Super Synchronicity: From Manifestation to Miracles with Suzanne Kos

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0:44 Denzel Washington, welcome to Inspire Vision. Our sole purpose is to elevate the lives of others and to inspire you to do the same. Suzanne, welcome to the show. Thank you very much. I'm very happy of having met. Oh I'm pleasing where audience were both laughing because it took us forever to try to figure out how we could hear each other on this so anyway, anyway, So what I'd love for you to do is kind of share your story, your journey of what brought you to this point where you've written a book and you can talk a little bit about the book and also you know what brought you to this point, and then we will get into a whole discussion.

1:24 Okay, so what brought me to this point? It was a funny story. Let's say like that. I started out just to say like this, I'm all about manifestations. So everybody's talking about it, but I have I had a really fun story because I started out as a young girl what you call nowadays on social media. You see this girls the travel the world and everything seems to fall into place for them, and I was like that. But it was like naturally. It was not like thinking that I'm special, but it was I was so almost naive that everything just worked out for me. And and you know, for example, I never applied for a job so already during the university, you know, other students, they would have died for jobs, like because it was just a girlfriend, who're coming, Oh we need one more person to work at the TV station? You know, the other girls would have died for it. And we were like, okay, why not. And the real story of my journey started.

2:33 I got another job and I earned quite a lot of money. So with my boyfriend at that time, I said, all be better not to spend it on stupid things. Let's make like a really great holiday. So we went to a travel agency and he said, oh, right now, it's very cheap, you can go to Bali. So we booked a holiday for eight weeks, you know, and eight weeks to Bali. And at that time my boyfriend he started already like with are coaching. And we were sitting on a beach and he said to me, or may I ask you a question from his coaching? I said, well why not? I said, okay, this is a coaching question.

3:16 If you have a magic want, what would you be for? So you're living in Thailand, you can imagine, you know, sitting in Bali in a beach like with this beautiful sunset. I was because for me it was like that the moment I came out from the airplane, I knew I was going to live here, you know, it was just so beautiful. So I was sitting there and I said, oh, I want to live in Bali, and yeah, if I live on an island, I want to have a boat to cruise around. And at the beginning he was laughing at me, he was like, this is like everybody wants, you know, on a beach and have a boat. But for me, it was so strong and it was I knew it. I knew at that moment it's going to happen.

4:06 So we went back home to Austria, but I couldn't stop thinking about it. So we went back after a year, back to Bali, but already with the idea to buy a boat. But you have to think, I was a I just finished university and I'm coming from a very normal family. It's not like mommy gives you a check, so very normal family and no money left at that time. And we just started looking around for boats, like if we have the money, you know, and we couldn't find a nice second hand boat. And then somebody told us. He said, hey, guys, you're in Indonesia, the land of the most famous boat builders, so just go to South Sulawesi.

4:55 And we went there and we started bargaining with a boat builder and yeah, we fixed the contract. So we went back to Austria and we couldn't get the money. In the beginning. We could only get I think because they were saying it's cheap, but it was not cheap. I think it was like fifty thousand euro but it's cheap for a boat, but for us, it was a huge amount of money, you know. So we found one bank and they granted us like thirty thousand. We took the money and we went back and we made the down payment for the boat, and I think it took us. I think we went to like fifteen or twenty banks and we found one in the capital of Austria and Vienna, and the guy just said, like, my guys, I cannot give you the money for a boat in Indonesia, but I don't know somehow I trust you, and he really gave us their money. So the boat building took one year and when we finished the boat, it was huge.

5:52 It was thirty meters I think this is like seventy eight feet. We made like Kevin's inside so we can take tourists and the money. And at that time, when the boat was finished in the harbor, I don't know if you remember, there was this pig tsunami and at the same time was the Bali bombing. Yeah, well, so we had this huge tourist ship. But what happened we realized that I mean, like from one day to the other all the tourists left Bali. It was like boff, it was empty. So we realized the first tourists who came back were divers, and at that time I was afraid of diving. So we were like, oh my goodness, we have to make a dive boat. So we called the bank again and we said, cannot start the business.

