacred.
Dr. Kelly Bonhoff unveils the dormant power and sacred nature within ourselves and every traumatized family, waiting to be rediscovered.
It’s not often an...

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A Roadmap to Healing Trauma, Unlocking Your Hidden Power, and Remembering What Is Sacred.
Dr. Kelly Bonhoff unveils the dormant power and sacred nature within ourselves and every traumatized family, waiting to be rediscovered.
It’s not often an individual can tap into that outer dimension to have a greater understanding of life and life’s purpose. Dr. Kelly has done so and is able to share her personal journey, and also share amazing insights into this life of ours.
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the services of competent professionals before applying or trying any

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suggested ideas.

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At the end of the day, it's not about what

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you have or even what you've accomplished. It's about what

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you've done with those accomplishments. It's about who you've lifted up,

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who you've made better. It's about what you've given back

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than Soel Washington, welcome to Inspire Vision. Our sole purpose

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is to elevate the lives of others and to inspire

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you to do the same.

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Doctor Kelly, welcome to the show.

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Thanks, Doctor Deak. It's great to be here.

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Hey, it's great to have you here. I am really

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looking forward to this. You know, we've had some previous

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conversations and I find that what you have talked about

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in your book as well as other things, is just

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fascinating and I think it's going to fascinate the audience.

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I would love for you to share a little bit

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about yourself and also the story behind how you have

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reached this point in your life and how you actually

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ended up writing your book.

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Yeah. So I began my journey like many of us do,

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in childhood, and so my family and I parachuted in

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to learn live and love and have some experiences around pain,

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suffering and survival. So, when I was a little girl,

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oldest of four, I had three really important jobs. The

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first was to keep my mother healthy, my father happy,

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and my siblings safe. That process, I started asking a question,

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and it was why are children being hurt by those

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who have the opportunity to love them and keep them safe?

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And it was that question that I devoted my life

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to finding the answer to, so moving from fear to freedom,

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and so I became a registered nurse, I became a

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trauma therapist. I've spent the last thirty eight years having

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the honor really of being with traumatized families and children.

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And so I discovered finally and answer to that question,

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which helped me to finally become free in my life,

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to be to love and to just be in the

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flow of life rather than the fast laying of life.

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Well, and you know what's fascinating to me is that.

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I mean, you're you've got so much. You know, you're rich, nurse,

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you're a licensed marriage and family therapist. I mean, you know,

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it goes on and on and on, which obviously you know,

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well not obviously, but it's fascinating how I think sometimes

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our childhood experiences move us into a direction of a profession,

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and yet oftentimes now we find that after that profession,

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for whatever reason, suddenly there's been some type of personal

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soul awakening and we're off on another journey. And many

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times it's there to try to live the lives of

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other people and so forth. I mean, that's why I'm

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doing my podcast, and I know that's why you're doing

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what you're doing. You know, as I read the prologue

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in your book, and folks, we're going to get into

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a little bit of a spiritual situation here, so please

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bear with us because I found this to be so fascinating.

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How how did you end up with that insight that

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you wrote in the prologue of your book? And let's

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talk a little bit about your book. What's the name

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of your book?

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So the book is called What's Going on with my family,

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a roadmap to healing trauma, unlocking your hidden power, and

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to remembering what is sacred. And I'm sure people have

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asked themselves, you know, at the latest reunions, family reunions

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or dinners or holiday parties, who are these people? What

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are we actually doing right here, right now? And so

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the book was born out of really the pandemic pause,

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which the pause is the possibility of aligning to universal

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source energy. So when I no longer had an opportunity

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to be with the children and the teens and the families,

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having been through adversity myself, I hit a wall so

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hard by being sequestered in my home as an essential

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world not able to do things the same way that

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I went into a spin and the pain was off

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the chart mentally, emotionally, physically, and I went to acupuncture

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for the first time in my life, trying to help

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with this pain in my body. And when those acupuncture

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needles went in, they opened my energy centers, the meridians

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in my body. And I didn't know what was happening.

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I just knew. I thought for sure I was going

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to take the exit right there. I was so sick,

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But what had happened was all of the energy started

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to flood that no longer supported my path. And I

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had a dream, Doctor Duck. And it was that dream

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that opened me up to this possibility of something else

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is happening here. And so I was reflecting on the show.

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Do you remember Doctor Dive. Let's make a deal? Do

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you remember that show? And so let's make a deal.

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So it was curtain number one. I had gone through

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the nursing, you know, the mind and the body and stuff,

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and that door number two was was the mental. So

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I'd combined the mind and the body with in my

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professional life. But door number three the spirit mind body, spirit.

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Will see, that's not something I had explored. And so

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now the third door opened. And when it opened, it

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blew wide open, and I began to have visions and dreams.

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The prologue, the very first line of that prologue is

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there was no turning back. And that prologue was written

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from a vision that I had of what we as

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individuals but families were actually doing on the earth right now,

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and it blew my mind. And so.

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I can imagine and you know when we talked about

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what you went through as a child, and just want

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the audience to understand how difficult I really was, because

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that was childhood diversity, abuse, and even some sex trafficking. Right, Yeah,

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so this was really a violent thing, and I can

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understand why you have seek to really help families now.

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But you know, as you had as you had that vision,

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and so many people are going to go, oh, you know, folks,

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listen to this because this is amazing. You have a background,

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what what was your religious background as a child.

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So growing up, I was brought into the tradition of

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Southern Baptist and Southern Baptist traditions were very disempowering in

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that there were a lot of rules, a lot of rituals,

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a lot of things that women could and could not do.

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So there was a lot of what I would say,

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rules of engagement that I had to nab gate. So

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what was a sin? Was I being a good girl

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or a bad girl? Things like that, And there were

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so there was so much trauma along the way that

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I knew for sure that I was going to hell

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because the things that I had experienced and the thoughts

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that I had had about those experiences, I was pretty

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mad about it. I knew for sure that I probably

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wasn't going to get into heaven. That was the way

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that that tradition created a belief system in me, along

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with other systems. But so from my perspective, I was

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a sinner. I needed an intermitmediary to get to heaven,

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and I was just going to do the best I can.

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I had one life, and I wanted to help as

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many people as I could, and so that was what

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I That's the way I lived for fifty seven years.

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Well, yeah, and you know, it's fascinating. One of the

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things is I've contemplated and meditated and studied and so forth.

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What I have found is that for the most part,

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as people here on the earth, we really don't understand

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why we're here, Why were born into the circumstances we were,

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Why were we born into the family that we were born?

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And many people don't even think about that. And yet,

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you know, as I've gone along my own personal journey,

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what I've come to understand, which made it so fascinating

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when I read the prologue to your book, is that

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you know there is a purpose here, and that purpose

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is to understand how to literally live in a world

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with a physical body, because previously we were spirits in

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my mind in a spiritual body, but there's definitely a

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need to experience this physical body because it elevates us

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once we've gotten through that, if we're able to do

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that in the right way, to in a higher level

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of existence. And what fascinates me is if I understand

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that you know, what you experienced in that dream has

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no influence coming from your religious background. It just doesn't know.

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And as a scientist in two distinct areas of discipline,

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by the way, so science was everything I can taste,

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you know, touch, ce smell here, So the five senses

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very important in nursing, right, So this particular experience was

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so mystical that I initially believed that I had had

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a psychotic event. And I had been in therapy on

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and off for decades of time trying to cope with

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my with the childhood, a diversity, with the dissociation, twelve

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prescription medications, addiction to opioids. I mean, believe me, I

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I have moved through that part of the process and

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understand it deeply. So I really believed that I had

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had a mental breakdown. It wasn't until just a little

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bit later that it wasn't a one and done vision

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or dream. Other mystical experiences began to occur spontaneously. I

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began to have experiences I couldn't explain scientifically, and at

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some point I chose to, as a scientist, engage in

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the possibility that I was a multi dimensional being of

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infinite intelligence, pure love, and sacred energy in a human experience,

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exploring the energy of pain, exploring the energy of suffering,

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exploring the energy of survival. Because what I have since

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discovered is that our families are actually part of an

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ancient prophecy to heal ancestral trauma and karma forever as

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humanity ascends into its higher consciousness. So if we think

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about ourselves as the navy seals of the cosmos, if

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we think of ourselves as the bridge builders the way showers,

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now we've got a very empowered narrative. So we are

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the bravest, beautiful, brilliant souls. We're all in here, coations,

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combinations and configurations with one great purpose as one sacred family,

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which is to heal, transform, and then rise into the

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new unity consciousness. So our family call the keys to that.

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Yeah, and you know I, you know you talk about empathetic,

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you talk about mystake. I really love to talk about

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it as spiritual U And you know, because because that

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that that takes way some of the you know, some

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of the automatic reactions of folks who happen to have

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some type of spiritual background or religious background. But you know,

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the mystics, all this type of stuff. But let's talk

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about that. Explain if you can, your vision, explain what

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you came to understand about our life before we came

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here to this physical existence.

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Well before our physical existence, which, by the way, we

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are expressions of life is how I call it so

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in the reincarnation language. So again, language is very limiting

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for human beings. It is we do love to leave.