6:44 We need to adjust the boat for diving. So we got again some extra money to buy some compressors diving stuff. We made a diving course. We found a div instructor to join our boat, and this was such a lucky stroke because the boat went like this. You know, we were the first German speaking diving boat in this remote area. And yeah, we did it for ten years. We were like fully booked ten years, and I think I stopped logging my dives after three thousand dives. And it was wow, really really beautiful. And then we yeah, I got a son in between, a baby boy, and even the paradise can it's I was bored after a while, you know, like doing all the trips all the time, so we decided to go back to Austria and we found a couple.

7:38 They bought the boat and everything was fine. I bought a farmhouse here and this is the part of my life where all this manifesting was like really natural. It was it was I say, I really call it naive because in my world there was no concern how to pay back this credit. We paid everything back, you know, everything was fine. And this is a feeling you have if you have it, you know, it's so good. But the point is for me now when you when you how you get it if you if you don't have it, you know so, and I think this is part of the journey. I think you need at one time in your life. You have to hit rock bottom to open your eyes and to understand it, you know. So yeah, we went back and I was like, okay, what I'm doing next? And I thought, oh, it would be maybe nice because I love bracelets and love jewelry. I love crystals.

8:36 So I started a jewelry business because I still had the connections in Bali. So I founded a woman's charity so they can it's like really like totally simple bracelets with a little I call it the Wish crystal because at that time, for me, the point was the power of thoughts, you know. So for me that the difference was it's in your head, just in your head. This was my first conclusion about the whole thing, and I wanted to spread the message all over the world. But it's you know, like I got it next as second child at that time, and I think this was the time.

9:16 And also like the everyday life kicked in, you know, a lot of responsibility and it didn't work out from the beginning as I wanted. So this was the time when I started with all this manifesting and personal development, but nothing really worked, you know, like the wish to the universe, it's for me. You know. This was also the time with the secret and I was like, ma, it just it didn't work. It was like, it's not like that. You didn't make a wish and the universe is delivering. It's just not like that. So it took me, I think two years, like really, I got a divorce. The business as the jewelry business, it went up in the beginning, but it went down to zero again. So and this was the time when I heard the first time of what synchronicity. Okay, So it was for me, it's it's just more than manifesting, because for me, manifesting what the people think. Yeah, you make this wish to the universe and you repeat it and you think about it. But what I saw on my own example, it just it didn't work, you know, So I figured out it's I tried to remember how I was before. You know this, This is this not one hundred This is like a one thousand percent of trust days like no plan B. You got you. And as soon as you start to come into this how do I get there? What I call now the how addiction

10:48 because at the end you I control freak you some somehow inside you think, oh, this must happen, and this must happen, this must happen. And this is when I started to realize it's it's a kind of an inner reality. But the question was how to reprogram it? Well, yeah, what I find interesting You've used a lot of words, and you know you've talked about manifesting. And obviously years ago the Secret movie came out, and you know, put up your dream board and all that, and I did that too, and and you know you're thinking they're going to manifest I've actually years ago I interviewed someone who had been on the show on the movie and they said, you know what we figured out later on there was a little bit more to it. And so as you talk about synchronicity, I'd love for you to share with the audience what your opinion is and what your definition of synchronicity and how it differs from manifestation.

11:49 If it does, yeah, it does, it's not it does, it's not different, it different. It's like the secret manifestation is just incomplete. You know, there is a little bit more behind. So let's go to the term synchronicity. It's it was a famous Swiss like psychologist Carl Gustaf Young. He defined the term in the beginning. It's like a chain of coincidences. They are not related to each other, but they lead to a certain outcome. And it's like if you look back, if you're in the middle, you don't realize the coincidences, but at the end when you look back, say, oh my goodness, you know what lucky twists were involved that you get there, And it's it's I like to call it also like these lucky chances and meaningful coincidences, because this is something you can grab.