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It's difficult to express. So for me, mystic and spiritual

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are synonymous. It just depends on on language. So here

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are the experiences that I have had on the other

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side of awareness. And when I call to say the

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other side of awareness, I'm talking the unseen side, the

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side where it is our sacred, spiritual, multidimensional nature. We

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are in a human experience of having a conversation right now,

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doctor Doug, in a limited awareness reality. So when I'm

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talking about the other side of awareness, this is where

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we go when we're sleeping, for instance. So on the

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other side of awareness, once these spiritual experiences began to happen,

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dreams and visions and downloads of information. In a way,

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as I was writing, it didn't sound like me per

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se as doctor Kelly. It sounded different than that. It

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sounded more expansive and more empowering, more loving. And so

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I'm thinking, what is coming through? Who is this? Well,

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this is higher self what people refer to as a

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higher self or my spirit? Who is who is hanging

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out with me now? So on the other side of awareness,

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here is what I discovered, the souls of my family,

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the six of us, mother, father, myself, and three siblings.

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humanity is now exploring energetically. The theme of separation, that

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we believe ourselves to be separate from one another and

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from everyone else. Well, what we know is the law

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of one is we're all interconnected. So we came to

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explore separation, deeply feeling disconnected from ourself and one another.

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self judgment, the judgment of each other, the judgment of

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others in our lives, even the judgment of the natural world.

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lifetime as a family was the theme of self honor. Well,

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what is self honoring. It's remembering and awakening to the self, love,

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self forgiveness, self compassion, self trust, and self care. So

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the minute I put my own oxygen mask on, my

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own oneness mask on, and really understood myself, know thyself,

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it took three years for this book to be born

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because I was healing all expressions of life in every

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place in space. In other words, not just this lifetime,

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but in all lifetimes. So I've had the opportunity to

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clear all that energy, and in doing so, now I

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hold a vibration of home or heaven, if you will,

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began to notice that something was different. So just by

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being my authentic self and holding the highest vibration, I

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could doing my own inner work. Generations of my family

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on both my side and my husband's side, and within

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the marriage itself began to transform. And this is when

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I knew our families, within ourselves as individuals, but our

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families as a whole can and do heal themselves.

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get the sense that we literally chose our family previous

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to coming here. Did you experience that perhaps we even

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chose what experiences we were going to have while we're

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here in this physical realm in order to help us

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to literally grow. And that's different for different individuals. But

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was that the sense that you got?

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give the as I mentioned before, our family as the

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six souls, because we have a soul group that continue

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to ebb and flow through timelines and storylines, if you will,

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and worldlines. World lines are just where we are in

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the world, what culture we're in, tradition, that kind of thing.

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So remember we're doing a lot at the same time

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in this moment of now. But the six souls that

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incarnated as our family, so remember that we're both genetic

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and energetic imprints right of life, and so we were

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very purposeful. This lifetime was very meaningful because we wanted

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to heal the trauma and the karma of this particular lineage.

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other five around me agreed to help me with was

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to heal the energy of pain, suffering, and survival around

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the trafficking specifically, so I had, in a previous expression

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of life, gone through trafficking before, and I had not

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had a chance to heal it. That's the trauma and

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the karma. So I did not have a chance to

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he heal that, and that what you will call previous

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lifetime or expression of life. And so not just those

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five in my family, but those who were the villains

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in my story of that trafficking. I was able to

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ask permission to meet with the higher selves of those

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particular souls to see what that plan was, because the

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trafficking was one of the most difficult parts for me

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to transform in this lifetime, the energy of it. And

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what I discovered is the villains in that story. Remember

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it's all we're playing. We're in a dream at the moment,

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and we're just taking ourselves out for spent energetically to

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learn and to grow as souls. Those who played the

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villains in my story agreed to play those villains so

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that I could possibly potentially move my way through that

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energy of pain and suffering survival into the transportation and

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the awakening of my soul to its true nature. And

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that's exactly what happened in this lifetime.

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Well, and you know the roadmap to healing trauma. Unlocking

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your hidden power. I want to focus on this unlocking

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your hidden power because you know, you're talking families, but

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in effect you're also talking about singular You're talking about

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yourself and for those people and for all of us

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who to one degree or another, certainly not to the

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seriousness that you have experienced, and yet for others, yes,

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it is how do they go about truly unlocking their

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hidden power? I'm not sure that they're going to have

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the same spiritual experiences that you have had, and that

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type of insight that's highly unusual, I think. And you know,

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not many people, well not many people have that type

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of insight, or if they do, they're looking at it

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perhaps a little bit differently. But what is your thoughts

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about how does an individual go about unlocking that power?

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How do they go about freeing themselves from those childhood

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experiences and oftentimes you know, obviously they can be very subconscious.

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We don't even think about those and yet they are

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literally affecting our lives. They're affecting our experience of life

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without us even realizing it. I interviewed a fellow the

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other day that was talking about the neuroscience and how

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literally our brain creates those neurological pathways based on our

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thought process, which oftentimes is that sub conscious and so

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here it is we're experiencing this, and yet there's a

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way in which we can change that neural pathway. We

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can create a whole new life, we can create a

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whole new perception of life. But it's not easy. How

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do you help people on an individual basis to literally

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unlock that hidden power and to be able to overcome

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those situations in their life? And we'll talk about just

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this life. How do they overcome that to the point

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where they really become healed and they really become free

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to move forward to a higher experience in this life?

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Right, So, the first thing I wanted to share is

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answering the question what's the hidden power? The hidden power

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is resilience, wisdom, and genius. Now I had no idea

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I had hidden power. Remember, I went through door number

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three not knowing what in the world was going on here.

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So organically, as I was trying to figure out who

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I truly was because I had wired my brain from

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the beginning, even in the womb at the point of conception,

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we have already taken on the imprints of our mother

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and father wherever they were in their journey. So now

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as I'm in my mom's tummy, if you will, or

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just stating, my mom was super stressed. So now I've

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got all the chemicals as a baby. Right now I'm

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popping out into what I call the shark tank of energy,

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which is the heavy energy that our world was living in,

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not just my parents, their parents, their parents. So I

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had to close down that connection to my sacred nature

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really quickly. Sacred meaning worthy of unconditional love. Okay, so

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I shut that down. Didn't know I had a hidden power.

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So at the age of fifty seven, at the point

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of the pandemic, where I had to break down, to

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break through, to break free, I had to start from

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the beginning. And the question I asked is the in

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the very beginning, is what do I believe? Not what

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my parents believe, or my teachers believe it, or my

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past or believes none of that. What do I believe?

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And the answer was, I have no idea because I

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had been programmed and imprinted with everything that I should

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believe in order to be a good person in whatever

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subject matter that meant. So what I had to do,

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doctor Doug. And what I realized was there were three

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steps I took that I practiced every day, and they

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started with intention. What was my intention today? My intention

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was to stay curious about the possibility that I was

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multi dimensional and sacred having a human experience. That was

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my intention. Then I paid attention to everything around me

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that gave me any information about that. Now I was

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distracted by a lot of things. I was healing my

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body and doing a bunch of other stuff, but I

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kept that intention primary. I paid attention to the signs,

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symbols and synchronico synchronicities. Then I realized I had an

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inner guidance system which I didn't know I had of

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inner feeling in or knowing inner being. So intention, attention

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and inspired action. Now this one was the most difficult

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because I had lived by impulsive action, impulse coping, distraction.

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I need a drink, I need a pastry, I need

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a purchase. Those were my three piece patrone, pastries and purchases.

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So those were my big repeat right there, And so

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I inspired action. I didn't know what inspiration even felt

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like I had closed off my body. I was dissociative

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most of my life, so I had to bring feeling

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back in. But what was also interesting was all was

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all the neurobiological information that was started streaming toward me.

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So now instead of being in retirement, I'm in rewirement.

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So I was able, through intention, attention and inspired action,

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able to rewire my every thought, every word, every belief,

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every emotion, feeling and action. Once I turned into in

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the direction of intention, intention to heal, intention to unlock,

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intention to remember my sacred nature. Once I turned and

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was willing to do that was when everything began to change.

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Now I had to make a commitment to that. It's

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a daily thing. It still is so. But those are

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the three things that I initially started to do that

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I do to this day that turned myself from fear,

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which was which is the familiar energy aligned with resistance.

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When we talk about energy, we're all energy. Familiar energy

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align with resistance to move from fear to freedom. Those

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are the three key things that I did that started

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that path for me.

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So for you, you personally had such amazing experiences that there

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was that inner motivation that allowed you to do that.

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So as you work and do, you work with individuals

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as well as families.

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So right now, because I've been so doctor Doak, I

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call myself a recovering caterpillar. I've been in the chrysalist

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energy for the last three years or so, keeling getting

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the book written. So my body, my chakras, everything's completely healed.

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No more medication, no more pain. It took me all

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of that time. So what I've been doing is, rather

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than chasing energy, which is what I used to do,

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I attract energy, which means anyone who comes into my

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field of awareness as an individual or a child or

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a family, then I voluntarily sit with them and we talk.

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So I work through synchronicity right now, So I don't

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have an open practice other than just in the three

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D world as it were. What I'm doing is I'm

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attracting the experiences toward me, and I honor that divine

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timing and divine plan and it has been it's been

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a richer experience for me to have people come into

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my awareness and be within the present moment with them

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there rather than scheduling myself. So I no longer have

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a to do list. I have a to do list.

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So life is magical now, life in the flow lane,

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not life in the fast lane.

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Okay, So my question then, as you're helping someone, because

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as you talk about intention attention and then you know,

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getting into that healing mode, how do you with someone

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that you're actually helping that has been attracted to you,

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how do you help them? Because those words can be

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somewhat ill in general, you know, Okay, intention attention, how

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do you help someone individually that has come to you

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to be able to actually overcome and be able to

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eliminate the effects of those experiences in their lives which

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have caused them to experience their life in a way

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that they really don't want to experience.