12:52 But I think that if you're I call it a frequency. It's a frequency what you're like, you're already thin from inside to the outside. And I don't think it's like coincidences come to you. It's more like that you're you're open to see it. Because if you're stuck in your how addiction or with this usual self sabotage or you like people don't like to change, you know, there's there's always you try. You have a certain way to approach things. And it's even if you think you're very open minded, at the end of the day, we all are stuck in certain ruts of thinking. And this is more like this reprogramming. What I talk about is is really to adjust your frequency and to get out of these interferences.

13:46 You know, like one day you think big, or on a good day you have the feeling, oh, I can achieve everything. But when you go to bad you know, the bad thoughts sneaking in and you start hesitating. And this is like for me already interference of these frequency. So for me, synchronicity in my words, is that you're inner reality defines your auto reality. And if you go also like I like also do because it's sometimes like this is like this woo woo, but I you know, woogle works somehow. And you know at this point in time. It's you know, when you get into on the field and start talking about frequencies and all of that. There's scientific basis now, so it's no longer wou Maybe a lot of people don't understand it, but it's no longer wool. But here here's the question I have for you. And this is something that I personally experienced, but I want your opinion on this. You know, as we think about synchronicity, and as you're talking, you talk about all these wonderful things that have happened and this just comes into your life and so on and so forth. What about the things that don't work so well? You went through a divorce? Okay, I've done that too, but you want her to watch.

15:03 Was that part of synchronicity you bring you to a different point in your life that another synchronousity came about and you ended up finding a greater sense of happiness. Yeah, you saw him a technical problem. I saw your husband there. If you're listening, please don't be insulted. I was a funny, funny thing. I was just talking at my birthday on twenty first. I was talking to a really old girlfriend of mine. We were talking about the whole story, and she also mentioned exactly that point. And me looking back now, you know, it was at that time when I made the decision, it was the right thing, you know. And I have two beautiful children, healthy intelligence, you know, like so nice and now when your husband, you know, we have a beautiful batchwork family.

16:03 And the best coincidence is that we had Our daughters are the same age, you know, so they are just nine months apart. So these two girls met and they are best friends since day number one. So what I have now is I have the best possibility, you know, because you know, we dispatch work stuff. You know, you have weekends with our children. You have weekends like now we have Easter holidays. All the kids are with us and we really enjoy it. The girls they are now up there there playing and everything is fine. And for me it was we were also talking with my husband now, is that if we had met maybe ten years ago, both of us, maybe if we have killed each other, I don't know, you know, we were too young, but we met at the at the stage of our lives where we were like he was abroad and we met on a higher level. We met just at a perfect time in our lives, So I know I'm a bit to get at the rest of our lives, but yeah.

17:10 Yeah, and I think I think that's important for people to understand. You know, so often we have things happen and people start to develop that attitude of being a victim, and you know, especially when you know, things happen that are not really within our desires for what we think is going to be an ideal life. And yet my experience has been over the years as I sit back and just accept what's happened, whether it's good, and you know, I appreciate the good and very grateful for that, and even when things happen that I hope not to happen, but as I can look back and you know, develop some gratitude for the experience and that and so forth. I think for people to understand that as they're living their life and as they can develop, as you say, that point of synchronicity and that energy and within yourself, that you're giving out that frequency of love, of kindness, of hope of success, and that type of thing that ultimately it comes about and patience, I think is an interesting topic because you as you talk about synchronicity, what would you say about patience.

18:19 This is my pain point, you know, because patience is not I don't I'm so unpatient. You cannot imagine, you know. This is I think this was just my biggest learning in my entire life because I hate patience, you know so, but I learned to accept it because, like I said, with the story with the boat, it was like really massive problems, natural disasters, but they led us in a in a in a new direction. I was never thinking about diving, and it's it's this is also the how addiction. If you stick to this how it's so it's exhausting, you can with hard work, you can if anything, sure, but there is there is somehow a leading and if you are this is this openness and this is this, This is this immense trust. There is always if there's this saying no, if like one door closes, another one opens.

19:16 And sometimes if if we are like we have these blinds. You don't you don't see all these possibilities and and effortless ways. You're stuck in your whatever you you think you have to do or And this is this openness and and also this accepting that if something ends, yeah, something better is on their way. Just Okay, So here's what comes to my mind. And I know that these are some of the talking points you had. So if someone is experiencing negativity in their life, okay, and they find that their self sabotaging, their synchronicity, if you want to call it, that is, bring about things that they don't want. You know, this is not the life that they want, and yet things are happening to them, and we could call that synchronicity. So my question is is do we actually based on who we are? And you know that gets into the whole concept of self transformation and so forth. But if we get to the point where we realize that what we are attracting is the energy that's coming from us as a magnet to bring that same energy back to us, then how do we how do we look at our lives and say, all right, this is not what I want in my life.

20:35 How do we change that internally to the point where we start giving out that energy, that frequency, to where that synchronicity is the things that are really positive in our life. How do we get rid of that self sabotaging and that type of situation. It's it's the inner work, and it's hard work in the beginning because for me, the thoughts you have they make like rats noise. It's like you're always in the same path somehow. To make a new one, you have to think a new thought again and again. But it's not like just thinking. It's also the emotion. And the emotion makes this develops this frequency. But you can feel it.

21:18 If somebody is in a bad mood, you immediately feel it. And if I'm in a bad mood, you know, like nothing, nothing works out. But I trained myself in the meantime, like so far. When I wake up in the morning and I had a maybe a bad night for me, it's already enough. I say, I love you know, I'm thankful, I love, I love and just wiping this laugh and I rebeat all my sentences and and I want to explain further my story a little bit because how it came to the book. There was another big learning and it was it was from this rock botton place because there was one point like everything was down. I kept the heart was after divorce. But I had to pay, you know, So I don't know in Hollywood women they often get a lot of money. But I had to pay, you know. So there was really a point I remember very well, and it was the end of twenty nineteen.

22:13 I had no eye here anymore. How to feed my kids? You know? I was like, my good, like really how And then I remember I was sitting in my kitchen and I was already this is also a point when you're like when you lost everything, and there is a point when you don't care anymore because it just doesn't matter anymore, you know, what other people think or whatever. And I remember I was sitting in my kitchen and I thought, Okay, what do I really want? And I thought by myself, okay, because with the jewelry, I had to go to exhibitions, you know, to sell it. And I said, I don't want to go to ere. I'm tired of it. For me, the best thing just to sell it online.

22:59 You know. I had a web prop from the beginning, but it was just like a side business for me. The best like just online. I don't want to do anything outside anymore. And then it was I think a book or I don't know. Then this second word came to my mind after synchronicity, when I realized that I'm the problem, you know, because I'm the problem because I'm already like, well I don't want and nothing works. And there was this scaling, you know, so I realized, okay, so is my brand scalable. Yes, but it's only scalable if it's an online business. And I think to sell jewelry at that time was probably it was not common to sell jewelry online. But anyway, I thought, okay, I'm make an online shop. And this is I think where synchronicity kicked in again, because I was at that time, I was suddenly so clear, because it was I was lying on my couch basically one year and thinking about everything what went wrong. So I was like I was empty, empty of all the thinking, and I think I did two phone choirs and I was I saw it on Instagram, a young company, and I called them and they said, no, they cannot tell me because my brand is already developed. I need somebody for the scaling. Okay, again, the scaling, and they gave me a telephone number from one guy in Munich, thinking, oh my god, in Munich, so I cannot catch this guy if he's like a fraud. Anyway, I call him and it was so nice and then he said okay,

24:30 and I was sitting. This is the story in my kitchen because I was sitting there and I said, so I write down, now what do I want? And I wrote down I want. This was January. I said in March I want ten thousand Europe and six months later I want one hundred thousand Europe per month. So this is my scaling. And when I was talking to this guy, he was like, okay, if you want to do this kind of nows, you need to do Facebook advertise edson. I was. It was the same with diving. The only thing for me, like God, Marsuckaburg, you know. Facebook. But anyway, somehow I thought, Okay, if I have to do it, I do it. But I don't want to have an agency. So I decided with my last money. I didn't have this last money, but I told the guy, okay, I cannot be effecting nine thousand euro. He wanted to have for a coaching, a coaching to teach me to do the Facebook ads by myself, and I said, I don't have this nine thousand right now, but maybe we can make like a part payments and if he trusts in his knowledge, you know, it should work. And it was really like that. We started and again for me, I don't know, maybe are these natural disasters, maybe are there my thing? But this was exactly the time when Corona kicked in, Corona hit the world, exactly when I finished my new web shop and I started and we had one picture it and it went viral. It was seriously, it was. It was crazy like that. So I went from zero in January