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Yeah, doctor Dougo, this was really interesting for me. I

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have an ability that I wasn't aware of. I'm an impact,

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but I didn't know who I was, as many of

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us don't when we start. But I have the ability

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to hold energy for what I do as sacred space.

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So the first thing that has happened ever since I

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was a little girl, people have told me they have

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this feeling that when they come into my space, they

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feel calm, they feel safe, they feel secure, and so

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they begin then in that space, and they're wondering about

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it because the rest of the time they're in fear

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and resistance and worrying when's the next terrible thing going

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to happen. So when they're with me in this sacred space,

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what I do is I initially sit in silence, holding

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this sacred space of safety, and then I notice that

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they begin speaking whatever is coming into their mind first.

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Usually they're not speaking from heart first because their hearts

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are closed. There is a heart wall that we've learned

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about energetically that is preventing them from being authentic, so

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it's coming from their mind first. But as they're talking,

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they gently begin to rest into this beautiful energy. And

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then I noticed them taking a breath, and from there,

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depending on what exactly is going on in their life

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at that moment, I ask gently, I'm curious, what would

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you prefer to be happening? And they say, well, I

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would prefer to have more peace in my life, all right,

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So your intention is to have more peace, So let's

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start with that. What does peace feel like? Then we'll

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move to creating, paying attention to when peace is not present,

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when is it present? Oh there, it's present there. Well,

461
00:31:33.559 --> 00:31:36.400
let's do more of that. And then I help them

462
00:31:36.440 --> 00:31:39.079
tap into just a little bit to their inner guidance system.

463
00:31:39.359 --> 00:31:41.240
And this is a little bit stranger for people with

464
00:31:41.319 --> 00:31:44.079
trauma because we don't want to feel we've shut that

465
00:31:44.119 --> 00:31:48.599
thing down, right, So it's that gut instinct. But until

466
00:31:48.599 --> 00:31:51.160
their gut instinct or their solar plexus kind of comes

467
00:31:51.160 --> 00:31:53.799
online and their heart chakra kind of gets clear, what

468
00:31:53.880 --> 00:31:55.559
I do is I say, I want you to start

469
00:31:55.640 --> 00:31:59.920
noticing the animals that surround you, the songs on the radio.

470
00:32:00.920 --> 00:32:03.440
You might have someone walk up to you and say

471
00:32:03.480 --> 00:32:07.400
something kind. Start noticing around you, because we've got signs

472
00:32:07.480 --> 00:32:10.160
and symbols and syncronsies all over the place. The universe wants,

473
00:32:10.519 --> 00:32:13.079
the universe is all over us. We've got a lot

474
00:32:13.119 --> 00:32:15.799
of followers out there. And so I asked them to

475
00:32:15.799 --> 00:32:19.519
begin noticing magic, to just write it down for a week,

476
00:32:20.039 --> 00:32:24.920
just so intention attention inspired action. And then they get

477
00:32:24.960 --> 00:32:27.920
excited because they notice that, and I say, are you

478
00:32:27.960 --> 00:32:30.799
willing to explore? I'm willing to explore. I ask them

479
00:32:30.839 --> 00:32:33.559
to say it out loud, and now their guides and

480
00:32:33.279 --> 00:32:35.519
their family of life is what I refer to them

481
00:32:35.559 --> 00:32:38.599
as now I noticed them in the background going, yes,

482
00:32:39.519 --> 00:32:42.440
you know whoa, let's try it. And so I just

483
00:32:42.519 --> 00:32:45.160
start very slowly, but I start with what's on their

484
00:32:45.319 --> 00:32:47.440
heart first or what's on their mind first, and then

485
00:32:47.440 --> 00:32:50.960
I just sent three simple steps and once they start

486
00:32:50.960 --> 00:32:54.960
getting excited, now they now they realize, well, that's what

487
00:32:55.079 --> 00:32:58.519
joy feels like for me, and so as much joy

488
00:32:58.920 --> 00:33:03.000
as we can infuse in their lives, their vibration begins

489
00:33:03.000 --> 00:33:05.319
to rise. They begin to notice more, they set more

490
00:33:05.319 --> 00:33:09.279
intentions that they pay attention to, they take more inspired

491
00:33:09.279 --> 00:33:13.240
actions because they're connected to their own guidance system. So

492
00:33:13.240 --> 00:33:17.599
that's an example, doctor Doug, of how I lead them

493
00:33:17.680 --> 00:33:25.920
to their own sacred nature. I'm here to guide. I'm

494
00:33:25.960 --> 00:33:30.000
here to guide people and families back to who they

495
00:33:30.039 --> 00:33:33.640
truly are, because once they get the hang of it,

496
00:33:34.319 --> 00:33:38.200
they've got it and now they can co create their lives.