26:03 to it was a little bit more than ten thousand, and in June or July we hit one hundred thousand per months turned over with this little bracelet lets and everybody in the bidding was like, you are selling Bali bracelets over now? Yes, I think I sold more than a million of the bracelets. Wow. And now that the big thing come and then I wrote my next Okay, for sure, I met my soulmate in between. This was also a kind of formula. But the funny thing was last year, it was again ten years I did the tuilery business, and I was like, I was tired, you know, I had no ideas anymore for new collections, and I saw it it's going down slowly because if you're not enthusiastic.

26:55 So last March I sold it and it was exactly I think it was twenty three days exactly from the day I wrote down this is my my synchronicity formula. It's like, you're just that target, you know. So I wrote down, the perfect buyer is going to finds me. He's not interested in statistics or numbers. He just he sees the potential of the brand and you just want to have it. Because in the beginning, when I had the first time and I said I want to sell it. You know, this is what I call it, ambient noise, like people around you. I had a business consult and he was like, oh, you cannot sell a business like this because it's a niche market and it's a little bit spiritual, you know, and it's it's like branded with your personality and it takes at least a year. And this e commerce agency they thought, oh, no, you need to make like a much better business plan and everything.

27:49 And I was like, really no, I just want to sell it. I would just want I want this buyer who just wants to have it. And it was really exactly twenty three days later, the contract was signed and the money was on my account. It was a six figure number, you know for this brand. It was not just but it was again. It was so crazy. And that time the second part of my former level was I wanted to write a book, but I wanted to write a fantasy and nover something like The he Tracker's Guide to the Galaxy was something. You know, I wanted to write something really funny, but I was I think it was jumping around in my garden for like one or two months, like she did. I did it again and then and then I decided not to write this fantasy novel. I said, I have somehow I have. I have to share my story because I just for me.

28:43 It was just like I didn't want to share too much personal details. But then I decided no, it's it's just too good. It's too good not to share. And you know what, when you share your story, it's something that people identify with. Yeah. I said, hey, if you can do it, I can do it type of thing. But you know you've mentioned the super synchronousity formula. What I'm love way to do is slow down a little bit and just talk step by step. What is that formula for the audience to understand? In this formula, I just it's the it's the essence of all what has happened to me to figure out how to turn it around again, because I think it's interesting if you don't if you don't have this luck, or if you think like awe, for me, it doesn't work anyway. So how you get it? And the way I got it back and the way I repeated it is the formula. So it's I made it. It's basically it's my story and just to explain the people. But I kept it. I kept it simple, you know, and I kept it it's like really a work book without unnecessary blah blah, because I hate it when people talk around like ten times the same thing. So it's a step by step introduction to your own synchronicity formula because you have to write your own formal and for sure,

30:14 I think it's nine steps. For sure, it's the usual stuff. In the beginning. You have to look at your beliefs, you have to look at your inner child. But what I figured out is for me, the most important is the how addiction to get rid of this. So I have a few steps to get rid of this how addiction. Then the self sabotage, because I saw that always just short before you reach your target, the self sabotage kicks in. But on the other hand, you're on this world long enough to know to know is this. Sometimes it's just a phone call you don't want to make, or you're not meeting some people. It's little things, but you don't do it, and you have to. I call it the self sabotage hunting season. And even also like the inner child, but because I figured out so many books about the inner child. But it's so hard, you know, so hard to remember what really happened to you. So for me, I do things like I just tell the people to you take your inner child. You imagine your child, yourself as a child, and you take your inner child on your hand, and you explain that you come along. You just take it with you, you know, just without the whole thing around. And the same thing is with the beliefs.