497
00:33:38.960 --> 00:33:42.759
So here's my question. You know, I'm sitting here in Thailand.

498
00:33:44.119 --> 00:33:46.880
There's no way I'm going to be over there to

499
00:33:46.880 --> 00:33:50.079
sit down with you and experience that that I want

500
00:33:50.119 --> 00:33:54.079
to achieve a similar thing. How do I do that

501
00:33:54.319 --> 00:33:59.079
individually without you being there? And is that part of

502
00:33:59.119 --> 00:34:02.359
what is in your books, you actually describe to people

503
00:34:02.440 --> 00:34:06.440
how they can experience that on an individual basis and

504
00:34:06.519 --> 00:34:10.559
accomplish that on an individual basis. And if so, how

505
00:34:10.599 --> 00:34:12.719
do they do that? Is it through meditation?

506
00:34:13.039 --> 00:34:13.199
Is it?

507
00:34:13.480 --> 00:34:17.800
Is it through different modalities? How is that?

508
00:34:17.800 --> 00:34:21.760
That's a great question. And I do want you to know,

509
00:34:21.920 --> 00:34:24.599
doctor Deak that as you and I are talking, the

510
00:34:24.760 --> 00:34:28.760
energy of our conversation is flowing through the medium of technology.

511
00:34:29.840 --> 00:34:34.840
So if someone does not want to engage through the technology,

512
00:34:35.440 --> 00:34:39.239
here is what I discovered that brings me great joy.

513
00:34:40.119 --> 00:34:43.480
When I was a little girl, I would sneak out

514
00:34:43.480 --> 00:34:46.480
of the house and I would sit outside and I

515
00:34:46.480 --> 00:34:49.960
would look to the stars because the stars brought me

516
00:34:50.039 --> 00:34:54.559
incredible comfort. Don't know why I felt so comfortable looking

517
00:34:54.559 --> 00:34:58.039
at the sky, but I did, and it gave me comfort.

518
00:34:59.000 --> 00:35:02.239
And so as the book was unfolding, I'd go outside

519
00:35:02.280 --> 00:35:16.280
and I'd look to the stars, and I realized, oh wow, stars, stillness, thankfulness, affirmations, reflection,

520
00:35:17.360 --> 00:35:21.880
and showing up for myself, my family, there's in my

521
00:35:22.000 --> 00:35:28.800
life and the natural world. Look to the stars. As

522
00:35:28.880 --> 00:35:33.880
people move their intention to just being curious, don't believe

523
00:35:33.920 --> 00:35:37.559
a word I say. If anything resonates great and if

524
00:35:37.559 --> 00:35:40.400
it doesn't, put it down. But if something inside you

525
00:35:40.519 --> 00:35:45.119
is saying something feels feels familiar about what she's saying,

526
00:35:46.719 --> 00:35:53.800
then those five steps every day where yourself first really

527
00:35:53.840 --> 00:35:58.719
really helped me. And once my vibration shifted, shift being

528
00:35:59.320 --> 00:36:02.679
sacred healing of individual and family trauma. It's a shift

529
00:36:02.719 --> 00:36:05.239
show out there, doctor Doug. That's all that's going on

530
00:36:05.360 --> 00:36:08.800
right now. Our world is healing. That's it. We can't

531
00:36:09.039 --> 00:36:14.239
heal what we can't see. So look to the stars.

532
00:36:14.960 --> 00:36:21.320
It's free. Anyone can do it anywhere, anytime. And by

533
00:36:21.360 --> 00:36:23.639
the way, just keep that a little secret for a

534
00:36:23.760 --> 00:36:28.480
wealthfare family and wait until they begin to notice what

535
00:36:28.639 --> 00:36:31.800
has changed, because when they come to you and ask

536
00:36:31.840 --> 00:36:34.960
the question, they're more open to hearing your experience.

537
00:36:37.639 --> 00:36:40.159
Well, and so as you talk about going out and

538
00:36:40.239 --> 00:36:44.239
looking at the stars, I'm thinking of a very specific

539
00:36:44.800 --> 00:36:48.519
description that I heard about the other day on in

540
00:36:48.599 --> 00:36:53.559
podcast and talk about our sacred senses. And you know,

541
00:36:54.039 --> 00:36:58.159
in that case, really you're in there looking at the stars,

542
00:36:58.199 --> 00:37:03.760
you're kind of getting into this whole meditative state. And

543
00:37:03.800 --> 00:37:07.400
so again going back to that question of you know,

544
00:37:07.519 --> 00:37:10.559
how does one go about that? Is it a matter

545
00:37:10.719 --> 00:37:14.519
of you know, the intention, attention, and then really getting

546
00:37:14.559 --> 00:37:20.199
into that state of meditation of just really trying to

547
00:37:20.239 --> 00:37:23.880
eliminate everything around you to where you can really tap

548
00:37:23.920 --> 00:37:28.639
in to that spiritual nature of who you are. Now

549
00:37:28.880 --> 00:37:32.400
those that are non spiritual call the quantum field. Those

550
00:37:32.440 --> 00:37:34.840
that are spiritual, you know, talk a little bit about

551
00:37:35.000 --> 00:37:39.039
something a little bit different. But is that? Is that

552
00:37:39.280 --> 00:37:42.199
what happens? And is that how they're able to do that?

553
00:37:42.320 --> 00:37:46.239
Is to get into that state and then recognize what's

554
00:37:46.280 --> 00:37:50.960
coming up and then understanding that consciously they can then

555
00:37:51.880 --> 00:37:54.239
let it go. How does that work?

556
00:37:56.159 --> 00:37:59.920
Yeah, you know, I gotta tell you it was herbulus.

557
00:38:00.039 --> 00:38:02.360
It can be uncomfortable, and that is a natural part

558
00:38:02.360 --> 00:38:07.079
of this process. We are, as human beings moving through

559
00:38:07.119 --> 00:38:10.000
a lot of energy right now that is bringing our

560
00:38:10.000 --> 00:38:15.199
bodies vibrations higher. So any energy, the heavier energy of

561
00:38:15.320 --> 00:38:19.519
fear and blame and worry and hurt and shame and

562
00:38:19.719 --> 00:38:23.639
all of that is coming up for a review. It's

563
00:38:23.639 --> 00:38:25.559
coming up to say are you going to hang on

564
00:38:26.039 --> 00:38:28.039
or are you gonna find a way to let go?

565
00:38:28.639 --> 00:38:31.679
And so letting go is not easy, it's unfamiliar, it

566
00:38:31.679 --> 00:38:34.119
can be scary. You may feel overwhelmed with the emotion.

567
00:38:34.679 --> 00:38:39.079
All we're doing is moving the energy. It's energy in motion. Energy.

568
00:38:39.159 --> 00:38:41.719
That's all this is. That's all it is. And so

569
00:38:42.280 --> 00:38:46.239
there is a trust that comes into this idea of

570
00:38:47.360 --> 00:38:50.400
if I do let go, if I do surrender everything

571
00:38:50.440 --> 00:38:53.800
I really have ever known and believed about myself. Some

572
00:38:53.840 --> 00:38:57.400
people call this the dark night of the soul or

573
00:38:57.719 --> 00:39:02.159
the death of the ego, which I don't ascribe to

574
00:39:02.159 --> 00:39:04.000
the death of the ego. By the way, I think

575
00:39:04.000 --> 00:39:06.800
the ego is sacred and is a part of the journey.

576
00:39:08.239 --> 00:39:11.920
It's experiencing God as one ego. That's an empowered version

577
00:39:11.960 --> 00:39:15.239
of ego. But what I'm trying to say is that

578
00:39:16.519 --> 00:39:18.599
you can count on the fact that you're going to

579
00:39:18.679 --> 00:39:23.880
wonder whether what's on the other side of what's unseen,

580
00:39:23.960 --> 00:39:27.119
whether the magic's really there, whether you've lost your mind.

581
00:39:27.440 --> 00:39:30.760
Believe me when I tell you that's a part of

582
00:39:30.920 --> 00:39:37.239
navigating the journey. It's very natural, and yet it is

583
00:39:37.280 --> 00:39:39.840
what you came here to experience in order to grow

584
00:39:40.679 --> 00:39:44.559
and so have people around you. If you can find

585
00:39:44.599 --> 00:39:47.360
in which there are more now than ever around you,

586
00:39:47.440 --> 00:39:49.880
just ask for help and support, to have someone come

587
00:39:49.920 --> 00:39:54.039
into your awareness that will share the journey with you

588
00:39:54.400 --> 00:39:58.480
that you can speak to honestly about the bridge between

589
00:39:58.719 --> 00:40:03.119
what you knew yourself to be and then now who

590
00:40:03.159 --> 00:40:06.719
you really are. I really have in my mind what's

591
00:40:06.760 --> 00:40:10.400
been going on lately is your family is not who

592
00:40:10.440 --> 00:40:14.000
you think they are, and neither of you. That's the

593
00:40:14.039 --> 00:40:19.599
greatest aha that I've had. I don't have a family life.

594
00:40:19.639 --> 00:40:24.320
My family is live. And once I was able to

595
00:40:24.400 --> 00:40:29.119
consider the possibility that that was true for me, I

596
00:40:29.199 --> 00:40:33.880
turned my attention intention inspired action in the direction because see,

597
00:40:33.880 --> 00:40:38.000
I'm curious, George. Everybody's curious. Is that right? Is that true?

598
00:40:38.119 --> 00:40:43.679
What's going on here? So these experiences I cannot explain scientifically.