31:34 I think it's impossible to get rid of all your old blocking beliefs because they are they are in the some subconsciousness are so deep. So my formula is really an overwriting. So you go through, go through all the steps, you make like a clean up, but the rest is like really an overwriting of your inner a new identity, and it's it's a mind game of somehow you explain your inner child what a what all good, the good all had all happened already. And the same thing is you call in your future self, so the future you who reached or succeed already. So this is like a somehow, an inner dialogue where you can help yourself to get into this thing. But at the end of the workbook, when you go through the steps, you have a certain things to fill out and then you create your own formulattices.

32:37 If you repeat it, it's not more than one minute on two. But the inner work is you have in the beginning, you have to repeat it all the time. The bad thing is like hourly when I did it for the to sell my jewelry business, I tell him my husband, he was already really concerned because he thought I'm sick or something. And this is also you should not talk too much about it. This is this is your very personal inner work. Because I saw you know, as soon as somebody is telling you his opinion, you know this, it ticks you back like a week again. So this is something you do with yourself. And he was really about asking me several times, is everything okay with us? You know you're not feeling well, because yeah, it was like for sure more than a week relying around, listening to some things and repeating, repeating, repeating. And this is this is the only work you have to do.

33:32 And this is also that you make it in my in my workbook, you have to make a contract with yourself because what I saw always I have many wishes, but there is always a certain decision point and this is the decision you do have to I do this now you know this, and this is something really important. Is this the point of decision? And then you go for it? Well? And I love how you talk about rewriting. You know. One of the things that I've read in a little bit about is that, and I've heard other people talk about this, is that we are the creator of the movie of our life, and if we do not like that movie, we can go in and edit and rewrite.

34:13 And I think that's really important for people to understand that we are the ones that can rewrite our lives. We're the ones that can create the outcome for us that we want to have. And now your book is called super synchronicity, right, and obviously yeah, you can hold enough. I did not have to because I think it's so happy. You know, yeah, I love the picture. I love the picture. But anyway, you've got that it's a workbook for people, so that as they go through, and as you say, it's individual for everyone, so you can't just generalize, but it's something that people will get that they can literally go through and work through that and create their own formula.

34:58 And as they do that, as they start to develop the mindset of rewriting their life, rewriting those negative self sabotaging imprints and things like that, that they can literally get to the point where they are creating the life that they're really looking for. And as you say, all of a sudden, all of these things start to come and we label it as synchronicity. A lot of people label it as luck, but that's not what it is. It's synchronicity because we have put out the frequency for that and therefore we have attracted that back. So as we close, what I'd love for you to do is kind of share with the audience what would be a final message that you'd like to share with them.

35:42 My final message is what I think is the most important for everyone, is this trust in yourself. You know that this is like a short checkup. Whatever you do, just hold on a second and think about it. And I really there is like a yes or no inside you and this is the only voice you should trust. This is really just trust yourself, trust yourself and trust your feeling. Yeah, I love it. And how do people find you? And how do they find your book? Yeah, it's a website Supersynchronicity dot com. But right now it's in it's on Amazon the English version.

36:24 Yeah, okay, and I know your website is super Synchronicity dot com. And then you have forward slash English Ian. And then do you have it in another language too? Yeah? If you if you just put the com you come to the you're reaching the German version. Then there's a there's a button to come to the English but it's obvious you can see it on the first first side. So now where are you living? Now? Are you where are you at now? Yeah? I exchange the boat to an Austrian farmhouse in the countryside. So you're enjoying the nature of farming. Right. Oh, that's great, that's great. Hey, well, Suzanne, thanks so much. This has been fascinating and I love your journey and what you've gone through. And obviously you know you've gone through some difficult times as you say that bout business ultimately went wayward, and you know you ended up having to change relationships all of those type of things. But here you are now as I can see, just happy, enjoy us and loving life. And I think for people to understand that, you know what, regardless of what comes our way, if we just keep focusing and developed that inner energy and inner frequency of happiness and joy and success in our lives however, that looks for individuals that ultimately we can achieve that. So thank you so much for sharing.

37:54 Thank you too, and folks. Thanks for listening. I hope you enjoyed this. Look forward to having you join us again soon. So this is doctor Doug saying, not a stay