599
00:40:44.440 --> 00:40:46.920
What I can say is these are the things that

600
00:40:46.960 --> 00:40:51.880
have helped me to transform fear into freedom and I

601
00:40:51.920 --> 00:40:54.559
am freedom, well.

602
00:40:54.920 --> 00:40:57.039
You know, and I love that. And I think for

603
00:40:57.119 --> 00:40:59.920
the folks that are listening the whole key, I love

604
00:41:00.239 --> 00:41:03.440
the fact that you know who you surround yourself with

605
00:41:03.599 --> 00:41:07.639
has such an effect on your experiences and to be

606
00:41:07.719 --> 00:41:12.000
able to find people who are really seeking to become

607
00:41:12.880 --> 00:41:18.480
and to eliminate all of those, you know, negativity experiences

608
00:41:18.519 --> 00:41:20.920
of their lives and realize and I think it's so

609
00:41:21.000 --> 00:41:24.239
difficult for people to understand that they truly are divine,

610
00:41:24.639 --> 00:41:30.360
that there's a divinity within them. That is so important

611
00:41:30.440 --> 00:41:34.719
to understand, because once you have that understanding, all of

612
00:41:34.760 --> 00:41:38.840
these other teachings that you've been imprinted with kind of

613
00:41:38.920 --> 00:41:41.320
go away, because no longer can you say I'm no

614
00:41:41.400 --> 00:41:47.039
good or whatever. Understanding that, yes, there's a divine goodness

615
00:41:47.280 --> 00:41:52.159
within you that just overreaches all these realms, then all

616
00:41:52.159 --> 00:41:54.880
of a sudden, you're able to move forward in that

617
00:41:55.519 --> 00:42:00.079
process to start to eliminate those type of situations and

618
00:42:00.159 --> 00:42:06.119
let go of those limiting imprints and experiences that up

619
00:42:06.159 --> 00:42:09.920
to that point have truly been affecting your life. So

620
00:42:10.280 --> 00:42:13.760
as we get to the close here, what I'd love

621
00:42:13.800 --> 00:42:16.599
for you to do is share with the audience in

622
00:42:16.719 --> 00:42:20.320
just a short moment, what is the message that you'd

623
00:42:20.400 --> 00:42:24.119
like them to walk away with as they finished listening

624
00:42:24.199 --> 00:42:25.119
to this podcast.

625
00:42:27.599 --> 00:42:31.840
What I've discovered so far is that within every traumatized

626
00:42:31.880 --> 00:42:38.840
family there lies a hidden power, a sacred potential waiting

627
00:42:38.920 --> 00:42:44.119
to be remembered and awakened. You and your family are

628
00:42:44.239 --> 00:42:51.800
love in action, here to heal ancestral trauma and karma forever.

629
00:42:54.039 --> 00:42:56.840
This is the greatest time on earth to be alive,

630
00:42:58.199 --> 00:43:01.920
and I am so thankful to be on the journey

631
00:43:01.960 --> 00:43:02.559
with all of you.

632
00:43:04.079 --> 00:43:07.639
Oh wonderful, Thank you so much, Kelly. This has just

633
00:43:07.800 --> 00:43:12.800
been an amazing, amazing conversation. And the insights that you've had,

634
00:43:12.800 --> 00:43:16.599
the experiences you've had, and the ability. I can't imagine

635
00:43:16.599 --> 00:43:19.440
that it was easy to sit and write that book

636
00:43:19.480 --> 00:43:24.159
and become so transparent. You know about your life and

637
00:43:24.280 --> 00:43:28.760
about what you have experienced, and you know all of that.

638
00:43:28.760 --> 00:43:31.480
That's not easy to do, and yet you've done that,

639
00:43:31.880 --> 00:43:35.480
and I'm sure that you're touching so many lives. How

640
00:43:35.480 --> 00:43:36.800
do people find that book?

641
00:43:38.960 --> 00:43:43.599
Well, everyone can find me at one Sacred family dot com.

642
00:43:45.119 --> 00:43:49.639
Okay, and is your book on Amazon or any other places?

643
00:43:50.559 --> 00:43:52.280
Yeah? So the book you can just go in there,

644
00:43:52.320 --> 00:43:54.800
but it's in every format you can imagine, and also

645
00:43:54.880 --> 00:43:57.599
on Audible and find a Way voices if you choose

646
00:43:57.639 --> 00:43:59.920
to listen to it. I did narrate it for some.

647
00:44:01.079 --> 00:44:05.320
Oh wonderful, wonderful, Well, folks, Hey, thanks for listening. I

648
00:44:05.360 --> 00:44:08.239
hope this has been meaningful to you and we look

649
00:44:08.280 --> 00:44:10.360
forward to having you join us again soon for the

650
00:44:10.400 --> 00:44:14.760
next one. Meanwhile, have a wonderful day in Noma State.